Attack Life Not Others

"Whatever luck I had, I made. I was never a natural athlete, but I paid my dues in sweat and concentration and took the time necessary to learn karate and become world champion." — Chuck Norris

Exploring the dynamics of relationships and the impact of different individuals in life, Tim and Steve reflect on the significance of meeting people for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. They discuss the influence of mental fortitude in achieving extraordinary accomplishments, referencing Olympic gold medalist Lanny Bassham and his mental management system. The two invite listener George to join...

"Out here in the fields, I fight for my meals. I get my back into my living. I don't need to fight to prove I'm right. I don't need to be forgiven." — Pete Townshend, The Who

Timestamps: 0:30 - Rule 1: Make Peace with Your Past 0:40 - Rule 2: Others' Opinions Don't Matter 0:53 - Rule 3: Time Heals 1:00 - Rule 4: You Control Your Happiness 1:08 - Rule 5: Don't Compare or Judge Others 1:26 - Rule 6: Overthinking and Its Remedies 2:15 - Rule 7: Smile and Perspective on Problems

"To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you." — Lewis B Smedes

Discover the power of motivation and passion on this episode with Tim, Steve, and Sammy. Some say motivation is a myth and it's not real. Whether you call it motivation, momentum — or you're looking to avoid pain and gain pleasure as Tony Robbins talks about — there's something to it. Join them as they delve into the essence of motivation and how to ignite it in others. They illustrate how pushing...

"Always forgive your enemies, nothing annoys them so much." — Oscar Wilde

Tim and Steve reference Dan Millman and Jimmy V, both of whom have spoken about the importance of living life to the fullest. They emphasize the need for enthusiasm, motivation, and pushing boundaries to achieve greatness in all aspects of life, striving to make every moment extraordinary. Discover how ordinary people can achieve extraordinary things in life through the inspiring story of Jimmy Va...

"We all have inner demons to fight. We call these demons fear and hatred and anger. If you don't conquer them, then a life of a hundred years is a tragedy. If you do, a life of a single day can be a triumph." — Yip Man

Discover the power of cultivating happiness as a habit rather than a goal, inspired by a profound quote from Richard Branson. Join Tim and Steve as they discuss the importance of being present, practicing gratitude, and embracing life's challenges as opportunities for growth. Learn how happiness can be within reach for anyone willing to let it grow, even during tough times.

"Don't be the reason someone feels insecure. Be the reason someone feels seen, heard, and supported by the whole universe." — Cleo Wade

Tim encountered an 80-year-old man on the beach who was moving with incredible speed and determination using a walker. Despite his age, the man exuded vitality ( he did not let the old man in ). This is a reminder that age is just a number, everything is relative, and our mindset and attitude towards life matter more than the years we've lived. Tim's conversations with the 80-year-old in Florida a...

"My name is Sherlock Holmes. It is my business to know what other people do not know." — Arthur Conan Doyle, Sherlock Holmes: The Adventure of the Blue Carbuncle

Long-term commitments and hard work lead to a well-lived life with purpose. There are no shortcuts to success. Tim shares a personal anecdote about his daughter Chelsea and a powerful story about a man facing a terminal illness who expresses contentment and no regrets due to living a life filled with love, positivity, and faith. Steve stresses staying true to the path of hard work despite societal...

"Don't throw away luck on little stuff. Save it up." — Tim O'Brien

Tim and Steve discuss the concept of perishability in martial arts and beyond. They emphasize the importance of maintaining and sustaining anything of value in all aspects of life to prevent decay. The hosts delve into the significance of upkeep to keep skills and values alive throughout one's lifetime.   Tim shares how he can spot trained martial artists based on their demeanor, highlighting the...

"The first of April is the day we remember what we are the other 364 days of the year." — Mark Twain "Any fool can make a rule, and any fool will mind it." — Henry David Thoreau "Tricks and treachery are the practice of fools that don't have brains enough to be honest." — Benjamin Franklin

Taking chances and risks is important, but having a backup plan is crucial. This episode picks up from a few weeks ago when Tim told Steve about the "yes column, no column, and what ifs" in making decisions. While it's good to consider possibilities, dwelling too much on "what ifs" can lead to paralysis. The discussion highlights the balance between taking calculated risks and being prepared for t...

"Educating the mind without educating the heart is no education at all." — Aristotle

Excuses can lead to destructive cycles, trapping you in negative behaviors. Tim shares some real-life stories of how excuses began with justifying little things and escalated into criminal habits. Excuses can become a comfort zone, hindering personal growth and positive change. To break this cycle, make small, positive changes daily, such as choosing healthier options and surrounding yourself with...

"Be still and know that I am. Be still and know. Be still. Be." — St Patrick

There is wisdom and power in being silent. Thoughtful communication is valuable in today's fast-paced world filled with online criticism and judgment. Tim and Steve reference a quote from Sir Arthur Conan Doyle (as Sherlock Holmes), emphasizing the importance of listening before speaking. They reflect on the lost art of being silent, waiting for the right moment to contribute to a conversation. Th...

"It is better to create than to learn! Creating is the essence of life." — Gaius Julius Caesar

Tim shares another Florida story and some life lessons from a hot tub encounter. This podcast episode highlights the significance of always considering the "what ifs" when making decisions. Be proactive, prepared, and able to adapt in all situations.

"Just watching an animal closely can take you out of your mind and bring you into the present moment, which is where the animal lives all the time — surrendered to life." — Eckhart Tolle