Attitudes/Answers with Olen Baker

Yeah, it's worth fixing and yeah, it's never easy.  To start, allow trust to bring you back to center and allow God to help you take the next steps.  

Somes that bond fails.  A preoccupation with a career, a troubled marriags or simply a lack of interest.  Find out how you can make the changes necessary to be better at the job of a Mom or Dad.

New parents are uncomfortable, because they don't feel qualified to be a parent.  As kids grow there's an opportunity to grow with a bond.  This is how you go there.

No internet signal, no problem.  Find a calm, quiet place and send your message.  On the best days and the darkest days, He will always answer.

Wow, once again it's time for a fresh start.  How many times have you been there?  It doesn't matter, because God will always be there to help.  Just ask.

Holidays tend to bring out our best and worst character traits.  Too much stress weakens our impulse control.  Pray for strength to be honest and sincere.

An attitude change isn't easy, because we're stuck in our ways.  Don't let this year end without reaching out to someone you are at odds with.  It doesn't matter who is at fault, it does matter that you resolve the issues.  Doing so will lift the burden from your heart.

Christmas morning, and you're anticipating another wonderful Christmas Day.  No need to check under the tree for any other gifts, check with God to make sure that your light shines in others.  Today, give the gift of prayer.  Merry Christmas.

Remember, the most important gift you can give, is the gift of eternal salvation, through Jesus Christ.  The stores will be swamped with last minute shoppers.  You don't need a store for this special gift.  

Remember, you are the light pointing the recipient to Jesus.  On that gift tag, let them know there is a little more that comes with this present.

You are at odds with someone you know, maybe a family member or friend.  Prayer is the perfect way to turn that around.  Why?  Because asking God to help heal the wounds of life, will always be a blessing...and the perfect gift.

Wrong size, wrong color, never use it, what were you thinking?!  Here's a suggestion;  the gift pf prayerr is always the perfect gift, because it speaks directly to the person you're giving it to.  

Your attitude has a lot to do with how your child sees and responds to your direction.  Check your attitude before you speak.

Are your kids also a friend?  It's a balance between friendship and being a teacher.  

You're learning from your kids, as much as they're learning from you.  Turn to God when those speed bumps happen.  

Be a better listener and you will discover who they are.  Children know they have purpose in life.  Set the boundaries and help them discover who they will become.  Not always easy, but always necessary.

Every child is unique.  And every child deserves your specific attention to address behavior issues.  You can't find the solution in a book.  Get to know your child and be responsive to his or her specific needs.  

Kids like to please their parents.  Does that surprise you?  They are listening, but are you sending the right message?

You know, even God does not always respond with a resounding "yes" to each of your prayers.  He knows the boundaries and he knows when to make sure you've done what's necessary to walk with Him.  Before you say "yes" to the next request, talk to God, first.

Okay, it's not about you.  It's about what you expect from others.  And so many times, others will let you down.  Do your best to imitate the Lord God.  Your efforts will benefit someone.  It always will.  Look to God for affirmation.

Can you accept that your children will not always like you, and that's okay.  Kids who respect their parents go out into the world with a greater chance for success.  It's okay when they don't like.  It's not okay when they don't respect you.

This is especially important when working with our children.  Yes is an easy way out of having to deal with an issue.  No, means that boundaries have been set.  Without boundaries, children have a way of walking in the wrong direction.  No is okay.  Go ahead, try it.

Wow, sharing your feelings can be tough.  It's not what you say, it's how you say it.  Don't ever get into a conversation without talking to God, first.  He will help craft the perfect set of words and emotions.  

Anyone ever ask you that question.  So, speaking honestly, without ego or expectations of a much higher rating, who are you?  Funny thing, the best descriptives come from others, not you.  Ask someone to fill in the blank for you and see what happens.

If "nice" is your only expression, you are missing "honesty".  God can help in those places where we are at a loss for words.  Speak to Him before you speak to someone else.