BDSM Reimagined

Please rate our show! It helps us more than you know. (00:55) Fantasy (05:12) Upbringing (40:39) Fantasy Analysis (51:00) Final Thoughts Our sexual fantasies can seem quite arbitrary, unrelated to other parts of our life. But in Season 4, Indy and Michael are out to prove this wrong. In this episode we meet Michaelsmacro, a fellow kinkster who is into macrophilia - a fascination with or a sexual f...

Please rate our show! It helps us more than you know. (00:21) Fantasy and Analysis (30:40) Final Thoughts On part two of 'Why Do I Want to be a 24/7 Slave?', we journey with Derrick as we dive deep into his sexual fantasy. Here, we make connections between his past revealing there is more to fantasies than we think. Be sure to tune to Indy and Michael's summary from 30:45. Derrick'...

Please rate our show! It helps us more than you know. (00:38) Intro (02:12) Upbringing Our sexual fantasies can seem quite arbitrary, unrelated to other parts of our life. But in Season 4, Indy and Michael are out to prove this wrong. In this two part episode we meet Derrick. Derrick's fantasy of being a 24/7 slave is surprisingly common. When Michael and Indy talk with Derrick, we learn very...

Please rate our show! It helps us more than you know. (02:42) Michael's Update (22:55) Indy's Update In our first catch-up episode of the season, we find out a little more about what is happening in Michael and Indy's current life. We learn about Michael's new relationship and how being a sub is turning out to be an incredible learning journey. We also find out more about how Micha...

For adult listening only. Season 4: Release on May 1st, 2023. We often think our sexual fantasies are random, that they are just a set of arousing ideas that come from nowhere. Well, in Season 4 of BDSM Reimagined, Indy and Michael are out to test this. We take a deep dive into the lives of our guests to discover that, perhaps our fantasies are not so random after all. That maybe the ideas and the...

This podcast is only suitable for adults. Please rate our podcast! It really helps. Join Indy and Michael in this Season 3 bonus episode. Here we recap and explore some missing pieces of our desire for kink. We ask how unrelenting standards play a role in informing our need to submit or dominate. Originally we intended to release this as a videocast; however, due to various circumstances this is y...

This podcast is only suitable for adults. Please rate our podcast! It really helps. (00:36) Michael's Update (26:02) Indy's Update Join Indy and Michael in this season finale. We ramble about the position we now find ourselves in relation to BDSM. Given the insights surrounding shame, where does this lead Michael and Indy respectively? Contact us via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music f...

This podcast is only suitable for adults. Please rate our podcast! It really helps. Join us this week as Indy and Michael look at how Michael ended up in the situation he finds himself today. Michael relates somewhat to Indy when she speaks about being in the BDSM scene as a result of feeling so defeated by dating apps. He also speaks about his time as a Buddhist and how the fall of this triggered...

This podcast is only suitable for adults. Please rate our podcast! It really helps. Join us this week as Indy and Michael laugh...and look at how Indy ended up here! Indy talks about being in the BDSM scene but feeling so defeated by dating apps, dating, vanilla and even kink. Indy describes her sexual revolution and disentangling of "the triangle" - sex, love and intimacy. This led for...

This podcast is only suitable for adults. Please rate our podcast! It really helps. Join Michael and Indy this week as they delve into Indy's cuckholding fantasy. Indy draws links between the symbols in her fantasy and how they relate to feelings of safety in her intimate connections with men - particularly within the lens of shame and defectiveness schemas. Contact us via email: bdsmreimagine...

This podcast is only suitable for adults. Please rate our podcast! It really helps. In this episode, Michael goes deep. And we mean deep! Michael and Indy explore an old submissive fantasy of Michael's that built up over years talking online with a dominant that lived across the world. Through text, Michael explored some of his most intimate ideas, only to now understand them on a whole new le...

This podcast is only suitable for adults. Please rate our podcast! It really helps. (00:10) Intro (01:24) Quick Fire Questions (09:04) Main Kinks (11:58) Upbringing (37:30) Why are you dominant not submissive? / Analysis Join us this week as we interview World Boss Alpha - a Dom with refreshing insight and self awareness in his exploration of kink. We were particularly fascinated when he was able...

This podcast is only suitable for adults. Please rate our podcast! It really helps. In this episode... Are you a dom because you think you are superior to others? Or are you deflecting from historical trauma - a way of avoiding deeper, more sinister truths about your life and the person you think you are? And if so, is this necessarily a bad thing? Could it be considered a healthy way to cope and...

This podcast is only suitable for adults. Please rate our podcast! It really helps. Join Michael and Indy this week as they delve into Indy's upbringing. Indy discusses patterns in her upbringing which fuelled the defectiveness and shame schema possibly leading to her interest in dominating men. Contact us via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License cod...

This podcast is only suitable for adults. Please rate our podcast! It really helps. (01:15) Michael's Update (15:10) Indy's Update Join Michael and Indy as they ramble! Today we get straight into it. Michael describes a session with a sub who likes to be degraded for looking scruffy and wearing torn clothes. The session went into some unexpected directions, including pup play. Michael says...

This podcast is only suitable for adults. Please rate our podcast! It really helps. (03:45) Quick Fire Questions (09:08) Main Kinks (10:05) Upbringing and Current Life Join Indy and Michael this week as they interview RJ aka, Trackies For Life. RJ has become a sensation on Instagram in the kink community. His main intention is to be real, and show sides of his kink freely. This is worlds apart fro...

This podcast is only suitable for adults. Please rate our podcast! It really helps. Join Indy and Michael this week as they discuss the deeper reasons driving submission. There is an invisible part driving submission, the defectiveness schema. We bring together life history which shapes and drives this belief, and takes such forms as "I'm not good enough, I'm bad." This belief ex...

This podcast is only suitable for adults. Please rate our podcast! It really helps. Join Michael and Indy this week as they go deeper into Michael's history with his family. Indy outlines how we develop a blue print in how we connect and love. We discuss Bowen family systems theory, which helps to describe dynamics in families. Seeing the family as a system, an interconnected network. If we ha...

This podcast is only suitable for adults. Please rate our podcast! It really helps. In this up-close and personal episode, the focus is on Michael. We go deep into his relationship history to help set the scene for how shame plays a role in his kink today (reference Episode 4, Season 3). Michael talks about his past relationships through the lens of a particular tendency - never feeling good enoug...

This podcast is only suitable for adults. Please rate our podcast! It really helps. (02:00) Indy's Update (04:30) Michael's Update Indy and Michael kick off Season 3! It's been a while and we are so excited to be back. Both Indy and Michael had their interest in kink wax and wane over the past months. Indy was dealing with life and had her resources devoted elsewhere. Michael describes...

Listeners, we are thrilled to announce the coming of Season 3. This time around, we will be putting shame and defectiveness under the microscope, seeing how they could be informing your relationship with sex. To do this, Michael and Indy will be the guinea pigs - delivering an intimate account of their relationships and family history to map out exactly how shame and defective narratives play a ro...

This podcast is only suitable for adults. Please rate our podcast! It really helps. Indy and Michael return to the question they were unpacking last season: can we ever go back to being purely vanilla? Do we need to be in a kink relationship? In this episode Indy and Michael get honest and really delve into the impacts of being in the kink world. Is it worth it? Join us to find out what they uncov...

This podcast is only suitable for adults. Please rate our podcast! It really helps. (00:30) Intro (00:42) Indy's Update (29:10) Michael's Update Join Indy and Michael today as they ramble! We've decided to put our feet up, throw the script out the window and just talk... Indy admits to the extent of her current Dom frenzy. Sex, toys, numerous submissives and lots of fun. Meanwhile, Mic...

This podcast is only suitable for adults. Please rate our podcast! It really helps. Join us as we reflect on our previous episode. Contact us via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

This podcast is only suitable for adults. Please rate our podcast! It really helps. Join us this week as we discuss why it is that we dominate. Indy starts off by describing a recent session with her sub in which Indy ordered her sub to be a captive slave for 24 hours. She restrained him to her bed, teased him with edge play and got him to do his overdue taxes!? Indy describes a new intention to h...