Bad Queers

This week, we acknowledge the passing of Jewel Thais-Williams and her lasting legacy, break down the tragic airstrike on a trans prison ward in Iran, and run through the WNBA All-Star lineup. Plus, your Bad Queer questions bring the heat—from identity coaching fatigue to situationships gone emotional. Shoutouts: Kris: The Culture Decides podcast - Black queer podcast with music reviews, interviews...

Netflix sure rushed this season out huh? Watch our recap of episodes 8-10, including the reunion, and final grades for season 2 of The Ultimatum: Queer Love. We're talking brussels sprouts, grandparent die-offs and how Kyle's mom is the real winner of this season.  Recap Notes: 2:25 - Intro 3:20 - Episode 8 14:25 - Episode 9 25:54 - Reunion/Episode 10 48:28 - Final grades Share your Am I...

Billionaires are having quite a week at our collective expense. The Big Bogus Bill and the Diddy trial verdict lead a bad news heavy "Category Is" segment. In "Am I A Bad Queer?", we advocate for not remaining in a relationship with someone who wants kids and letting your friend have their hot queer summer. Our "Bad Queer Opinions" this week lay the blame of the recen...

Welcome to Bad Queers Review , where Kris and Shana break down episodes 1-7 of The Queer Ultimatum Season 2. This season is pure mess, from tattoos and playlists to coming out on TV and hooking up. Tune in to hear what it’s like when Kris and Shana watch the chaos unfold together.  Episode Notes:  4:01 - The Queer Ultimatum Concept 5:20 - Cast breakdown  13:24 - Episode 1  24:54 - Episode 2  32:24...

This week on Bad Queers, we define platinum star gay and fat rabbit in Queer Urban Dictionary before diving into SCOTUS’s ruling on gender-affirming care bans for trans youth. We share our initial thoughts on The Queer Ultimatum S2 , break down WNBA news and the Rubiales assault verdict, and discuss why anti-trans activists should focus on real Title IX issues. In Am I A Bad Queer?, we answer ques...

This week we've got company! Welcome Mandii B, podcast queen behind WHOREible Decisions and Decisions, Decisions for an unfiltered convo on their new book " No Holes Barred ". We cover sexual freedom, queer identity, and building an audio empire. From hooking up with service tops to being a proud bisexual to shooting your shot (corny lines encouraged), this episode is all about brea...

This week on Bad Queers, we define pansexuality and explore the queer history of 18th-century molly-houses in Queer Urban Dictionary. In "Category Is," we get into Simone Biles vs. Riley Gaines and the ongoing fight for trans inclusion in sports, TS Madison educating NeNe Leakes on trans dating, and Doechii’s powerful moment at the BET Awards. Plus, we answer your "Am I A Bad Queer?...

This week, we’re joined by Shylo and Chelsea of the EMVP Podcast—a show for emotionally mature, vulnerable people navigating the highs and lows of life as Black queer women. We get into their journey from friend breakups to building a podcast, the reality of LA life as transplants, and Shylo’s reflections on her breakout role on Twenties.  Shoutouts: Shana: Spark Social House: A third place for th...

This week we share first impressions of The Queer Ultimatum Season 2, recap Week 1 of the WNBA (the WNBA scriptwriters are so back), and spotlight the protest to reclaim the historic site of the Compton’s Cafeteria Riot. We also talk about a new interfaith Pride campaign urging faith leaders to show up for LGBTQ+ folks this June. In Am I a Bad Queer?, we get into summer dating fatigue and how to e...

This week we discuss week 1 of Diddy's federal trial, Halle Bailey’s restraining order against DDG and Tory Lanez prison/legal updates. We also give our long awaited White Lotus S3 recap and spotlight a 21-year study showing donor-conceived adults raised by lesbian moms are thriving. In Am I a Bad Queer?, how to call out your queer friends biphobia, the best way to avoid being friends with yo...

This week on the podcast, we revive the iconic acronym “TWID” (The Woman I’m Dating) and dig into the reclaimed ballroom term “Bricks,” honoring its complex roots and modern meaning. In 'Category is', we react to the Supreme Court’s frustrating move to uphold the trans military ban, recognize our Hunger Games transition by discussing the Black dandyism theme of the 2025 Met Gala, and tal...

This week we’re joined by Jared Robinson—creator of JUDYS , a love letter to Black and brown queer friendship. We dive into small-town beginnings, fashion-to-film transitions, what makes a Good Judy, and why perfect gays are boring. Plus: Queer Urban Dictionary terms Mx. and Good Judy, behind-the-scenes tea, and Bad Queer Opinions on gay men and queer women friendships, queer characters and Issa R...

Five years later and we’re still standing on business. We’re celebrating with Queer Urban Dictionary lessons ( Gender Cues + Ponk ), in Category is we discuss then vs. now moments, the moments that made us and discussing our queer hair experiences in Hair-apy. Of course, we share your messy Am I A Bad Queer? dilemmas, and take a stroll down Bad Queer Opinions memory lane. Cheers to 5 years of Bad...

This week, we’re breaking down AIAB in Queer Urban Dictionary and giving you the sapphic position you didn’t know you needed (shoutout to Pearl to Peach). In Category Is , we unpack Montana’s surprise block on an anti-trans bill, the ongoing attack on queer books, and our latest TV obsessions—from 911 Lone Star to White Lotus S3. Plus, advice on dodging your ex, opening up your relationship, and p...

From Sapphic Visibility Day to NFL allyship (and mess), we’ve got range. This week: AGAB vs. gender narratives, Khalen Saunders’ queer-friendly football camp, Ts Madison’s new reentry house, WNBA draft talk, and the messy return to your ex’s kickball league. We close with Bad Queer Opinions: You don’t owe anyone a redemption arc—and Beyoncé’s done more for the LGBTQ+ community than most.  Chicago...

Come celebrate 5 years of Bad Queers !  We’re throwing down all month long with virtual events and an in-person celebration in Chicago. Don’t miss the chance to connect and toast to five years of this podcast.  This week, we unpack major headlines—from the CDC’s sudden shutdown of key HIV prevention initiatives to Cory Booker’s record-breaking filibuster speech. Plus, a win for the LGBTQ+ communit...

March Madness indeed.  This week, we discuss Signal-gate, Janelle Monáe's upcoming graphic novel, and recap the latest in march madness results.  In Am I A Bad Queer? we share ways to navigate the priority shifts of coupled up friends and walking away from things that don't serve you.  In Bad Queer Opinion, are we too dismissive of hyperfemme lesbian experiences?  Shoutouts: Kris: The Cu...

This week, we’re joined by award-winning professor, writer, and abolitionist Jenn M. Jackson for a conversation that’s as insightful as it is hella sapphic. We dive into their latest book, Black Women Taught Us, and explore their journey growing up queer in the Bay, marriage and parenthood, and, of course, our Bad Queer Opinions. Shoutouts: Shana:  The Podcast Salon - Hosted by Anna DeShawn, it’s...

And we're back. We're picking up right where we left off with a quick circle back to Shana's South Africa trip, her adventures in dating so far, and getting deeper into lovers and friends.  Watch the full video on Patreon here . Catch up with Heart Life Vol. 1 here .  Share your Am I A Bad Queer? here Support the show PATREON:  patreon.com/BadQueersPodcast Subscribe to our Youtube h...

Harmful and harmless trash best characterizes this week's news. We react to Trump's 99 min address to Congress and the ways the Democrats "resisted". Shana (bravely) recaps Love is Blind and we discuss Cynthia Ervio's night at the Oscars as well as her being named a headliner for World Pride. Later in the show, we explain when it's ok to avoid coming out to a family m...

After the last few weeks of mess in the news, we are bringing positive stories to your eyes and ears. We breakdown the 'Conception Begins at Erection' Bill, Amber Ruffin shares accountability in not coming out sooner and share our favorite highlights from the NAACP Image Awards. In 'Am I a Bad Queer?' we break down the essence of the 'delivered' queer person, being sk...

Trigger warnings, politics and culture. Hate to start the episode this way, but we are 30+ days into the Trump Administration, and it's just mess. RIP to Sam Nordquist, the violence against the Trans community needs to end. Then we review Love is Blind season 8, A'Ja Wilson's shoe line, Super Bowl Halftime Show, and Shana attends Unrivaled.  In AIABQ? Shana and Kris fight to keep it...

In this episode, Shana and Kris from Bad Queers Podcast join Destiny from Closeted History LGBTQ+ Stories of the Past to discuss the incredible LGBTQ+ film, Pariah (2011). Starring Adepero Oduye, Kim Wayans and Aasha Davis. It has won many awards and accolades including the 2012 GLAAD Media Award and a Cinematography Award at the Sundance Festival in 2011.  Episode Notes:  0:01 - Introduction of P...

Welcome to Black History Month! We’re kicking things off by asking the real questions—did we actually enjoy the Grammys? Did Beyoncé’s tour announcement revive us? Plus, we break down key headlines impacting the LGBTQ+ community and news to pay attention to. In 'Am I a Bad Queer?', Kris and Shana share advice on astrology ruling your relationship, unproblematic white queers, and the art...

This week, we sit down with legendary content creator, Amber Whittington—aka AmbersCloset —to talk about her journey from YouTube pioneer to TV and her next big move… politics? 👀  We get into the real challenges of staying authentic in the public eye, dating as a creator, friendship breakups, and the real LA. Plus, Amber weighs in on the bisexual studs debate for this week’s Bad Queer Opinion. Sh...