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Losing your virginity can feel like one of the most significant events in your life so far. The reality is however, it might be as big of a deal as it seems right now. In order to make sure everything goes smoothly, there are a few things you'll want to be aware of, and have prepared for in advance. So if you want to be fully prepared for when that day comes, be sure to listen to this episode! You...

If you haven't tried male sex toys - especially onaholes, you're missing out. Seriously, they're THAT good. The big downside however? They're a bit more work. Between cleaning, drying and lube, they aren't quite as convenient as using your hand. You may be wondering - instead of buying lube for your toy, can you just use saliva? This is REALLY important to know if you use these toys, so be sure to...

Porn can cause a lot of problems in relationships, especially if both partners aren't on the same page about it. While studies have shown that watching porn together can improve intimacy between partners, some people have much worse opinions about it. But can porn actually be considered cheating - and under what circumstances? It turns out, with the way porn has changed in the last 20 years, the a...

Have you ever looked at a thong and wondered, 'what is even the point?' They're so small that they hardly hide anything, they don't provide warmth, and they just kind of ride up your butt crack anyway. It turns out however, that there are a lot of benefits to thongs that traditional underwear can't provide - and neither can just going commando! So, in this episode, I break these reasons down one-b...

Gooning has become an incredibly popular way to consume porn over the last few years - and some people have said it is the most recent "new" fetish that we've seen at such a large scale! But what actually is it, anyway? How do you goon, and is it safe to do so? What are the benefits, and what are the risks? Welcome to Gooning 101! --- Website: https://lewdlexi.com Sign up for my email newsletter!...

Porn "plots" - if you can even call them that at this point, haven't just gotten worse - they've gotten downright ridiculous in some cases! But did you know that this may actually be intentional? In this episode, we break down why the plot isn't usually done that well, the interesting reasons why they've gotten so ridiculous, and where you can find porn that actually has some meaning and story beh...

They say as a man ages, he gets more attractive. But this increase in attractiveness isn't just due to physical qualities. In fact, most of what draws women to older men has nothing to do with looks or money, but from the natural character traits men tend to adopt as they get older. So, what makes older men appealing, and how can you use this knowledge to give you an advantage now - without having...

One of the most common issues I see working with couples is that their sex drives are out of sync, and one person wants sex more than the other one. This is natural. What becomes a problem is when one partner begins deliberately withholding sex from the other person. So, when does this cross over into 'abuse' territory, and what can be done to resolve things? In this episode, we break these topics...

If you've been to a nudist resort, nudist camp, or nudist beach before, it's natural to wonder - with all of those naked people around, what happens if you end up getting an erection? On one-hand, erections can make guests uncomfortable. However, they're also naturally occurring, and that is part of what nudism is about! It turns out, the answer is relatively simple. So if you're planning on pract...

TikTok grew so popular because it shows you exactly what you want to see, exactly when you want to see it. And although hardcore porn / nudity isn't allowed on the platform, it is FULL of sexual content that basically amounts to softcore pornography. In fact, once you train the algorithm the right way, you basically get an unlimited feed of porn tailored to your exact kinks and fetishes. In this e...

We've all heard the stereotype that black men have larger penises - so this may lead you to wonder - is there any notable difference in vaginas? Do different races have pussies that tend to be tighter, or shaped in a way that makes them feel better? In this episode, we break down the reality of this question and other stereotypes when it comes to genitalia. --- Website: https://lewdlexi.com Sign u...

As the man, you probably have an idea on where you like to spray your cum, as your orgasm approaches. But does your partner feel the same way? A survey was ran to over 700 people talking about their preferences when it comes to where they like to shoot or receive the cumshot. It turns out, the preferences of men and women vary quite a bit - so in this episode, I'll break down this data for you (an...

Ever wondered how porn stars seem to go all night, without so much as a break? Turns out, it's not just good genetics, or a magically blessed penis - there are a few tricks they use that let's them make it all the way through a scene. In this episode, we pull back the curtain on some of the secrets behind the magic, but be warned - the porn industry isn't as pretty as it seems! --- Website: https:...

Although we live in a world where we can see thousands of hot girls at any given time, there is something special about masturbating to people that we actually know in real life. But is this socially acceptable? Should you feel weird by masturbating to a friend's pictures, or fantasizing about them in this way? In this episode, I break down what's okay, vs. what isn't. I'll also share some importa...

In a world where we have more hardcore porn available than we could ever consume in our lifetimes, it leads you to wonder why softcore porn is still being produced. It turns out, softcore porn is still as popular as ever, and there are specific reasons why people - particularly women, enjoy it. Understanding these reasons may not only open your eyes as to what makes it so great - but can actually...

To many guys, the idea of having a threesome is the sexual holy grail - after all, who wouldn't want two girls at one time? Of course, bringing this idea up to your wife isn't always easy - especially if you are in a monogamous relationship. So, how can you get your wife onboard with the idea of a threesome - and what rules, guidelines and boundaries should you set up in advance? In this episode,...

Butt plugs are one of those toys you see a lot online, but not a lot of people actually have in their toy box. This can lead you to wonder - what even is the point of butt plugs anyway, and why might you want to use one? It turns out, there are a LOT of benefits to them, regardless of whether you enjoy vaginal or anal sex - or even if you're single. In this episode, we cover all of these benefits...

We go to strip clubs to get horny and have fun. But as the night goes on, it's normal to crave release! Lap dances are a lot of fun, but they're even more fun when the dancer is using her body not only to give you a show, but to make you feel good as well. This may give you an idea... can you let yourself cum during the dance? This is a good question! In this episode, we'll go over how you can kno...

There's not a single person on this planet that doesn't want to have a desirable ass. However, it seems like women are typically the ones that are blessed with beautiful booties! This can lead you to wonder - can guys develop bubble butts too? Is there something you can do to transform your butt into a work of art, or does it purely come down to genetics and luck? And if you DO have the power to c...

Let's be honest - most of us have probably fantasized about what it'd be like to spend a day with your favorite pornstar. And in the right circumstances, this may actually be possible! Whether you're a small studio looking to hire them for a video shoot or you simply want your own day of private fun, in this episode we look over what's possible, what isn't, and what you might expect to pay! --- We...

A girl's butthole is one of the most special - and private places of her body. So, it's normal for girls to be shy about it! But do girls generally like having their buttholes touched? If so, in what ways? And if your girl doesn't seem to be open to it, what can you do to get her to feel more comfortable with anal play? In this episode, we answer all of these questions and more! --- Website: https...

It's commonly believed that the younger a woman is, the tighter her pussy is likely to be. But is there really that much difference between an 18-year-old pussy and a 40-year-old pussy? If so, what causes the difference? And if not, how can you ensure that it feels as good as possible to fuck? In this episode, we answer all of these questions and more! --- Website: https://lewdlexi.com Sign up for...

Have you ever noticed while watching porn, that the scene almost always ends with the woman receiving a facial? This is especially true with major studios! So, why are facials so popular, and why don't companies allow the man to ejaculate elsewhere instead? It turns out, there are actually some pretty good reasons behind it! --- Website: https://lewdlexi.com Sign up for my email newsletter! https:...

Fetishes can be a lot of fun, and allow plenty of new ways to enjoy sex. But when they start to control your thoughts or make sex without the fetish less pleasurable, it's natural to want to get rid of them. Thankfully, most fetishes can be gotten rid of, as long as you know what to do! In this episode, we discuss fetishes, what to do when they become problematic, and how you can get rid of them f...

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