Anatomy of Us

Anatomy of Us

Religion EN ↓ 479 episodes

A podcast dedicated to bringing real help to real couples! Hosts Seth Studley, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, and his wife Melanie Studley, Marriage Expert and Coach, answer listener questions about sex, intimacy, communication, conflict resolution, in-laws issues, healing from infidelity, and so much more! Their authentic and down-to-earth approach to helping couples has transformed thousands of relationships. They have three kids and live outside of Seattle, Wa.

Author

Anatomy of Us

Category

Religion

Podcast website

www.anatomyofus.com

Latest episode

Jul 8, 2026

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Episodes

MARRIAGE: Men, Mental Health, & Money Part 1 25.08.2021

Seth sits down with Rich Jones of Paychecks and Balances and they dive right into the conversation about the importance of having a message that you can't stop shouting and showing people what's possible.   LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High-Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com...

FAMILY: Back to School 18.08.2021

Today we talk about practical ways to make this school year easier for BOTH parents, more effective and helpful for kids, and more fun all around!   LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit...

SEX: 6 Pillars of Intimacy 11.08.2021

Today we are talking with the amazing Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo of "One Extraordinary Marriage" about the 6 Pillars of Intimacy. Every couple needs to know what they are, and how these pillars can transform your marriage!   For more Anatomy of Sex episodes, subscribe to our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys   LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High...

MARRIAGE: Invest in Your Marriage 05.08.2021

Today we explore what it means to invest in your marriage, how it impacts your daily life, and what happens if you don't invest. Plus we share the many ways that we have invested in our own marriage over the years.   LINKS Join us at the Back to Basics Bootcamp on Aug 6, 2021!  https://www.eventbrite.com/e/back-to-basics-bootcamp-tickets-156933888485 https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreo...

MARRIAGE: What to do When Both of You Have Trust Issues 28.07.2021

Today we answer a listener question about what to do when BOTH partners have trust issues from past relationships.   LINKS Join us at the Back to Basics Bootcamp on Aug 6, 2021!  https://www.eventbrite.com/e/back-to-basics-bootcamp-tickets-156933888485 https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtua...

MARRIAGE: My Husband's Great at Taking Care of Himself 21.07.2021

Today we tackle a listener question about a husband who never seems to think about his wife and kids!   LINKS Join us at the Back to Basics Bootcamp on Aug 6, 2021!  https://www.eventbrite.com/e/back-to-basics-bootcamp-tickets-156933888485 https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High-Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor v...

SEX: Sexual Energy with Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt 16.07.2021

In today's episode, we discuss what it looks like to lean into and explore sexual energy. Sign up on Patreon for part 2 of this interview titled "Sacred Sex"!   For more Anatomy of Sex episodes, subscribe to our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys   LINKS Join us at the Back to Basics Bootcamp on Aug 6, 2021!  https://www.eventbrite.com/e/back-to-basics-bootcamp-tickets-156933888485 htt...

FAMILY: The Yes Brain and The Power of Showing Up 14.07.2021

Our interview with author, psychotherapist, and educator Dr. Tina Payne Bryson offers us a much-needed perspective on how to discipline more effectively by recognizing the difference between discipline and punishment. She also helped us look at our kiddos' bad behavior in a whole new way!   LINKS Join us at the Back to Basics Bootcamp on Aug 6, 2021!  https://www.eventbrite.com/e/back-to-basics-bo...

MARRIAGE: Building Self-Confidence as a Husband and Man 07.07.2021

I'm going solo today talking to the men and husbands about how we can show up for our wives and children in a way that makes them feel protected, safe, and secure in all aspects, which in turn builds our own self-confidence. Know that you ARE capable of doing hard things, fixing yourself, and fixing your marriage. Let's do this!   LINKS Join us at the Back to Basics Bootcamp on Aug 6, 2021!  https...

MARRIAGE: My Husband Drinks Too Much 30.06.2021

Today we explore the impact of alcohol addiction on marriage, we share ways to identify an addiction, look for underlying causes, and offer helpful ideas for healing.   LINKS Join us at the Back to Basics Bootcamp on Aug 6, 2021!  https://www.eventbrite.com/e/back-to-basics-bootcamp-tickets-156933888485 https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: h...

SEX: Your Arousal is NOT My Responsibility (Pt 1) 25.06.2021

Seth and I hash out our sex & intimacy issues in REAL-TIME! We cover Family Of Origin, Unspoken Expectations, and the Invisible Rulebook in the in-depth two-part podcast!   For more Anatomy of Sex episodes, subscribe to our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys   LINKS Join us at the Back to Basics Bootcamp on Aug 6, 2021!  https://www.eventbrite.com/e/back-to-basics-bootcamp-tickets-1569...

Our FAVORITE Personal Growth Resources! 23.06.2021

We get requests all the time about our favorite personal growth resources, and today's the day that we share them all (almost)!   LINKS Join us at the Back to Basics Bootcamp on Aug 6, 2021!  https://www.eventbrite.com/e/back-to-basics-bootcamp-tickets-156933888485 https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To...

MARRIAGE: Why Am I Pushing My Wife Away? 16.06.2021

Today we answer a listener question about what to do when trust issues are causing you to push your partner away.   LINKS Join us at the Back to Basics Bootcamp on Aug 6, 2021!  https://www.eventbrite.com/e/back-to-basics-bootcamp-tickets-156933888485 https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual...

MARRIAGE: Shana James of the Man Alive Podcast 09.06.2021

Today we are talking about the world of men and emotions with coach, counselor, and TEDx speaker, Shana James, of the Man Alive Podcast.   LINKS Join us at the Back to Basics Bootcamp Aug 6, 2021! https://www.eventbrite.com/e/back-to-basics-bootcamp-tickets-156933888485 https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coachin...

MARRIAGE: Egalitarianism with Camden Morgante 02.06.2021

We explore Egalitarianism with Dr. Camden Morgante and talk about the positive impact that it can have on marriage and relationships.   LINKS Join us at the Back to Basics Bootcamp Aug 6, 2021! https://www.eventbrite.com/e/back-to-basics-bootcamp-tickets-156933888485 https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching T...

SEX: Foreplay: 5 Myths We Need to Talk About 28.05.2021

Seth and Melanie debunk some of the dumbest foreplay myths out there and help bring you some helpful tips to improve your foreplay game!   For more Anatomy of Sex episodes, subscribe to our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys   LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counse...

MARRIAGE: The Order of Man with Ryan and Trish Michler 26.05.2021

We catch up with Ryan Michler of the Order Of Man Podcast and his wife Trish to tackle what it means to be a man in marriage, how to work to your strengths as a couple, and how healthy masculinity can help relationships thrive.   LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit...

FAMILY: Shameless Parenting with Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers 20.05.2021

Our guest today, Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers, joins to talk through her new book Shameless Parenting: Everything You Need to Raise Shame-free, Confident Kids and Heal Your Shame Too! Listen to the end for a teaser announcement for an upcoming Anatomy event!   LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To fi...

MARRIAGE: I Like It When You. . . 10.05.2021

Today we explore the magical concept of simply telling your partner what they do that you enjoy. It sounds simple enough, but so many couples don't do this at all and their marriage suffers for it.   LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatom...

FAMILY: Step In Where You Can 05.05.2021

Each parent has different strengths, and today we talk about ways to work toward those strengths and to support each other in parenting.   LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone...

MARRIAGE: Growth Mindset, Marriage, Money, and Alcohol 03.05.2021

Seth talks with our good friend, Paul Vedder, about the impact of having a growth mindset on his life and marriage, and his personal journey to change. Paul is an entrepreneur and co-founder of a business that did 2 million in revenue in 2020 and is projected to do 3 million in 2021. Seth talks with Paul about what it is like to be a business owner, to change deep-set thought patterns, and his sto...

SEX: Makin' Sex Tapes 30.04.2021

Sometimes we 'get the juice' but our partner just isn't in the mood, or maybe they aren't with us. Times like these call for creating a good ol' $extape! P.S. If you are offended by this description, you are advised NOT to listen to this episode, and please don't subscribe to us on Patreon!   For more Anatomy of Sex episodes, subscribe to our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys   LINKS...

FAMILY: Creating a Shared Family Vision 28.04.2021

Ever wanted to have a Family Vision but didn't know where to start? We share how to create a Family Vision, why they matter so much, and practical ways to implement SOPs around that vision!   LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarri...

MARRIAGE: The Big Leap with Gay Hendricks 26.04.2021

We received the privilege of talking with one of our HEROES, Dr. Gay Hendricks, all about his life-changing book The Big Leap!   LINKS https://hendricks.com/ https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Vi...

FAMILY: Are You Ready to Grow Your Family? 21.04.2021

How do you know when you're ready to grow your family? We answer a listener question all about when you know that you are ready to start a family. And y'all... it's complicated!   LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn mo...

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