Awaken Your Inner Awesomeness with Melissa Oatman-A daily dose of spirituality and self improvement

Having unrealistic expectations of people can lead to a pattern of manipulative behaviors. When assume that others can read our minds, we become resentful and bitter when they can’t. It’s up to us to speak our truth and express our needs of we truly want them to be met. Killing others with kindness just so that they will return the favor is manipulative. It also leads to frustration when it doesn’...

Are you trapped in a narcissistic relationship? Dealing with a narcissist can be extremely difficult especially, if it’s family. In today’s episode I talk about what a narcissist is, and I also talk about how to deal with narcissistic behavior. It is so important to break free from toxic relationships. I talk about how you can do that in today’s episode as well as the importance of finding peace a...

Are you getting frustrated because you aren’t seeing the things you are wishing to manifest come into being?  The message today from the Universe is to have hope. The universe is aligning things perfectly for you. Things may not be happening the way that you expect it to or in the timing that you wanted. Know that Divine timing is always perfect. The Universe always knows what you need and when yo...

There is a very important energetic portal taking place on 8/8/20. In today’s episode, I talk about what this energetic portal is good for and how you can use it right now. You won’t want to miss the opportunity to take advantage of this amazing energy   Contact me: https://melissaoatman.com melissaoatman77@gmail 636-748-4943   Purchase my new book: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/beautifully-bro...

Today I talk to you about how you can work with Archangel Zadkiel.  Zadkiel is the angel who helps us to learn compassion for others. He helps us to heal our old emotional wounding, to stop playing the victim, and to learn how to have empathy for others. If you are like me, you have probably had old past emotional wounding coming to the surface. These triggers are important for us because they tea...

On today's show, I welcome Tanya Brown.  Tanya is a medium and clairvoyant who loves to coach entrepreneurs on to success.  Tanya explains how she first discovered her abilities, and how she uses them to help business owners.  Tanya even gives me some insights into my own business.  Her light and sweet energy attracts you right away.  She talks about how her guides give her information and how she...

If you have ever been in a relationship with someone who is manipulative, then you know how hard it can be to get away. Sometimes it is even difficult to realize that you are being manipulated in the first place. In today’s episode, I talk about my own experiences with manipulation. I teach you how to recognize when you are being manipulated, and I give you tips for getting away from a manipulator...

Are you feeling lost or stuck in your life?  Do you feel like you don't even recognize yourself anymore?  Then you won't want to miss today's episode.  My special guest, Linda Krauss-Barnett, is an author and educator.  She literally wrote the book on rebooting your life.  As a stressed out mom and wife, she realized one day after looking in a mirror that she didn't even recognize herself.  She ha...

Have you ever wondered in life whether or not you have a purpose? If you are like me, are used to wonder what the point of life really was. I felt like I was living the same day over and over again without truly feeling fulfilled. It was then that I realized I wasn’t living my true life’s purpose. I set out to find out what my purpose in life actually was. We all come here with a mission in life....

Everything happens in Divine timing. If you are worrying because you aren't seeing your miracles happen, or things seems stagnant, then you need to start trusting more in the timing of the Universe. Everything is always working out perfectly for you. When you understand that, there is nothing to fear. When fear starts stepping in, it means that you are out of alignment with the Universe. Start tru...

Are you an empath? Many people are empaths and have no idea what that even means. If you pick up easily on others emotions, or are very sensitive to what’s going on around you, then you may be an empath. In today’s episode, I talk about the signs that show you may be an empath. I also talk about how to deal with your sensitivity to other people’s emotions. It’s important to understand how to shiel...

I keep seeing the message everywhere that it’s important we rest right now. What does that actually mean, and are you truly getting the rest you need?  We are going through a huge energetic shift, and the Universe is wanting us to be prepared for the new energies that are coming in. Today I talk about how you can truly ensure that you’re getting enough rest, and I give you some tips to ensure that...

Have you needed a change in attitude lately? I know I did. It’s easy when things get thrown at us that we aren’t expecting to become upset, angry, and frustrated. The problem is that when we focus on those energies, we attract more of things that caused those energies. It’s ok to feel those emotions, but we can’t stay in a place of anger and frustration. What happens when we start going into victi...

Today, I welcome back Sebastian Soul.  Sebastian talks to us about how he manifested moving from Bangkok to Romania.  He had never been to Romania before, but he knew that the Universe was guiding him there.  Once he had the idea to move to Romania, he found the city and apartment of his dreams, and he talks about how you can manifest a life you love too.  He shares with us some key tips for manif...

Have you been putting your health and well-being last?  Our special guest for today, Carrie Leonardini, is a health and fitness coach who helps single moms develop a plan to get fit and fabulous.  As single moms, we tend to put everyone else's needs above our own.  Carrie helps moms lose the guilt and shame that comes from taking care of ourselves and putting ourselves first.  She helps her client...

You are a sponge. That’s right… You heard me correctly. You are like a sponge because you pick up the energy of your environment. What you choose to be around, as well as who you choose to be around makes a huge difference in your attitude and your mood. Are you choosing to fill your life surrounded by negative things and negative people? If you are, then you are draining your own energy. It’s so...

Are you trapped in a narcissistic relationship? Dealing with a narcissist can be extremely difficult especially, if it’s family. In today’s episode I talk about what a narcissist is, and I also talk about how to deal with narcissistic behavior. It is so important to break free from toxic relationships. I talk about how you can do that in today’s episode as well as the importance of finding peace a...

Sometimes when life throws you curve balls, it could be easy to panic. Those times in our lives define us and our strength. Are you going to choose to panic and go down the rabbit hole of fear-based thinking, or are you going to realize that you are always being taken care of. The Universe always has our back. When we trust that we are Divinely protected and that things will always work out perfec...

Today I am honored to have as my guest Sebastian Soul.  Sebastian is the creator of the podcast, 'Affirmation to Manifestation.  Sebastian was born with a congenital heart defect.  He endured difficult and painful surgeries as a baby, and the scars the surgeries left made him feel uncomfortable and socially awkward.  He struggled as a young man to find himself. He talks to us today about how he we...

What is the twin flame journey, and how do you know if you’re on it? Many people believe that twin flames are souls that are meant to travel many different lifetimes together and experience romantic relationships. This is actually quite a simple definition of twin flames because they are in reality far more complicated. In today’s episode, I talk about what the twin flame journey is and I also tal...

Author of the Book, Majestic Money The 30-Day Femme Manifesting Game Adora has led hundreds of thousands of people throughout the world with her expert teaching on business, femme manifesting and spiritual living, all while adding more fun, so they may live their own sacred expression.  As a seasoned entrepreneur, Adora went from boarded up home, with no electricity at 18 to working with celebriti...

We are experiencing a huge energetic shift right now, which is bringing about a chance to bring amazing positive shifts in our lives. In today’s episode, I talk about how the Ring of Fire Solstice can allow us to bring in all of the things that we hope to manifest. All we have to do is learn how to let go of what isn’t serving us, release old limiting beliefs, and raise our energy vibration in ord...

Did you know that not forgiving others and holding onto emotions can make you physically sick? I have even read studies that link cancer to resentment and anger. All too often we hold onto emotions that don’t serve us, and in the end, it Just makes us emotionally and physically drained. Forgiveness is so important because when we forgive others, we’re actually giving ourselves the greatest gift ev...

Join my today where my guest is Kyla Plaxton.  Kyla has unlocked the code to her menstrual pain and used it to transform her life and find her purpose. Now Kyla helps other women who suffer monthly from their painful and debilitating periods with the 4 Keys that will SILENCE their period symptoms and take back CONTROL over their body.  Join us for this honest discussion about that time of the mont...

There is a huge energetic shift going on right now for the collective. This new moon in solar eclipse on June 20th is a super important time. It’s a time for clearing all of the old energies and healing old wounding. It’s also a time for welcoming change and positive shifts in your life. You may be feeling like you are getting intuitive nudges to start new projects, or you may have new ideas sprin...