Javi

Are We Dating?

Society EN ↓ 3 episodes

On Are We Dating?, dating show casting director and singer-songwriter (who probably writes too many love songs) Javi Silva unpacks the trials, tribulations, and occasional triumphs of singles who’ve dared to date in New York and LA—two cities where finding love feels more like auditioning for a role you’ll never book.

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Javi

Episodes

Nele and the Narcissists of NYC: Background Checks, Bruised Egos, Bad Dates, and Basement Dwellers 18.07.2025 49:37

Javi sits down with his surrogate sister and native Brooklynite, Jhanele, to discuss everything including: bads dates, MLMs, being fetishized, and summoning demon lords .

EP 2: Gary vs. The Zodiac: Kinks, Queens, Three-ways, and Cosmic Shade 02.06.2025 53:47

🌈 On this special Pride Month episode of Are We Dating? , Javi sits down with NYC native turned LA transplant, semi-retired drag queen Gary Moshkovich (@garymosh) — aka Emma Roidz (@the_emma_roidz) — to dish on hook-ups, heartbreaks, and his undying disdain for astrology and warehouse parties. It’s raw, funny, and a little chaotic — exactly how we like it. 🌈 .

EP 1 : Skye’s the Limit: Tantrums, Temporary Hairlines, and Toxic Tinder Tales 01.05.2025 53:48

Skye, a New York-based corporate cutie, joins Javi to unpack the wild world of dating in your 30s, reveal the seedy underbelly of cruise ship culture, and share what really happens when you invite strangers on international vacations. Follow her on Instagram @skyerubel — and feel free to shoot your shot... just remember to behave!