Bar Talk With Jay

We all, for the most part, an inherent desire to do better and be better. At some point in our lives, people who are close to us will want to do the same and they may not be far as yourself. They may even ask you to help them get closer to where you are. So where is your line? Is it money or are you willing to go all the way and supply infrastructure to support the intended desire. Our families ha...

Maybe it’s social media or maybe its just facts but the perception that Father’ Day is a second rate holiday next to Mothers’ Day isn’t that false. The question is why? Why do men feel like this and why is the perception seem to be so universal? We have come to realize that men have a lot of issues and in society have been the dominant species for some time. Is there some resentment going on subco...

Managing Dating Age Dynamics (Bar Talk WIth Jay Ep. 318) Do you have a preference when it comes to dating age? Before we go in the wrong direction, let's focus on the way that grown people are supposed to work. Going in different directions on the age spectrum can give you pros and cons depending on where you are in your life. It could be stability, it could be to grow or maybe just to have fun an...

In the last week since the out right murder of George Floyd, protest are starting to pop up not only in Minnesota, not just America, but the world! We continue to protest in numbers and in some cases riot. It’s beyond the comprehension of some why people are acting the way they are and some are asking what can we do? On tonight’s episode. We explore that and more this week on Bar Talk With Jay.

Leaving relationships always comes with some scars, some lessons, and some new expectations because there is always something new we will not put up with in the future. There can be a line that some of us can cross where some of these lessons and scars can turn a small reminder into a full PTSD episode. Some of the negative feelings around certain areas of our relationships can cause avoidable sit...

In the last few months you and your significant other may have been spending a lot more time together. In some cases maybe too much. Nonetheless you may have hit a crossroad where the intimacy may have gone dull. The real challenge may lie in the willingness to up the ante on where are the outer edges a partner’s intimacy is. So the question usually comes up and sounds like “Are you comfortable wi...

This week on the podcast we go a little more personal. We usually keep it to you and your significant other but today let us focus on the individual. With the onset of the COVID-19 pandemic, the unknown had shaped the way we have lived our everyday lives. It’s to the point that the uncertainty is messing with people’s heads and it’s affecting our thinking and may not even know it. Some are aware a...

Are you mentally and physically able to maintain a healthy relationship amidst the COVID-19 pandemic? (Bar Talk With Jay 5-7-20)

Depending on your situation we’ve been under the quarantine for over a month and things have certainly been different and the evolution has gone in a few different directions. Living situations in sort of varieties has brought about things that may have been small and taken a magnifying

So we are going into the first month of post coronavirus life where everything has changed. At this point if you have a significant other chances are you've spent significant time with them. Every working and learning remote has caused us to have much more time at home to open the door for opportunity. Now that could be an opportunity to make some serious love, it could be a time where you can fin...

So we are going into the first month of post coronavirus life where everything has changed. At this point if you have a significant other chances are you've spent significant time with them. Every working and learning remote has caused us to have much more time at home to open the door for opportunity. Now that could be an opportunity to make some serious love, it could be a time where you can fin...

It’s impossible that you haven’t been affected by the Coronavirus pandemic. We have had to alter our ways of everyday lives. There are the 5 things we must do to stop the spread but what is really being done to our psyche? The mental effect of the news cycle and all of the speculation around what may be going on behind the scenes have been making conversations have a different tone. We try to expl...

How does it make you feel when you get feedback from your significant other….in the bedroom? I It can be an uncomfortable situation when you add certain variables. Are you open minded when someone wants to change the pace to get where they need to be? HOw far does it have to be before it becomes uncomfortable. How many kinks are really on the table? You may think that this is simple but feedback c...

We experience some sort of crossroad moments where we have to make some tough decisions in our lives. The toughest of them all usually involves moving away from a particular person in your life. Sometimes it may be for love, lack of love, or that person may be no good for you. What if you get to the point that you have love for a person but that person does not have your back or best interests whi...

Old School Vs New School Dating So whats really the difference? Has dating really changed at its core? There has definitely be a revolution on how dating has changed. Technology has created new environments for interaction and made selection into a sport. We explore all this and more this week on the podcast! Thanks for listening!

This week we explore the double standard that is associated with holidays like Valentines Day. There are pretty much double standards across the board but when it comes to this particular holiday, we tend to see the balance get even more out of whack. Traditionally in western culture the man in the relationship shoulders the load and is really under more pressure because there are more ways to fai...

This week we continue our discussion on the Seven Deadly Sins. Last week we went a little deep on lust (surprise!) but we manage to cover all of them in one way or another. We look into the opposite of each sin and how to combat them in the bet way. Thanks for listening.

You mad? Does that mean I can’t get none? The most notable place sex has been weaponized is in an interrelationship argument. When someone is mad (usually women) one place that tends to get used against the other side is the act of holding out. In theory, a punishment to get a desired behavior but who is really being punished if you have great sessions all the time? In another sense, sex can be we...

Can you resist it? That natural impulse that takes your time, money or energy? Checking social media when you wake up, that candy at the checkout line, or that person who always seems to change your mood or focus, all of these are examples of decisions made with impulse. How do we get to that point? Is it nature or learned behavior? More than likely, it will be a bit of both. Not all impulses are...

Have you been played by an underhanded person? Have you dealt with people whose life mission is to get over? We all have and this week we discuss how to deal with these types and keep playing the game the right way. You may feel like playing the game their way is the way to go but in reality this is only bringing you down in a whole. Working around them tactfully will protect your best interests a...

This week in our first show of the new year, Jay and Craft will be discussing how do you open your heart for love again. We have all experienced heartbreak in some way or form. Whether it be in a relationship, a loss of a loved one or even a sports team that lets you down when they are winning 28-3 the championship game. Heartbreak is real and it can keep you from carrying on and being able to sho...

This week on the podcast we discuss the ideal way of finding a mate. There are proven methods that are done using science but that path is a choice and finding an ideal mate is probably more about philosophy. Some rely simply on fate or chance while others say being methodical and defining the perfect mate and looking for someone to fit that profile. The answer probably lies in between. Of course,...

We are at the end of the year and 2019 has been an interesting year for some and just another one for others. What can we take into 2020 in order to make it the “The Best Year Ever”? Do we need to shed a few things before we start or are there are few more things that need to be gathered before we begin the new year? What lessons are key for what the building blocks for a great 2020? We look into...