Attack Life Not Others

"If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment." — Marcus Aurelius

Tim and Steve explore the power of being present and attuned to the moment, especially in how we connect with others. They reflect on how rigid expectations and a linear mindset can hinder growth — whether in personal relationships or martial arts. Drawing from real experiences, they emphasize the importance of sensitivity, receptivity, and creating space for genuine connection.

"You have power over your mind, not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength." — Marcus Aurelius "The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts." — Marcus Aurelius

Tim Hoover shares how a cancer diagnosis at 36 became a life-changing blessing The power of adversity to teach gratitude and perspective Why doing the hard work matters — especially when life gets tough The vital role of community, family, faith, and friendship — your "tribe" Steve Mittman highlights the importance of taking ownership of your circumstances A call to action: find your tribe — wheth...

"I feel like I'm the best, but you're not going to get me to say that." — Jerry Rice

Tim Hoover and Steve Mittman talk about endurance — how going through hard times builds real strength. Tim shares how he trains his martial arts students to push through both physical and mental challenges. He explains that nothing worthwhile comes easy, and even young kids can understand the value of earning something. They discuss how today's generation often avoids struggle, but real growth onl...

"It is not the man who has too little, but the man who craves more, that is poor." — Seneca

Discipline today creates freedom tomorrow. Tim shares a recent conversation with Bernie, a living example of vitality and wisdom, to explore the true meaning of the "golden years." Bernie talks about the four pillars of a fulfilling life — mental health, physical health, financial freedom, and meaningful connection. From daily prayer and stair climbing to lessons in hard work and shared happiness,...

"Waste no more time arguing about what a good man should be. Be one." — Marcus Aurelius

Seneca's quote, "No man was ever wise by chance," sets the tone for this episode as Tim and Steve explore how wisdom isn't a byproduct of aging alone, but the result of intentional effort, experience, and learning. Aging alone does not guarantee wisdom; it is the experiences we gather and the lessons we learn from them that shape our understanding of life. Growing older comes with a unique opportu...

"It is not that we have a short time to live, but that we waste a lot of it." — Seneca

Tim and Steve share a heartwarming Father's Day story that shows why the little moments in life matter most. In this episode, Tim talks about how his daughter Chelsea surprised him to train together — just like they did when she was a kid. They rode bikes, laughed, shared a drink, and created an unexpected memory that reminded Tim how special these times are. Listen to hear: A real-life reminder o...

"Any man can be a father, but it takes someone special to be a dad." — Anne Geddes

Understanding Life's Archetypes In this episode, Tim and Steve talk about four powerful roles we all play at different times in life: The Hero – pushes through hard times with courage and purpose The Healer – helps others and brings comfort The Victim – feels stuck, powerless, or overwhelmed The Villain – acts out of pain, fear, or anger to protect themselves They explain how we shift between thes...

"June is the month of potential — halfway through the year, and still time to become everything you set out to be." — Unknown

Avoid the corrosion of inaction: If we neglect our space, it can quickly become cluttered with negativity and stagnation — much like debris filling an empty room. The key is to keep moving and shaking things up! Whether it's going for a run, surrounding yourself with uplifting people, or simply trying something new, these actions can prevent your space from becoming unmovable and corroded. Remembe...

"Summertime is always the best of what might be." — Charles Bowden

Tradition matters — in martial arts and in life. It teaches discipline, respect, and perseverance. Old-school practices like kata still have value, even if modern systems move away from them. Tradition connects us — like family meals and passed-down customs — helping us stay grounded. Be present — Tim ties in the four dimensions (height, width, depth, time) to explain how being mindful of posture...

Some fitting Memorial Day quotes: "This nation will remain the land of the free only so long as it is the home of the brave." "Home of the free, because of the brave." "I only regret that I have but one life to lose for my country." — Nathan Hale "America without her soldiers would be like God without His angels." — Claudia Pemberton "We don't know them all, but we owe them all." Their sacrifice l...

Sensei Tim Hoover and Steve Mittman talk about a scary real-life incident where a woman was threatened and attacked in a movie theater parking lot. They break down why being prepared and aware in dangerous situations is so important. Tim shares lessons from his weapons training and Steve explains why "self-protection" is better than "self-defense." This episode will help you think differently abou...

"No one is dumb who is curious. The people who don't ask questions remain clueless throughout their lives." — Neil deGrasse Tyson

Introducing the Boomerang Theory — the idea that what you put out comes back to you. Tim shares a childhood story about learning to throw a boomerang and how it taught him the value of practice, patience, and consistency. Whether it's in faith, relationships, or personal growth, success takes steady effort — not just being a "weekend warrior." The love and energy you put in always comes back. Than...

"Discipline is remembering what you want." — David Campbell

The 80/20 Rule for a Better Life is what Tim and Steve discuss on this podcast episode. It's a new spin on the 80/20 Principle, also known as the Pareto Principle: Health: 80% eating, 20% exercise Wealth: 80% habits, 20% math Talking: 80% listening, 20% speaking Learning: 80% understanding, 20% reading Achieving: 80% doing and taking action, 20% vision and dreaming Happiness: 80% purpose, 20% plea...

"If a man aspires towards a righteous life, his first act of abstinence is from injury to animals." — Albert Einstein