Barbie Does Dating

In this episode: Instructional Matchmaker Kristin Sokol sits down with local single gal and founder of The Four Week Fix to chat it up about unique summer first date ideas that will foster connection, playfulness, curiosity and fun. If you’re looking to up your game on first date ideas. If you’re curious about intentional dating, modern matchmaking, this episode is a must-listen. It’s funny, insig...

In this episode: Nearly 200 arranged relationships. Plenty of success stories. A few hard lessons. And more than a little chaos. Instructional Matchmaker Kristin Sokol sits in the studio with Four Week Fix founder Tiana Chambers to unpack the good, the bad, and the ugly from the first-ever Four Week Fix dating experiment. Hear what they learned, what participants loved, what caught them off guard,...

In this episode: Instructional Matchmaker Kristin Sokol and dater Barbie Berg tackle one of the most overlooked parts of online dating: profile prompts. Most people waste this valuable real estate with generic answers that blend into the crowd. In this episode, Kristin and Barbie rewrite real dating prompts, transforming them from boring and forgettable into conversation starters that spark curios...

In this episode: Instructional Matchmaker Kristin Sokol and dater Barbie Berg put Barbie’s dating profile photos under the microscope. Which photos deserve a spot on the profile, and which ones need to be left in the dust? Tune in as they debate the dos and don’ts of dating profile photos and reveal what your pictures might be saying before you ever send a message. If... Read More

In this episode: Instructional Matchmaker Kristin Sokol and dater Barbie Berg break down social media trends and insights about dating curiosity and how to make the most of new connections on a first date. The gals also talk about how to share the right details about yourself to spark a sense of curiosity in your dates.  If you’re curious about intentional dating, modern matchmaking, this... Read...

In this episode: Instructional Matchmaker Kristin Sokol and dater Barbie Berg are back after a few weeks away for work, travel, and real life. The first part of the episode is a warm catch-up full of travel stories, personal updates, and Kristin’s reflections on giving a toast at a client’s wedding. Then, around the 15-minute mark, the conversation takes a fascinating turn. Kristin shares powerful...

In this episode: Instructional matchmaker Kristin Sokol, dater Barbie Berg, and comedian Steve Soelberg sit down for an honest conversation about a recent breakup in Barbie’s life. She shares what she learned, why she made the decisions she did, and how the experience actually gave her more hope that good partners exist. Along the way, Kristin offers insights that help Barbie see the relationship...

In this episode: Instructional matchmaker Kristin Sokol, dater Barbie Berg, and comedian Steve Soelberg sit down to talk about the fun they’ve been having at recent Singles Mingle events. They recap past activities, share some favorite moments, and preview what’s coming up next. The group also dives into a conversation about The 4 Week Fix, an arranged-relationship dating experiment. Barbie shares...

Instructional matchmaker Kristin Sokol, dater Barbie Berg, and comedian Steve Soelberg sit down for a fun, honest conversation about the loss of a beloved and much cared for dead tree in Barbie’s yard.  The trio draws comparisons about nurturing what is unsalvageable in the dating space. It’s funny, insightful, and full of those “oh… that’s me” moments. Don’t miss this episode. If you’re new aroun...

In this episode: Instructional matchmaker Kristin Sokol, dater Barbie Berg, and comedian Steve Soelberg sit down for a fun, honest conversation about in real life activities, events and interactions. Places to go. Things to do. And what to actually do when you get there. Get real insights on how to create more of these moments in your life, plus stories from Barbie and Steve and... Read More

In this episode: Instructional matchmaker Kristin Sokol, dater Barbie Berg, and friend Jhill sit down for a fun, honest conversation about why whimsy matters on dating apps and how adding a little personality can completely change your results.  If your profile has been serving the same ingredients for years, you are likely getting the same matches (or not). This episode explores how small, whimsi...

In this episode: Instructional Matchmaker Kristin Sokol and dater Barbie Berg sit down with Tiana Chambers, founder of one of the newest and boldest dating experiments for Latter-day Saint singles. Tiana and her team are launching The Four Week Fix, a chance at an arranged relationship over a four-week dating experiment. It blends modern technology with old-fashioned intuition to intentionally pai...

In this episode: Instructional Matchmaker Kristin Sokol and comedian Steve Soelberg crash a professional bridal photoshoot with BarbieAnn Bridal and quickly realize they’re mostly just, in the way. The Fall shoot brings together the whole crew, including Utah’s legendary photographer MJ Morgan (@mjmorganphoto), who shares expert insight on how to choose the right photographer for your big day. Onc...

In this episode: Daters Barbie & Steve, and Instructional Matchmaker Kristin Sokol sit down via Zoom with Anxious Attachment expert Trevor Hansen (@theartofhealingbytrevor) for an eye-opening conversation you do not want to miss. Trevor absolutely blew us away with his deep knowledge of the brain, attachment systems, and how our emotional connections shape the way we show up in relationships. If y...

In this episode: Dater’s Barbie, Steve, and Instructional Matchmaker Kristin Sokol continue their chat and discuss the difference between being fine and disappointed and why it’s important to distinguish the difference between the two.  👉 Barbie tackles the bizarre dating trend where women say they’d prefer being lost in the woods with a bear over a man. Shocking? Maybe. Accurate? Debatable. The...

In this episode: Dater’s Barbie, Steve, and Instructional Matchmaker Kristin Sokol reunite at Salt Lake City’s Edison House for a lively catch-up episode! 👉 Barbie dishes on her latest dating adventures, including the brief reappearance of Monster Truck Guy. She also gives us the inside scoop on what dating is like in Virginia (spoiler: it’s a whole different game than Utah). Steve keeps us laugh...

Instructional Matchmaker Kristin Sokol sits down with Philadelphia based Matchmaker and Super Connector Michal Niasteter for an in-depth conversation about love for late bloomers. Is it ever too late to find love? What about those who have little or no relationship experience? What about those with no experience with sex, intimacy, or even physical contact with a partner? 👉 Michal completed her g...

In this episode: Instructional Matchmaker Kristin Sokol sits down for part two with internet-famous entrepreneur Bubba Page! The pair continues their candid conversation on all things dating. 👉 Bubba shares his year-long journey in the dating world so far, from meeting people on social media to referrals from trusted friends. Together, they break down strategies for vetting potential partners. Yo...

In this episode: In this episode, Instructional Matchmaker Kristin Sokol sits down with internet-famous entrepreneur Bubba Page for a candid conversation about all things dating. 👉 New here? This is your chance to hear Kristin’s journey to becoming an Instructional Matchmaker. Bubba shares his own backstory—from faith-filled father of 8 to serial entrepreneur—and now, stepping back into the datin...

In this episode, Dating Coach & Matchmaker Kristin Sokol sits down with Comedian Steve Soelberg and Singles Mingle Events founder Molly Bitton for a double dose of dating talk and laughs. 👉 Part One: Did you know we’re going to 50% fewer parties than we were 20 years ago? This sad-but-true statistic has a huge impact on the dating world. Kristin, Steve, and Molly break... Read More

In this episode: 👉 Feel like you struggle to meet people at parties, events, or anywhere new? You’re not alone! In this episode, we dive into how you can easily bring the charm back to your IRL connections. What to say and how to do it!  👉 Kristin sits down with Molly Bitton, founder of Singles Mingle Events, to chat about what’s happening in the... Read More

In this episode: 👉 The do’s and don’ts of what to share and what to keep private when meeting new people digitally.  👉 Kristin and Molly Bitton, founder of Singles Mingle Events get informed by cyber security expert Sarah Kimmel. Host of Oh My Tech Podcast.  👉 Sarah Kimmel answers specific questions about what’s safe to say on a dating profile and if it’s okay... Read More

In this episode: 👉 The do’s and don’ts of making your dates unforgettable—how to sparkle instead of fizzle on a first date. 👉 Kristin walks Steve through a dating fumble where he missed a chance to connect, and teaches the Dating Order of Operations for getting a new connection off the ground. 👉 Learn the real Order of Operations in dating—step by step, from first... Read More

If you’re new around here—welcome to the chaotic joyride that is Barbie Does Dating, where we explore the wild, wonderful, and occasionally cringe-worthy world of dating in Utah culture.  Your hosts:Barbie Berg – Fearless dater with stories you’ll swear were scripted (they weren’t).Kristin Sokol – Professional Dating Coach, matchmaker and wise woman of the Wasatch. Steve Soelberg – Single, hilario...

We’re back for our second-ever video episode, and yes—it’s even better than the first.  If you’re new around here—welcome to the chaotic joyride that is Barbie Does Dating, where we explore the wild, wonderful, and occasionally cringe-worthy world of dating in Utah culture. Your hosts:Barbie Berg – fearless dater with stories you’ll swear were scripted (they weren’t).Kristin Sokol – professional D...