And Then There’s That!

In order for us to realize the dreams, goals and desires we have for ourselves our anticipated joy must outweigh our fears. We must let go of the need of immediate satisfaction or let's be real, immediate distraction, and hold onto the joy we know we will have when we reach out goals.

Take inventory of all the things that are pulling on your spiritual and emotional energy. Prioritize them and then schedule them in your day as you would anything else. Leave time for journalling, meditation, prayer and to breathe. When we are spread too thin it is by choice. You have the power to choose differently because....it....is....YOUR....LIFE!!!

Your life is worth experiencing. Stop going through life on autopilot. Stop looking at life experiences through emotion or ego. Look at life through your spiritual eye for truth. Then you can fully experience all that life has to offer and you can choose what does not belong or no longer belongs in your PRESENT!

The work is on the inside. Stop dressing up the outside and seeking fans when you need to do work on the inside with the support of people who are invested in you!

You are the author of your narrative. Don't give that power to anyone and don't allow them to take it. 

In order to grow from the mess we have created we must first be willing to sit in it.  Your mess has value.  Find the lessons and the opportunities for growth and let the rest go. 

When we know why we do what we do we will change our behavior to behavior that serves us and does not sabotage our next chapter!

What you can do right now, right where you are to move yourself forward in this journey is have necessary conversations!

Healing changes how you look at things and empowers you to take control of what enters your life and the value it will hold.

No decision is still a decision. Own your power to make a change.

Don’t get discouraged by the amount of work that needs to be done, get excited that it’s work for you and think about the woman you are becoming!

As we evolve into the phenomenal Queens we are destined to be, the price of admission you our space, our energy and our lives must change!

As we evolve people may try to keep us where we were and not see us as the Queens we have become, to that I say “Let Me Reintroduce Myself”1

We are not protesting for a piece of the American Pie. We made the pie. We made the oven the pie was baked in. We want what is rightfully ours.... the right to justice for our people and the elimination of needing it!

Everyone one and every experience you encounter is not yours. Don’t delay the assignment of Self with distractions.

Look at self first!!

Each day is a new opportunity to move in your next chapter!

Everyone that was in your last chapter may not have permission to go into your next.

Carrying anyone else’s bag comes at an expense you should never want to pay.

Your next chapter is a journey not a race. 

It’s imperative you are intentional about setting your motivation, keeping it in physical site and having an accountability partner.

As we write the pages to our next chapter of life we must transition from being a belonging to only engaging with people, places and relationships where we BELONG!

In communication seek to understand not to win.

Use new found time wisely

As we embark on this journey of self evolution and manifesting our greatest life we need to do a bit of housekeeping, it’s healing time.