Avoiding My Anxiously Attached Boyfriend

In this powerful episode, we sit down with Aryam Marafi, a survivor, storyteller, and Kuwaiti refugee who opens up Asexuality, domestic violence, and sexual trauma. From seeking refuge and safety abroad, their journey is one of resilience, pain, and reclaiming identity. We talk about the impact of abuse within family systems, escaping a violent home, healing from sexual trauma, and the layered com...

In this episode, we sit down with performer, creator and unapologetic queer icon Tyreece. From go-go dancing in Heaven at 18 to navigating identity as a gender fluid, mixed-race powerhouse—this conversation is loud, proud and unfiltered. We talk about being “too gay” for straight people, growing up between cultures, coming out journey, and finding the freedom to be yourself! 🎭 The queer nightlife...

In this episode, we sit down with Britain’s first out Muslim drag queen and transgender activist Asifa Lahore. From transitioning on the NHS to navigating faith, family, identity and the queer scene as a South Asian woman—this conversation is raw, eye-opening and deeply human. We talk about losing male privilege, finding gender euphoria on a motorbike in Pakistan, the power of being visible, and w...

🌟 Kabir on Made in Chelsea, Queer Identity & Life Beyond the Screen 🎬✨ In this episode, we sit down with Made in Chelsea’s Kabir to talk about everything from reality TV and representation to sobriety, dating as a queer person of colour, and finding purpose after pain. It’s raw, it’s real—and it’s seriously empowering. 🎥 How Kabir Got on Made in Chelsea – The unexpected DM that led to his...

🧔🏽‍♂️ Body Hair, Bias & Bloating – Let’s Talk About It! In this episode, we go there — from body hair politics to bloated tummies and invasive procedures. What does it mean to be hairy and brown in a world that prefers smooth and white? While we also dive into Faris's IBS journey! 👀 Hair & Race – Why being hairy hits different when you’re South Asian, Arab, or Brown — and how it’s...

🌍 Aisha on Queer Travel, Colonialism & Building Safe Spaces 🏳️‍🌈 In this episode, we’re joined by Aisha to unpack identity, activism, and what it really means to move through the world as a Black queer woman. From reclaiming queer history to building inclusive spaces like The Common Press, this conversation is honest, powerful — and full of heart. ✈️ Travelling While Black & Queer – How...

🌊 Gay in Jordan: Culture, Boycotts & The Truth About Queer Life in the Middle East 🧳 In this on-location episode, we're coming to you live(ish) from the Dead Sea in Jordan, with coffee, shisha, and some serious conversation. We’re diving deep into what it’s really like to be gay in the Middle East—and why Western perspectives don’t always get it right. 🌍 Is It Safe to Be Queer in Jorda...

🌈 Dan Harry on Chemsex, HIV Stigma & The Truth About ‘I Kissed a Boy’  💋 In this episode, we’re joined by Dan Harry from I Kissed a Boy to dive into some of the biggest (and most taboo) conversations in the LGBTQ+ community. From his BBC documentary PreP, HIV & Me to the realities of chemsex, we break it all down—while still finding time for laughs and a little bit of gossip. 💊 Chemsex:...

🌍 Exploring Dubai: Stereotypes, LGBTQ+ Life & The New Middle East Culture 🇦🇪 In this episode, we’re recording straight from Atlantis, Dubai—because why not? We dive into the stereotypes surrounding Dubai, its real culture beyond the glitz, and what it’s really like being LGBTQ+ in the Middle East. 🏙️ Is Dubai Fake? – People love to call Dubai artificial, but is that just a coded way of reject...

In this episode, we’re joined by the incredible Miles Asteri for an open and heartfelt conversation about reality TV, navigating identity, and the emotional weight of adoption and fatherhood. 🎭 TRAITORS – Miles opens up about his time on The Traitors, the challenges of playing the game, and the pressure of public perception. 👨‍👦 Adoption & Fatherhood – From his personal experience with adop...

In this episode, we're joined by the incredibly talented Lordin for an open and inspiring conversation about breaking stereotypes in the music industry, being an independent queer artist, and navigating identity through music. 🎶 Breaking into the Music Industry – Lordin shares the realities of working without industry support, building a career from scratch, and staying true to his vision. 🏳...

In this episode, we’re joined by the charismatic and unfiltered Dean Quinton for a raw and revealing conversation about reality TV, media narratives, and life inside the Big Brother house. From the brutal audition process to how the show twists reality , Dean gives us the inside scoop with humor and honesty. 🏠 The Big Brother Experience Dean breaks down what it’s really like—from five days of iso...

Is Whiteness the Default? We dive deep into the unspoken biases that shape our perceptions of beauty, desirability, and relationships. From dating preferences to Hollywood’s beauty standards, we unpack how whiteness continues to be seen as the "default" and why that needs to change. 🔥 Topics We Cover: 💡 Why Whiteness is Still the Standard – How media and society reinforce Eurocentric b...

In this episode, we dive into a thought-provoking conversation about challenging societal norms and embracing personal agency. Our guest shares their journey of questioning expectations around relationships, marriage, and identity, revealing how they moved from simply following the "default" life path to making choices that truly align with their desires. 🧠 Rewriting the Rules How socie...

In this episode, we dive deep into the fascinating world of queer history with Dr. Justin Bengry, a leading historian and pioneer behind the world's first MA in Queer History. From exploring historical gaps to addressing modern queer representation, Justin offers thought-provoking insights, blending academic expertise with personal stories. 🎓 Queer Academia & Research Justin talks about...

This week, we’re diving headfirst into the world of K-pop, exploring wild alien theories, and reflecting on the randomness of life. It’s fun, it’s deep, and just a bit chaotic—just the way we like it. 🎶 K-pop Craze: We break down the hype around K-pop and the intense training that shapes these global stars. Is the West ready for K-pop-style pop groups? 📚 Bridget Jones Revisited: A nostalgic yet...

In this episode, we’re back after a little break, and things get hilariously messy as we dive into what’s been happening in our lives. From attachment styles to a dramatic take on decorating our apartment, nothing’s off the table. 🏡 Decorating Chaos: We’ve been sprucing up the apartment, and let’s just say Faris doesn’t love my (Josh’s) taste. We spill all the tea about our “discussions” (read: a...

In this episode, we’re joined by the hilarious and insightful Morgan Rees for an honest and entertaining conversation about comedy, identity, and queer joy. From chasing the comedy dream to embracing body positivity, Morgan takes us through his journey with humor and heart. 🎭 Chasing the Comedy Dragon Morgan shares the highs and lows of being a comedian, from his first open mic to learning the sc...

In this episode of Avoiding My Anxiously Attached Boyfriend, we continue our Christmas special with family members Sam and Sass. From hilarious science "facts" to cultural debates and growing up in two worlds, this episode has it all — heartfelt moments, sibling banter, and festive cheer. 🎄 Christmas in Jordan vs. England: The group dives into their experiences navigating traditions and...

In this episode of Avoiding My Anxiously Attached Boyfriend, Faris and Josh are joined by family members Sam and Sassy for a hilarious Christmas special. From chaotic gift exchanges to childhood stories of sneaking out and sneaking back in, this episode is full of laughs, awkward moments, and festive fails. 🎄 Sibling Chaos: What happens when siblings can't wait to open Christmas presents? Fa...

In this episode, we're joined by the brilliant Connor Minney for a candid and thought-provoking conversation about LGBTQ+ community dynamics, fitness culture, and personal growth. 🏋️‍♂️ Gym Culture & Gay Spaces: Why do gay and queer communities have such a conflicted relationship with gym culture? Connor dives into the legacy and evolution of these spaces. 👀 Validation & Body Image:...

This week, we’re diving deep into the cultural shifts that have shaped the world around us: 💄 Kardashians & Beauty Standards How did one family redefine beauty—and at what cost? We break down the ripple effects of their influence on today’s society and self-image. 🇺🇸 The Fall of the American Dream As kids, it was the ultimate goal, but Hollywood scandals and societal shifts have made us quest...

🎙️ A Conversation with Mr. Gay World, David Allwood In this heartfelt and dynamic episode, we’re joined by the incredible David Allwood, Mr. Gay GB, for a deep dive into his life, work, and passions. 🌈 Homoparody: David shares the inspiration behind his company, which brings the LGBTQ+ community together through fabulous events and dance classes designed to foster joy and connection. 🏆 Life as M...

This week, we’re leaning into the chaos with a messy, hilarious chat about relationships, reality TV, and everything in between. No structure, just vibes. 🫂 Attachment Styles: Josh opens up about his attachment type and why affection is strictly on his terms. Let’s just say, it’s a journey. 👰 Love Is Blind, Habibi: Our unfiltered thoughts on the latest reality TV drama—because what’s better than...

This week, we’re diving headfirst into the intersection of feminism, the environment, and some good old-fashioned spooky chaos. It’s thoughtful, it’s funny, and it’s a little unhinged—just how we like it. 🌱 Ecofeminism: Diving deep into what Faris was researching during his PHD , exploring how feminism and environmentalism connect. Turns out, saving the planet might just be feminist work. ✊ The...