Bare Marriage

Send us Fan Mail Should we kiss dating good-bye? In purity culture, we made dating a sin. But what does the data actually say about how dating affects teen girls? In today's Bare Marriage podcast, we share our findings from our survey of 7000 women! Things Mentioned in the Podcast: Our new book She Deserves Better , which launches April 18! It helps us immensely when you pre-order ! Sign up f...

Send us Fan Mail Links to things mentioned: Our Patreon that helps support our podcast ! You can join for as little as $5 a month! There's unfiltered podcasts, our exclusive Facebook group (it's really active!), merch, and more! Exodus Cry . Check out the organization and see what they're doing! See how to get involved (it's easy!). Join the fight against PornHub, sign petition...

Send us Fan Mail Today I want to tell you the story of an amazing woman who was the victim of her marriage AND her church that knew all the gory details, and yet chose to put her under discipline when she decided to end the marriage. TRIGGER WARNING In the first half of the podcast there is graphic descriptions of what her husband did to her. I did mention during the podcast when this was about to...

Send us Fan Mail Links to things mentioned: Our Patreon! Our research relies on your support, and we're doing two huge new research projects this year. Join us on Patreon! Ngina Otiende: https://intentionaltoday.com/  https://twitter.com/NginaOtiende Philip Payne's new book The Bible vs. Biblical Womanhood ( available for pre-order now !) Other books by Philip Payne, including Man and Wo...

Send us Fan Mail Links to things mentioned: Our Patreon! Our research relies on your support, and we're doing two huge new research projects this year. Join us on Patreon! Philip Payne's new book The Bible vs. Biblical Womanhood ( available for pre-order now !) Other books by Philip Payne, including Man and Woman, One in Christ: An Exegetical and Theological Study of Paul's Letters...

Send us Fan Mail Links to things mentioned: Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month , and you can get access to our awesome Facebook group, our unfiltered podcasts, and more! This is the LAST WEEK to get the ebook for The Great Sex Rescue for just $2.99 ! On February 1 it goes up to its regular price! The Orgasm Course! If this is a struggle for you, we can help. https://baremarriage.c...

Send us Fan Mail Links to things mentioned: Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month and get access to unfiltered podcasts, while supporting our work counteracting harmful messages of marriage in the evangelical church OUR LOVE & RESPECT ONESHEET: Download our new resource Nijay Gupta's upcoming book Tell Her Story . Follow Nijay on Twitter ! Our post on Baby Bibles distorting...

Send us Fan Mail Links to things mentioned: Patreon: https://patreon.com/baremarriage She Deserves Better (our new book coming in April; you can pre-order it now!) https://amzn.to/3ZGFs2P The Great Sex Rescue (on for just $2.39 on ebook this month, and the paperback is on sale too!) https://amzn.to/3GV4aou Becky Castle Miller Website: https://www.beckycastlemiller.com/ Twitter: https://twitter.com...

Send us Fan Mail Links to things mentioned: Our Patreon! Support our work for as little as $5 a month , including all the amazing things that are coming in 2023, including two new big surveys, one sheets of harmful books to give to your churches, and scholarships as others continue the research! Our podcast on finding new church homes The Strike at Putney by Lucy Maud Montgomery Our podcast with B...

Send us Fan Mail THINGS MENTIONED IN THE PODCAST Our Patreon ! They’ve supported some amazing projects this year, and you can join us for as little as $5 a month!  The original podcast on feeling spiritually homeless Last year’s update on feeling so disappointed by faith leaders (plus the podcast on how the authors we critiqued responded to The Great Sex Rescue ) Support the show Join Sheila at Ba...

Send us Fan Mail Links to things mentioned: Our patreon community! Join for as little as $5 a month, and get access to our exclusive Facebook group, merch, and more! https://patreon.com/baremarriage The Bodies Behind the Bus podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bodies-behind-the-bus/id1601586078 and Johnna Harris' Instagram https://www.instagram.com/bbtbpod/ Me as a guest on the Bod...

Send us Fan Mail Links to things mentioned: Our Patreon ! Support us for as little as $5 a month, and get access to unfiltered podcasts, more merch, and an exclusive Facebook Group! Our Merch! Makes great last minute Christmas gifts, and check out our Be a Biblical Woman or our Love & Respect collection, or even our new Fixed it For You ! Winston Bosch’s Sermons: What God Hates More than Divor...

Send us Fan Mail Links to things mentioned: Our Merch –mugs, t-shirts, canvas wall hangings and more that are great for Christmas gifts and stocking stuffers. Check out our Love & Respect collection , our Biblical Womanhood collection , and especially our Be a Biblical Woman collection ! Our Patreon– join for as little as $5 a month and help support our research! A brief synopsis of the learne...

Send us Fan Mail Links to things mentioned: Our Patreon: Support us for as little as $5 a month to help us branch out and continue this movement! https://patreon.com/baremarriage The Great Sex Rescue: https://baremarriage.com/great-sex-rescue/ Our series on our 4 step recovery plan when sex has become a major issue: https://baremarriage.com/2022/11/the-sex-recovery-series-4-point-plan-to-rebuild-y...

Send us Fan Mail Links to things mentioned: Our Patreon: Support us for as little as $5 a month to help us branch out and continue this movement! https://patreon.com/baremarriage The Great Sex Rescue: https://baremarriage.com/great-sex-rescue/ Jay Stringer’s book Unwanted: https://amzn.to/3DOvJgo Jay’s website: https://jay-stringer.com/ Jay’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jay_stringer_/ Emi...

Send us Fan Mail Support the show Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com ! Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue   She Deserves Better The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide   The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex  and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too! Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at S...

Send us Fan Mail Links to things mentioned: Our Patreon ! Support where this blog is going for as little as $5 a month! The Boost Your Libido Course and The Orgasm Course The birth control series where we went over how some contraception methods MAY affect libido How our hormones and our cycle affect libido Our post on how the sexual debut affects libido later Our post on how mental load and divis...

Send us Fan Mail Links to things mentioned: Our Patreon: https://patreon.com/baremarriage The study on Who Cheats More: https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america The Dennis Prager Facebook Video: https://www.facebook.com/prageru/videos/868111834352628/ The Great Sex Rescue: https://baremarriage.com/great-sex-rescue/ The podcast with Alyssa Wakefield https:/...

Send us Fan Mail Links to things mentioned: See the study ! Want an easier way to read a summary of the study? Read yesterday's post . Previous podcast: are men and women's brains really that different?  Previous podcast: Let's talk MODESTY. Follow Meghan Tschanz on Instagram Learn more about The Great Sex Rescue Support the show Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com ! Check out her book...

Send us Fan Mail Support the show Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com ! Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue   She Deserves Better The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide   The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex  and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too! Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at S...

Send us Fan Mail Links to things mentioned: Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month, and fund our ongoing projects The Great Sex Rescue , our book that showed the issues with a lot of evangelical teaching about sex, based on our survey of 20,000 women Our Merch: Check out our Be a Biblical Woman collection The other times we've talked about Josh Howerton, specifically with Josh Ho...

Send us Fan Mail Links to things mentioned: Our Patreon! Our patrons have helped us have the time and flexibility to write She Deserves Better (out in April), along with the stats for The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex. Right now Joanna is working on two different peer-reviewed papers, and our next big project we'd like to fund is creating a dat...

Send us Fan Mail Links to things mentioned: Natalie’s Flying Free site , and Natalie’s awesome Facebook Page , Instagram , and YouTube channel. Plus listen in to her podcast ! Natalie’s book “Is It Me”? The terrible books Natalie mentioned: Our post about Created To Be His Helpmeet; Julie Anne Smith’s review of The Excellent Wife by Martha Peace The book that helped Natalie: Leslie Vernick’s Emoti...

Send us Fan Mail Should pastors be allowed to plagiarize in their sermons? I’ll be frank: I think evangelicalism has a problem with celebrity, as we talked about on last week’s podcast. And I think plagiarism is part of that celebrity. It’s rampant among pastors and authors in evangelicalism, and it allows people to give a false sense of themselves to others to boost their status. It needs to stop...

Send us Fan Mail Evangelicalism has a problem with celebrity culture. I mean, everyone has a problem with celebrity culture. But it can be worse in the church because we’re supposed to put Jesus front and centre, and too oten we’re protecting celebrity and ignoring the way of Christ. Links to things mentioned: Our Patreon ! Support us for as little as $5 a month and get access to an awesome Facebo...