Mayer Kiss

Bayis Pnimi [men]

Health EN ↓ 384 episodes

In addition to the many public shiurim on Sholom bayis & life topics (https://shalom-bayit.castos.com), we are presenting here more personalized shiurim on intimacy & marriage topics with practical exercises for men & women separately. Ideally, husbands should join men's forum, and the wives the women's forum, but there are also countless benefits if only one joins. Email for questions and feedback is sholombayis777@gmail.com, or to reach out via whatsapp at 1 347 578 0669

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Ep. 184 - (BPM #66) Protecting yourselves with strong boundaries in regards to drinking; physical contact in the niddah period; social media and the importance of watching your eyes, which we emphasized to the wives as well. 12.11.2023 21:45

(BPM #66). protecting yourselves with strong boundaries in regards to drinking; physical contact in the niddah period; social media and the importance of watching your eyes, which we emphasized to the wives as well; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Ep. 183 - (BPJ #70) Marital Intimacy #3. 08.11.2023 21:33

(BPJ #70). Marital Intimacy #3. Torah perspective on human sexuality; what is the Torah view on physical pleasures; powerful yesod of the Meshech Chochma on this subject; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Ep. 182 - (BPJ #69) Marital Intimacy #2. 05.11.2023 19:08

(BPJ #69). Marital Intimacy #2. Torah perspective on human sexuality; why is Chinuch in these areas crucial; how misplaced shame holds back people from giving our sons and daughters the proper Chinuch in this area; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Ep. 181 - (EX #29) Harchakos on Yom Kippur and Tisha B’Av. Insight from Rav. Cahan 01.11.2023 6:58

(EX #29). Harchakos on Yom Kippur and Tisha B’Av. Insight from Rav. Cahan Harchakos on Yom Kippur and Tisha B’Av: Yom Kippur: At Night and by Day; Like Niddah and Harchakos; Tisha B’Av: At Night: Like Niddah; By Day: Ok Hoshata (to Pass); No Negiya; NO TASHMISH ACCORDING TO KABALA ON THESE YOMIM TOVIM: Leil 1 of PESACH; Leil 2 (in Chutz LaAretz): Machlokes; 3 YEMEI HAGBALA (3 days before Shvuos):...

Ep. 180 - (BPJ #68) Marital Intimacy #1. 29.10.2023 20:10

(BPJ #68). Marital Intimacy #1. torah perspective on human sexuality; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Ep. 179 - (BPJ #67) The inner dimension of physical intimacy; this shiur while very important and fundamental, and needs to be given, one should wait to listen to it for a night when physical intimacy takes place; because ... 25.10.2023 20:15

(BPJ #67). the inner dimension of physical intimacy; this shiur while very important and fundamental, and needs to be given, one should wait to listen to it for a night when physical intimacy takes place; because for many, aspects of this shiur could be triggering; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Ep. 178 - (BPM #65a) The power, gift and responsibility of touch; how strong boundaries promotes physical and emotional health and allows marriages to thrive. (Rav Cahan) 22.10.2023 2:00

(BPM #65a). the power, gift and responsibility of touch; how strong boundaries promotes physical and emotional health and allows marriages to thrive; Insight from Rav. Cahan on BPM # 65 http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/teshuva.pdf Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Ep. 177 - (BPM #65) The power, gift and responsibility of touch; how strong boundaries promotes physical and emotional health and allows marriages to thrive. 18.10.2023 16:54

(BPM #65). the power, gift and responsibility of touch; how strong boundaries promotes physical and emotional health and allows marriages to thrive; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Ep. 176 - (BPJ #66) (SB # 422); understanding dynamics of physical desire for a couples can heal their marriages in this area of their lives. 15.10.2023 16:39

(BPJ #66). (SB # 422); understanding dynamics of physical desire for a couples can heal their marriages in this area of their lives; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Ep. 175 - (BPM #64) There is always the gift of renewal in marriage; physical intimacy looked at as a "mitzvah" the right way increases joy and pleasure; sexual desire is designed by Hashem, is good, but needs to be channeled. 11.10.2023 16:51

(BPM #64). there is always the gift of renewal in marriage; physical intimacy looked at as a "mitzvah" the right way increases joy and pleasure; sexual desire is designed by Hashem, is good, but needs to be channeled; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Ep. 174 - (BPJ #65) Real rhythm of healthy marriage relationship. Part 2. 09.10.2023 18:33

(BPJ #65). Real rhythm of healthy marriage relationship. Part 2. avoiding the 5 adaptive child ways of dealing with conflict; activating your wise adult-self will reveal Hashem's great Beracha in your marriage; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Ep. 173 - (BPM #63) Healthy balance in regards to physical enhancement (wearing lingerie); trying new things (sexual experimentation); physical beauty and being sexually suggestive is important, but not to be taken to extremes. 04.10.2023 21:31

(BPM #63). healthy balance in regards to physical enhancement (wearing lingerie); trying new things (sexual experimentation); physical beauty and being sexually suggestive is important, but not to be taken to extremes; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Ep. 172 - (BPJ #64) Real rhythm of healthy marriage relationship. Part 1. 02.10.2023 16:37

(BPJ #64). Real rhythm of healthy marriage relationship. Part 1. recognizing that the "disillusionment" phase is normal and healthy; skill of your wise adult self to get past it and back to deep closeness; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Ep. 171 - (BPM #62) Rav Yaakov Emden on intimacy; avoiding negative unhealthy understanding of busha (shame), ; and seeking guidance for the balance of the 2 extremes of overindulgence and excessive stringencies. 27.09.2023 20:16

(BPM #62). Rav Yaakov Emden on intimacy; avoiding negative unhealthy understanding of busha (shame), ; and seeking guidance for the balance of the 2 extremes of overindulgence and excessive stringencies; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Ep. 170 - (BPJ #63) Combining the 2 aspects of boundaries (walled off vs. boundaryless) and self-esteem (shame vs. grandiosity) to create 4 quadrants and to identify yourselves so as to self-correct. 20.09.2023 19:58

(BPJ #63). combining the 2 aspects of boundaries (walled off vs. boundaryless) and self-esteem (shame vs. grandiosity) to create 4 quadrants and to identify yourselves so as to self-correct; http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/Grid_Handout_for_Real_Perel_Telelclass_1_.pdf Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 06...

Ep. 169 - (BPM #61a) The joy and mystique of intimacy. (Rav Cahan) 18.09.2023 4:57

(BPM #61a). the joy and mystique of intimacy; Insight from Rav. Cahan on BPM # 61 Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Ep. 168 - (BPM #61) The joy and mystique of intimacy. 13.09.2023 18:48

(BPM #61). the joy and mystique of intimacy; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Ep. 167 - (BPJ #62) Boundaries; walled off vs. boundaryless, and skill to reach healthy middle road; real intimacy (both physical and emotional) can only be reached if a spouse attains this balance. 10.09.2023 19:55

(BPJ #62). boundaries; walled off vs. boundaryless, and skill to reach healthy middle road; real intimacy (both physical and emotional) can only be reached if a spouse attains this balance; http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/Grid_Handout_for_Real_Perel_Telelclass_1_.pdf Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 066...

Ep. 166 - (BPM #60) The positive effect of watching your eyes, not just spiritually, but physically beneficial for sexual intimacy in marriage; dangers of pornography harming sexual health in marriage. 06.09.2023 18:20

(BPM #60). the positive effect of watching your eyes, not just spiritually, but physically beneficial for sexual intimacy in marriage; dangers of pornography harming sexual health in marriage; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Ep. 165 - (BPJ #61) One is blocked from being intimate with your spouse if you have excess grandiosity or shame; how to heal from these extremes and be in that middle healthy zone which will heal your marriage, and your love for each 03.09.2023 16:43

(BPJ #61). one is blocked from being intimate with your spouse if you have excess grandiosity or shame; how to heal from these extremes and be in that middle healthy zone which will heal your marriage, and your love for each other will grow; http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/Grid_Handout_for_Real_Perel_Telelclass_1_.pdf Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail....

Ep. 164 - (BPM #59) Not to misuse the concept of isha kesheira doing the will of the husband; working towards aligning with each other sexually; avoiding unhealthy perfectionism; healing aspects of sexual intimacy when used correctly. 30.08.2023 19:46

(BPM #59). not to misuse the concept of isha kesheira doing the will of the husband; working towards aligning with each other sexually; avoiding unhealthy perfectionism; healing aspects of sexual intimacy when used correctly; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Ep. 163 - (BPJ #60a) Anava (Humbleness) - Ga’ava (Haughtiness). (Rav Cahan) 29.08.2023 4:55

(BPJ #60a). Anava (Humbleness) - Ga’ava (Haughtiness); Insight from Rav. Cahan on BPJ # 60 Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Ep. 162 - (BPJ #60) Shame and grandiosity (arrogance) and to work toward the healthy middle self-esteem, and how this work heals your marriage. 27.08.2023 17:55

(BPJ #60). shame and grandiosity (arrogance) and to work toward the healthy middle self-esteem, and how this work heals your marriage; http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/Grid_Handout_for_Real_Perel_Telelclass_1_.pdf Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Ep. 161 - (BPM #58) Elevating your thoughts for physical intimacy; concepts of after chatzos and Friday nights; avoiding perfectionism in marriage; sexual maturity and responsibility increases pleasure and enjoyment, not decreasing it 24.08.2023 17:54

(BPM #58). elevating your thoughts for physical intimacy; concepts of after chatzos and Friday nights; avoiding perfectionism in marriage; sexual maturity and responsibility increases pleasure and enjoyment, not decreasing it; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Ep. 160 - (EX #28) Regarding Tefilah for Men prior to intimacy and important concepts to always keep in mind. 22.08.2023 12:49

(EX #28). regarding Tefilah for Men prior to intimacy and important concepts to always keep in mind; http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/TefillahForMenBeforeIntimacy.pdf Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.