BDE: Books, Dating and Everything

Books, Dating & Everything: House Hunting, Spicy Reads, and the “Life Coach Dom” Idea Rachel and Jessica introduce their podcast BDE, sharing their love of spicy books, chaotic dating stories, and deep conversations. They catch up on real life—Jessica is exhausted from staying up reading, and Rachel shares the excitement and stress of buying her first house and moving after 10 years, including dec...

But first let’s be friends: Instagram TikTok Spiders, Online Dating Chaos, and Our Game On (Navea Allen) Book Talk | BDE Podcast Rachel and Jessica introduce their podcast BDE, a weekly show about books, dating, and relationships, then spiral into a long, funny conversation about spiders—Rachel claims she can “feel” when one is nearby, recounts finding a huge spider after a bath, and admits she va...

But first let’s be friends! Instagram TikTok Embarrassing Things, Cringey Pet Names & Why Dark Romance Isn’t Shameful | BDE Podcast Rachel and Jessica introduce BDE, a podcast about books, dating, and life, then dive into “things that are embarrassing for no reason,” including small talk, paying with cash, nail salon chair massages, bowling walk-backs, parallel parking, checking mail with someone...

Follow us on our socials Instagram TicTok Dr. Thick Thighs & Why Harry Styles Is a Walking Green Flag Rachel and Jessica introduce their BDE podcast about books, dating, and real-life relationship talk, then share a chaotic story about Rachel’s first chiropractor visit in 15 years at Jessica’s office, where she arrives sweaty in a sweatsuit with no underwear, gets unexpectedly intense adjustments,...

Panic Ordering Pizza, The Grapes Debate, and Our Unfiltered “Weathering Heights” Review (Spoilers!) Rachel and Jessica introduce their BDE podcast, then Rachel shares a night out with coworkers at psychic comedian Peter Antonio’s show, including her panic-ordering and a disastrous sticky chicken-slab pizza that made her realize she “builds” perfect bites and is picky about textures (sparking a deb...

But first! Let’s be friends! Instagram TikTok Gentle Parenting vs Permissive Parenting, a Wild Mom Storytime + Fantasy & Spicy Book Updates Rachel and Jessica return to their podcast BDE (books, dating, and everything in between) after a break and announce they’ll be releasing episodes every other week to make the schedule more sustainable. They share a parenting story where Rachel, overstimulated...

But first! Let’s be friends: Instagram TikTok Exploring 'Promise Me' with Author Sarah Kate | BDE Podcast Join hosts Rachel and Jessica on BDE as they dive into an engaging conversation with their favorite author, Sarah Kate. They discuss her upcoming book 'Promise Me,' set to release on February 10th, featuring beloved characters Declan and Colin. The trio shares their excitement about the book's...

But first! Let’s be friends! Instagram TikTok Hair Confessions: Awkward Salon Stories, Transformation Haircuts, and Personal Growth Join Rachel and Jessica in a lively episode of 'BDE: Books, Dating & Everything' where they dive into all things hair! From awkward salon stories and transformation haircuts to deep conversations about self-expression and personal growth, this episode is packed with l...

But first, let’s be friends! Instagram TikTok Listening to Your Body: Why Self-Care Matters In this episode of BDE, Rachel and Jessica talk about the importance of listening to your body and understanding when it's time to rest. They share their own experiences with burnout, self-care strategies, and the pressures of societal expectations. From spontaneous mall outings to the power of a good screa...

But first! Let’s be friends! Follow us on our socials Instagram TikTok From Spicy Reads to Self-Pleasure: Exploring Books, Dating, & Everything in Between Join Rachel and Jessica on BDE where they discuss everything from their love for spicy books and chaotic dating stories to deeper conversations about love and relationships. In this week's episode, they cover a variety of topics, including an em...

Books, Dating, and Everything in Between: 2026 Kickoff with Rachel & Jessica Let’s be friends! Follow us on our socials! Instagram TikTok In this episode of BDE (Books, Dating, and Everything in Between), hosts Rachel and Jessica welcome listeners to the new year, 2026. They dive into various discussions ranging from their chaotic but endearing morning prep routines to indulgent holiday reflection...

But first! Follow us on our socials! Instagram TikTok Memories & Mishaps: Hilarious Trip Stories and New Year Reflections Join us in this hilarious and heartwarming episode as we recount our favorite memories and mishaps of the past year. From unforgettable trips and spontaneous tattoos to explosive drinks and awkward encounters, we dive into the essence of true friendship and the joy of shared ex...

Follow us on our socials! Instagram TikTok In this episode of ‘BDE,’ best friends Rachel and Jessica dive deep into the chaotic world of dating mishaps and book recs. Get ready for a wild ride as Rachel recounts a disastrous date filled with car wreck near-misses and endless monologues about Houdini. The duo then transitions into compiling their ‘Naughty and Nice’ book lists of the year, juxtaposi...

Follow us on our socials! Instagram TikTok In this episode of BDE, Rachel and Jessica uncover a series of chaotic and hilarious dating experiences that range from a man revealing his wife left him for another woman on a first date to an impromptu toe-show. They also delve deep into the emotional rollercoaster of modern dating and the confusion around post-date texting etiquette. The duo wraps up t...

Follow us on our socials! Instagram TikTok Join Jess and Rachel for an entertaining and candid chat as they reveal personal stories, including a hilarious bug incident and an intriguing 'scientific anomaly' tale. They share random facts about themselves, discuss past jobs, and explore their hobbies like ice skating and tarot reading. Dive into their favorite book recommendations and enjoy their am...

Follow us on our socials! Instagram TikTok Youtube In this episode, Rachel and Jessica discuss two intriguing books, 'Soul Searching' and 'Pen Pal,' both featuring paranormal elements. They delve into the captivating storylines and the spicy romance, sharing their thoughts and favorite moments from the books. Transitioning from book talk to ghost stories, they share their own eerie experiences wit...

Join Rachel and Jessica in this episode of BDE as they delve into their personal journeys of healing, growth, and evolving together. They discuss the importance of acknowledging one's past, the power of self-help tools like the Enneagram, and how important it is to go beyond talk therapy. They share insights about moving from victim mentality to becoming the empowered creators of their own lives,...

Join Rachel and Jessica in this heartfelt episode of BDE where they dive deep into the complex issues of body image, dieting, and the journey towards radical self-acceptance. They share personal stories about growing up with body insecurities, experiences with various diets, and the impact of societal expectations on their self-worth. The conversation also covers how the media and social environme...

Story Time Chaos: First Shaves, Awkward Kisses, and Wardrobe Malfunctions Join Rachel and Jessica on this hilarious and relatable episode of BDE (Books, Dating, and Everything) as they dive into some light-hearted story time. Listen as they share uproarious tales from their past, including their first experiences with shaving, memorable kisses, period mishaps, run-ins with the law, embarrassing wa...

In this episode of BDE (Books, Dating, and Everything), Rachel and Jessica dive into the complex and alarming world of the 'Red Pill' and 'Manosphere' ideologies proliferating online. They discuss the male loneliness epidemic, toxic masculinity, and the dangerous narratives that blame women for men's issues. The conversation moves through personal experiences, expert insights, and reflections on h...

In this episode, Jessica talks about her decision to join Tinder after spending two years exclusively on Hinge. They explore the differences between the two apps, share humorous anecdotes, and examine profiles together while navigating the confusing aspects of Tinder. Rachel also shares her personal dating experiences and advice, including questions she asked herself before committing to her now-h...

Rachel and Jessica introduce their podcast BDE (Books, Dating, and Everything). They discuss their love for Taylor Swift, how they became fans, and the profound emotional connections fans have to her music. The conversation shifts to Taylor Swift-themed events and a powerful collective experience where women shared personal traumas by writing names on a white dress, symbolizing release and healing...

In this episode Rachel and Jess passionately review Sarah Kate's latest book, 'The Good Girl Effect,' sharing their love for the author's writing style and the deep connection they feel with her characters. The hosts recount their serendipitous encounter with Sarah Kate during a fun-filled day in Sacramento, discussing their experience of meeting her and the humorous, awkward moments that ensued....

Books, Dating and Everything: Am I the asshole? Story time with Rachel and Jess Rachel and Jessica kick off their podcast 'BDE: Books, Dating, and Everything' with humorous introductions and a lively discussion about an unexpected beach conflict during a family outing. This episode also explores the toil women endure to prepare for dates and a hilariously painful first sugaring experience. The hos...

In this episode Rachel and Jessica are talking all things audiobooks! They explore whether listening to audiobooks is the same as reading. They share personal anecdotes, their favorite narrators like Jacob Morgan and Teddy Hamilton, and opinions on various audiobook formats, including duet styles and dramatized versions. The discussion also touches on the practicality and enjoyment of audiobooks i...