Aye Man, Say Man

Every decision you make comes from a place internally before it ever shows up externally. Most people think they make decisions with logic. But you actually make decisions from one of five places: Disappointment Desperation Discernment Desire Discipline Tune in to dive deeper into the definition, declaration and direction understanding these concepts have in your life.

We all ask the same question in two completely different seasons of life: “How Long Does It Last?” We ask it when things are going really well and we’re waiting for something to go wrong. And we ask it when life feels heavy and we’re desperate for relief. In this episode, we explore the duality behind that question, why we struggle to be present in both good and hard seasons, and how perspective c...

On this episode of Aye Man, Say Man: The Podcast , we’re talking about default mode — the automatic version of you that shows up when you’re triggered, overwhelmed, scared, or trying to protect yourself. Your default mode was built from trauma, past disappointments, survival instincts, and environments that demanded strength. And while it once kept you safe, what protected you before may now be li...

Have you ever looked up and realized you and someone you love are no longer in the same season of life? In this episode of Aye Man, Say Man: The Podcast , we talk about what happens when friendships, family relationships, romantic partners, coworkers, and even college friends start to feel… out of sync. Not because of drama. Not because of beef. But because life is life-ing. We unpack: How relatio...

We talk a lot about waiting, grinding, and surviving — but what about when the prayer finally gets answered? In this episode, Kiaya J.  dives into what it means to slow down and actually sit in the blessings you once begged for. From new jobs to new peace, from relationships to personal growth — God’s been showing out, but are you taking time to receive it? This conversation is a reminder that gra...

Are you so focused on what’s next that you can’t appreciate what’s now ? In this episode of Aye Man, Say Man: The Podcast , we’re breaking down the trap of always striving for the next title, goal, or glow-up — and learning how to sit in the season you’re in. We’ll talk about why the present moment matters , how to release the past so it doesn’t block your peace, and why you are not behind (you’re...

On this episode of  Aye Man, Say Man: The Podcast,  we’re digging into the difference between  character and circumstance. Have you ever wondered if someone’s actions reveal  who they really are  or if it’s just a reflection of the season they’re in? That’s where discernment comes in. In this conversation, I share practical ways to recognize the difference, why it matters in your relationships, an...

Knowing your worth sounds easy—until life, love, work, and self-doubt put it to the test. In this episode, I open up about my personal journey of recognizing my value across jobs, relationships, friendships, and even within myself. We’re getting real about the struggles, the lessons, and the moments that forced me to choose myself, even when it hurt. You’ll hear why knowing your worth is an everyd...

Aye Man, Say Man are you having a hard time processing your reality? Feel like your life is spiraling out of control? It’s probably because you are basing your life off of how you feel versus what’s real. Facts Over Feelings.  Facts Over Feelings emphasizes the importance of making decisions based on logic, evidence, and rational thinking rather than emotions or biases. It doesn’t mean emotions ar...

Aye Man, Say Man are you struggling with establishing boundaries? This is the episode for you. Join Kiaya J. as she defines boundaries, explains how to put them into practice in all aspects of your life, and challenges you to reflect on where your boundaries are. Are you setting boundaries or creating walls? Are your boundaries being tested or respected? Find out on this episode of AMSM: The Podca...

The moment every college student prays for. Walking across that stage. But what happens next? Everyone talks about the big moment, but no one talks about the aftermath. Kiaya J. has a few things to say regarding life after college. Check out this episode as we discuss the transition, post-graduation depression, and how to embark on your new journey. 

How many times have you had an idea but felt like it wasn't the right time? What about a plan but felt like you didn't have the resources or money to execute it? We all have been there. This episode will motivate you to Do it Today. Inspired by Brian Dickson's song Do it Today, this episode will encourage you to put your ideas into action. We are our biggest hurdle. Sometimes we allow fear to hold...

Aye Man, Say Man, haven't been feeling like yourself lately? Well, Hard Times don't last. It's ya girl Kiaya J., and I know just how you feel. Sometimes when we experience different seasons in life we get lost in the sauce. We lose ourselves in our experiences. We give so much of ourselves to other people, our jobs, and a plethora of other things that consume us.  This episodes highlights the...

Welcome Back to Aye Man, Say Man: The Podcast. I hope you're ready for me to read you to filth. I may not know what you're specifically going through, but as long as your rocking with me, know you're not going through life alone. This season is personal. We will be having guests, advertisements, and more as the season develops. 

Episode 12: Me Vs Me Series Part 3: Extending Grace Aye Man, Say Man! When was the last time you gave yourself a pat on the back? This episode will challenge you to sit back and think about how you treat yourself. Sometimes we forget to extend the same grace and credibility we give to others, to ourselves. It is more important to embrace where you are, rather than where you want to be. Join Kiaya...

Episode 11: Me Vs Me Series Part 2: The Comparison Complex Aye Man, Say Man! How many times have you been strolling on your TL and found yourself hating from outside of the club? You can’t even get in! HAHAHA but seriously, our generation has a serious issue with comparing our lives to others. Social Media perpetuate this illusion that we should all have multiple incomes, taking trips, and living...

Episode 10: Me Vs. Me Series Part 1: Are you a problem facer or a problem maker? We can all agree that 2020 has been a year for the books. While this year has been a bit unorthodox, I think we can all agree that we gained a certain sense of perspective. This year slowed us down, allowed us to tap into our talents and hobbies, but most importantly it gave us time to look in the mirror and self-refl...

Episode 9: The Friend Group Survival Guide How to maintain a healthy friend group. Aye Man, Say Man. How many of you can say that you’re still rocking with the same gang since middle school? In our generation, it’s rare to see a friend group stand the test of time. Things like jealousy, dishonesty, and lack of communication has tainted the strongest of friend groups. With the help of her friend gr...

Episode 8: Thriving and Surviving: The Shift from In-Person College Life to the Virtual Platform Kiaya J. returns to the mic after a few weeks of adjusting to online learning and navigating the virtual platforms as a college student leader. Tune in to how her experience with transitioning showcased the meaning behind the phrase “Thriving and Surviving”. We are not here to merely exist; we are here...

Episode 7: The Vault- Revib3d x Brainstorm Welcome to a new segment we like to call The Vault! This segment is designed to serve as a platform for upcoming artists, business owners, and creatives to share their stories and their work. Our guest(s) this week are Issac "AntiSocial" Tate IV, Tiony "Duwai" Cooper, and Brian "B" Dickson, members of the group Revib3d. Discussing their second album title...

Episode 6: Time Spare Time vs. Free Time vs. Leisure Time vs. Availability vs. Accessibility Sometimes we feel like we are running out of it, sometimes we feel like we have too much of it. What is this "it"? Time. Kiaya J. tackles the concept of time. This episode focuses specifically on the difference between Spare Time, Free Time, Leisure Time, Availability, and Accessibility. Many of us tend ov...

Episode 5: Jobs Kiaya J. shares personal experiences while working a job and enlightens the audience on healthy mechanism to cope with the at work blues. It is more important to work a job than allowing that job to put a hinderance to you mental, physical, and emotional health. Listen to light up your mood before clocking in! Countdown with Killa: 5. Things To Do Before Entering Your Workspace - B...

Episode 4: Where the Love At? Kiaya J. shares her experiences with showing, receiving and interpreting support. Sometimes life can become discouraging and the only question that reeks in your mind is “Damn, Where The Love At?” Join us as we paint a picture of what true support looks like. Countdown with Killa: 5. Ways to Support Your Friend’s Business - Follow their business page - Share their pos...

Episode 3: Everything Is Not For Everybody Join Kiaya J. as she discusses how it's cool to do you own thing. Don't allow social media, a global pandemic, or unemployment to stray you away for what's for you. Countdown with Killa Things I Wish Someone Would Have Told Me Prior to Starting My Own Brand. 5. Tools that'll Help You for the Low. - Canva - Business Social Media Platforms - Hootsuites - Wi...

Episode 2- Aye Man, Say Man: Stop Killing Us Kiaya J. addresses the recent chain of events associated with the Black Lives Matter Movement and the consistent protest against police brutality triggered by the murder of George Floyd, Breonna Taylor, and many more beautiful black souls that lives have been taken at the hands of law enforcement. Countdown with Killa: 5. Black Owned Restaurants in the...