Andy Wells

The legendary Haley Helveston from Your Guide to Love joins me to talk about sex, self-improvement, why sacrifice doesn't automatically entitle you to a pat on the back and why having sex with yourself is fun as hell. Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/0NpgGbboJ3s Hayley's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/haley.helveston/ A few episodes of hers I highly recommend:   1. A...

As much as your ego hates to hear this, some people just aren't ready to be helped. Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yHZwwijLoac Coaching with me (only if you're serious about kicking ass):  https://killyourinnerloser.com/contact The Winners Club (Facebook group for access to me): https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/ 🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordabl...

Feeling frustrated and annoyed by your lack of results on Tinder? Don't stress, I've got the solution. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/Rgs-X6lHyts Approach Anxiety Program: https://www.goodlookingloser.com/anxiety/program-index/approach-anxiety-program-week-1-1 Coaching with me: https://killyourinnerloser.com/contact 🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/...

Yes, it's ok to suck at the start. But you're also allowed to push yourself not to suck. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/_MoBhJ9CbKk Take MASSIVE Action: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/67/ If You Don't Take Yourself Seriously, How Can You Expect Anyone Else to? https://theinnerwinnershow.com/126/ Give Yourself Permission to Suck: http://killyourinnerloser.com/give-yourself-permis...

I'm gonna blow your mind here: Yes, it's ok to have dates without drinking, and yes, it's ok to go on dates during the daytime. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/PvuZZkPGYXQ Patreon: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloser 🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective 🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE CO...

"Hey, you're cute. I'm Andy. I'm in a rush, but lemme get your number and we'll grab a drink". Easy. Watch this on YouTube: https://youtu.be/dfXBzM0Ckhs Patreon: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloser 🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective 🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING...

What to do when you achieve a goal much earlier than you thought you would. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/Gos6OGwrNhk Want ongoing accountability and daily coaching from me, a support network of like-minded guys and daily feedback on your self-improvement journey? Join my private group The Winners Club for all this and more - I'll absolutely kick your ass into gear and make you successfu...

Part 2 of the legendary Ed interview. This time we tackle how he conquered his performance anxiety and finally lost his virginity, some tricks you can use too if you're nervous in the bedroom, and why giving up on his penis led to freedom. Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/2arAXIw3MXg Part 1 was here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/8339692 If you want me to help you too, hit...

You're going to love this MUST LISTEN success story from one of my long-time clients, Ed, who went from being a 31 year depressed virgin to an ass-kicking machine who's slept with 12 women so far, overcome his approach anxiety and even started taking photos with models for his Tinder photos. And for all those guys out there who complain about, "I'm short, so it's impossibl...

The much-anticipated proper interview with escort, sex educator and podcaster Georgie Wolf! We talk about what she loves about being an escort, her wildest stories (including an 80 year old who, and I quote, "Fucked my brains out"), some misconceptions about sex workers and why Andy is a big pussy who's scared of choking girls. Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/HKZw8hW...

A pretty deep discussion with a listener about cheating, coming clean, ethics and morality, philosophy and whether you can be ok with keeping a huge secret for the rest of your life. Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/1Po5bD_QFS0 Why I Advocate Honesty (Why the Truth Matters): https://killyourinnerloser.com/why-i-advocate-honesty-why-the-truth-matters/ 🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our...

An inspiring interview I did with a guy named Andy from Finland about all the changes he's made in his life. It stemmed from a 6-page letter he sent me, on a day when I really wasn't feeling so great myself... Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/GVjGt8szZuk Talk About What You HAVE Done (Not What You Will Do): https://theinnerwinnershow.com/32/ Why Obsession is MANDATORY: htt...

A kickass chat with Joe from Passion Unchained about dealing with childhood trauma, not getting attached to girls too quickly, and not being so much of a fuckboy. Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/jXHh9A5Ui7Q Joe's channel Passion Unchained: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCF6ZPFyk4I70gqtfff5kHLQ/videos How to Not Send Butthurt Texts: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mOolQpb4o7U...

A quick chat that was never meant to be a podcast, but was too good not to share. I'm doing a proper interview with Georgie in a week, so stay tuned. Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/hP_HaR1kfOw In the meantime, check out her podcast The Art of the Hook Up here: https://www.artofthehookup.com/podcast/ 🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) -...

Brandon from my forums joins me to talk about how the AA Program changed both our lives, the wildest (and funniest) memories we made along the way, and advice for people thinking of doing it themselves. Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/Sipj01DTWw4 Approach Anxiety Program: https://www.goodlookingloser.com/anxiety/program-index/approach-anxiety-program-week-1-1 Brandon's log kep...

Why you'll be infinitely happier - and more sovereign - when you do what YOU want to do, and not what others try to manipulate you into doing. Message me if you need coaching: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching How I Found Freedom in an Unfree World: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#how-i-found-freedom-in-an-unfree-world-a-handbook-for-personal-liberty Jocko Willink - Extreme Owne...

Quote: "The aim of '10 Top Tips' was to reverse the popular trend of focusing rape prevention messages on women and instead transfer these towards more appropriate recipients - potential perpetrators." Read the ridiculous article I mentioned (on this page, click "posters") https://www.rapecrisisscotland.org.uk/resources/rcstoptenposta4fin.pdf More info on the campaign...

*** Resources Mentioned: https://killyourinnerloser.com/depression (All the resources mentioned are listed in that article) 00:00 Intro 00:25 Chapter 1 - Despair 35:27 Chapter 2 - Optimism 59:35 Chapter 3 - Hope 1:02:01 Start Small 1:05:58 You Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought 1:07:19 My Other Resources 1:09:43 Focus on the Positive / Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT) 1:12:01 Maki...

Wanna find out how much sexual experience a girl has had? Here's how. Want to ask me questions and have me record an entire podcast episode just for you? Join my Patreon and get exclusive content, early access to all my podcasts WEEKS before anyone else, and much more: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloser 🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://k...

Alternative title: Why Leaving Girls Better than You Found Them Benefits YOU. Watch this episode on the YouTubes: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HV2wmIxC2EU Previous reacts episode: http://theinnerwinnershow.com/242 How to Develop a Sense of Humour: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/72/ How to Give Her Rollercoaster Sex: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/168/ Fantasise About Your Goals (to Make You Bel...

Alternative title: The Hotter She is, the More Mentally Fucked Up She'll Be? Watch this episode on the YouTubes: https://youtu.be/HV2wmIxC2EU It's Not About the Nail: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg Previous episode: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/234 🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective 🏆 DIR...

Well, actually I have "Decent Guy Syndrome", so let's talk about why that's better than being a Nice Guy™. No More Mr Nice Guy: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#no-more-mr-nice-guy When I Say No, I Feel Guilty: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#when-i-say-no-i-feel-guilty 🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extr...

A fun exercise to figure out what you're bringing to the table, and what will keep girls coming back for more. Watch this episode on the YouTubes: https://youtu.be/qaAhcBnZxoY 🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective 🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM: Come be part of my life-changing coaching...

Yep, you can be honest and open, whilst still retaining your masculinity and having women (and men) respect you. Here's how. Watch this episode on the YouTubes: https://youtu.be/I-5ida1NfVs The Winners Club: https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/ There is No Such Thing as Alpha: https://killyourinnerloser.com/alpha/ Honesty is an Ideal You Work Towards: https://killyourinnerloser.co...

The 5 biggest mistakes guys make with getting girls & self-improvement in general. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/Zr0Vzjfl3CY How I Beat My Approach Anxiety: https://killyourinnerloser.com/how-i-beat-my-approach-anxiety/ If you need help, message me for coaching or counselling: https://killyourinnerloser.com/contact Join The Winners Club (daily support from me + a group of like minded guys...