Are We Doing This?

It’s officially our one-year podcast anniversary 🎉 and somehow… yes, we’re STILL doing this. In this episode, we reflect on how far the show has come since our very first recording (spoiler: it wasn’t as cringe as we feared), celebrate surviving a full year of podcasting, and ease into one of our favorite things—real, unfiltered life updates. We catch up on what’s been filling our weeks: solo par...

On today’s episode, we wade through the overwhelming stream of difficult news pouring out of Minnesota — from federal immigration enforcement crackdowns and shootings to community fear and fatigue. Amid that heaviness, we remind listeners that even in the darkest times we still need pockets of joy to stay human. Lauren P. opens up about a book she couldn’t put down — the kind of escape that gives...

In this episode, Lauren P and Lauren B ease into the new year in very on-brand ways: one is reading books in a cozy cabin pretending life is soft and gentle, and the other is aggressively organizing her house after the holidays exploded it. Lauren P realizes (once again) that a few casual drinks will absolutely ruin her entire next day and questions why she keeps relearning this lesson. Lauren B s...

It’s our end-of-year / New Year’s episode and we are unwell (in the best way) over our debut season stats. Apparently, our brand-new little podcast was more popular than 92% of other new shows on Spotify , landed in the Top 15% of video podcasts , got shared more than 94% of other shows , and somehow made its way into 8 different countries (hi Bulgaria, Germany, Australia, and our ride-or-dies in...

In today’s episode, we’re basically here to say: hydration, less scrolling, and touching grass might actually work. We talk about the small habit changes that are making us feel mentally and physically better—drinking more water, moving our bodies, getting off sleep meds, and (gasp) spending way less time on our phones. We also tackle one of parenting’s greatest mysteries: how to keep the Christma...

In this week’s episode of  Are We Doing This? , Lauren P kicks things off by recounting how her friend  almost drowned in two feet of water  in Mexico—because nothing says “vacation” like a near-death experience in ankle-deep waves. Lauren B then shares her recent ADHD diagnosis, connecting the dots on a lifetime of “Wait… is this not how everyone’s brain works?” Separately, the Laurens reflect on...

In this episode, Lauren and Lauren Parajon catch up on all the big things—like conquering Thanksgiving, surviving the 2,768-step Manitou Incline (aka: the StairMaster from hell), and planning a handmade Christmas because apparently nothing says “festive” like stabbing fabric thousands of times with a tiny needle. Lauren Butler shares how she’s rediscovering her crafty side through hand embroidery,...

Lauren and Lauren reflect on how much the podcast—and their lives—have evolved. Turning 40 has brought new perspectives, new hobbies, and a whole lot of self-discovery. From handmade holiday gifts to ADHD, perimenopause, and the rollercoaster of mental health, they open up about what it means to really understand yourself in midlife. They also talk writing as therapy, reality TV as research ( hi,...

Sleep-deprived and slightly unhinged, Lauren P kicks things off by confessing that life without her sleep meds has turned her into a nocturnal raccoon. Meanwhile, Lauren B channels her inner activist at the No Kings rally and comes back feeling empowered. Then it’s time for this week’s obsessions: Lauren P is deep in the Plated Prisoner series (a spicy romantasy involving King Midas, which isn&#39...

Watch is episode on ⁠YouTube⁠! Lauren and Lauren are officially 40! In this episode, they look back on their birthday celebrations and what it really feels like to enter a new decade. Lauren P. shares stories from her throwback slumber party—complete with games, laughter, and heartfelt moments—while Lauren B. recounts the surprise of a lifetime: a Life of a Showgirl–themed celebration, a spa day,...

This week, the Laurens sit down with Niki Froman , licensed clinical social worker and owner of Inner Shell Therapy in Fort Collins. What starts as an interview quickly turns into a mini therapy session—covering everything from what it’s really like to work in the mental health field, to the mental toll of perimenopause, to the connections between sleep, trauma, and ADHD. Lauren B gets personal as...

ARE we okay? Honestly, back-to-school season has us feeling a little unhinged—and that’s before you add freelancing, imposter syndrome, and planning milestone birthdays into the mix. This week, we talk about the anxiety of starting something new (hello, freelance life), the surprise of realizing when romance writing gets too personal, and why we’re done being embarrassed about throwing ourselves 4...

This week’s episode took an unexpected turn when Lauren B got a FaceTime call mid-recording from our friend Ashley—who came bearing the BREAKING NEWS that Taylor Swift is engaged ! Naturally, Ashley hopped on the pod and she and Lauren B went full fangirl mode (yes, there were tears). Once we finally recovered from the Swiftie meltdown, we dove into our current obsessions: Lauren B is all about Ta...

You can watch this episode on ⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠! We made it—25 episodes! In this one, we look back at how far we’ve come and spill about what’s next. Think: summer chaos, the sudden shift to fall routine, family-life juggling acts, and our very important reactions on Taylor Swift’s new album announcement. We get honest about career curveballs, wrestling with imposter syndrome, and finding community in u...

Fresh off a 3-day girls trip to Vegas, Lauren and Lauren are back—and they brought souvenirs in the form of stories, laughter, and just a few rum-soaked Dole Whips. In this episode, we’re recapping the unforgettable weekend we spent with our college besties, Joy and Ashley—from getting way too into the Magic Mike show (no regrets), to living our best lives in a cabana at the Bellagio pool, and of...

Watch this episode on YouTube ! In this "Are We Best Friends Now?" episode, we sit down with Kimberly Page—a former entertainment insider turned romance author—for a candid chat about what it really takes to write, publish, and put your heart on the page. Kimberly opens up about the wild ride of launching her books, the creative sparks behind her characters, and how feedback from readers...

In this Are We Obsessed? episode, the Laurens dive into their latest fixations—because when they love something, they really love it. Lauren P reveals how a spicy little Ali Hazelwood novel yanked her out of a six-month reading slump (12 books in one month, y’all!) and shares her newfound love for old-school porch hangouts with neighbors while the kids run wild in the street like it’s 1993. She al...

(Edited with improved audio!) In this hilarious and heartfelt episode of Are We Doing This? , Lauren and Lauren dive into the chaos and comedy of summer parenting. They swap stories about teaching their kids to ride bikes, surviving splash pad birthday parties in the rain, sunset paddle board picnics, and letting daughters get bangs and purple highlights. The conversation turns to their June movem...

In this episode of our Are We OK? series, Lauren and Lauren dive into the emotional whiplash of living in America right now—covering everything from the administration's immigration tactics to the hope sparked by the No Kings protests. They explore how activism and community help ease feelings of helplessness, especially when current events feel overwhelming. The conversation also takes a pers...

In this "Are We Obsessed?" episode, the Laurens catch up on what they’re currently loving—from go-to products and comfort-first fashion to new TV obsessions and what’s on their bookshelves. They swap weekend updates, talk through recent fitness ups and downs, and share how they’re trying to stay on track with health goals while still enjoying life. The conversation winds through everyday...

This week, the Laurens are back with updates on their fitness challenge—and let’s just say things escalated quickly. Wall Pilates is no joke and Lauren B accidentally found herself in a HIIT cardio class that nearly ended her. Spoiler: she survived, but barely. Then, they sit down with the incredible Jen Gayden, the creative force behind Vivian James Events in Fort Worth. Jen shares how she blends...

This week, the Laurens are back with a wild mix of firsts, fails, and future plans. Lauren P recounts her shocking near hole-in-one during her very first golf outing—and her dream of assembling a glam golf crew for a weekend of cute outfits and cocktails. Meanwhile, both Laurens took on the challenge of watching all 10 Academy Award Best Picture nominees (well… almost all), and they’re not holding...

In This Episode: Lauren P debates whether competitive soccer is the right fit for her son—especially if it means giving up her beloved Soccer Saturdays with friends. Meanwhile, Lauren B tries Pilates for the first time, shows up late, and accidentally does the entire class on the hardest setting thanks to some reformer confusion. The Laurens also unveil an exciting new structure for the podcast! E...

In this episode, LB and LP get real about motherhood, money, and the elusive search for balance. From Mother’s Day reflections to summer survival strategies with kids, they cover it all — with detours into the world of film ( Wicked , Conclave , and A Complete Unknown ), podcast rabbit holes, and a possible kid cameo. LP spills the financial details of her cake biz — and that one time a reality TV...

In this episode of Are We Doing This? , we're diving into two Best Picture nominees as part of our Oscars challenge: Anora and The Substance . We react to the shocking, grotesque imagery in The Substance —including an unforgettable chicken wing moment—and unpack the intensity of Anora , especially that wild Russian "bad guys" scene (we’re pretty sure we wouldn’t scream that loudly, even if we trie...