Anatomy of Us

Have you ever found yourself bringing up something hurtful that your spouse did 20 YEARS AGO?! I know I have. Today we are answering a listener question all about the destructive impacts of holding onto old hurts LONG after they have happened!   LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual...

Kids acting out in explosive behavior can be such a difficult situation for families (we know... we have been there!), so we share the tips, tricks, and tools that have helped us on this tricky journey.   LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/a...

We had the pleasure of being interviewed on the wonderful Enneagram and Marriage show with Christa Hardin, and it was so eye-opening! She dug into our enneagram numbers, 7 wing 8, and 9, and y'all it was so good that we just HAD to share it with you!   LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a...

It's time for. . . the dreaded "Sex Talk!" We examine why it doesn't work, and share tips and ideas for approaching age and stage-appropriate sexual education with your kiddos. And we promise it isn't scary when you do it this new way!   LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counsel...

Seth shares a conversation with our coach, Cody Jefferson, about the impact of coaching, why men need to invest more time, energy, and effort into their mental health, and why getting stuff done matters!   LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/...

How does in-home therapy actually work? We share our personal stories from our experiences with in-home family therapy and share what you to expect when a therapist comes to your home. Seth also shares what it was like to do in-home therapy with families as a therapist himself.   LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestud...

Differentiation completely debunks the "you complete me" mentality that is RUINING SO MANY MARRIAGES! We dive into what differentiation is and isn't, how we become differentiated in our relationships, and why it is so important to our overall health and wellbeing as individuals, couples, and even parents!   LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance C...

Today we offer up 20 Questions to help you have the BEST SEX EVER! ** Make sure to download the pdf!** PDF Download Link: https://bit.ly/2Pv9iaR   For more Anatomy of Sex episodes, subscribe to our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys   LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtua...

When a husband and father does not know that he is the leader of his home, he can accidentally lead himself, his wife, and his kids into a miserable existence. Today we talk about the impact that dads have on families, and we encourage the dads out there to step up their game and avoid the pitfall of accidentally becoming a sucky dad!   LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/...

Today we talk with Karissa and Adam King of the Dear Young Married Couple Podcast about the role of spirituality in your marriage.   LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/ad...

Today we talk about the importance of parenting each of your children based on their different personalities and individual needs.   LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/ad...

Seth quit his job! Seth and Melanie talk about that and all the changes they are making behind the scenes.    LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Seth was recently invited onto the Becoming Men Podcast with Ray De La Nuez. They talk about things that can ruin a marriage, as well as topics that men fail to address before getting hitched. Follow his podcast on Instagram @becoming.men.   LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual cou...

We all know that feeling; not wanting to look at our spouse, trying to stay as far away as possible, and just hoping they don't want to talk to you! This is what Jocelyn and Aaron Freeman call The Argument Hangover, which is also the name of their brand new book! We had an amazing opportunity to call them up and talk about The Argument Hangover, learn about the Argument Types and discuss some of t...

Many new parents face this common problem: being touched out by kids and unable to focus on sex. Here are some tips and pointers to remedy your situation!   For more Anatomy of Sex episodes, subscribe to our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys   LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To fin...

Today we talk to our very own kid, Tuff, about the strategies, tips, and tools for Emotional Growth in Kids! It was so amazing (and humbling) to be able to pick our kiddo’s brain about what was helpful and harmful during one of his biggest times as growth as a kid.   LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coac...

Today we explore a very common issue in couples which is, how do I talk to my spouse if they are quiet?!This can drive couples BONKERS, especially if a chatty Kathy is married to a Silent Simon! In this show we offer solutions, tools and tips that should help even the quietest of partners to start happily yapping!   LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Perf...

Today we answer a listener question about what to do when your spouse is constantly fighting with one (or all) of your kids!   LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoice...

Today we answer a listener question about what to do when your husband teases you in front of your kids! We share advice on how to approach the subject with your partner, how to reframe the impact that teasing has on your family, and so much more.   LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a vir...

Y’all everyone has been on the Virtual School thing for SO LONG now, but just in case you find that your kids are still struggling we thought we would offer up a 5 tips that have helped ease the stress in our home!   LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfa...

Today we explore what it actually takes to win at life with Tank. He shares how to stop lying to yourself and make the changes that truly matter the most in life.   LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your a...

Welcome to Anatomy of Sex! This show is exclusive to members of our Patreon, with one episode a month shared publicly. Don't miss out! Sign up for Patreon today to get all future episodes: https://www.patreon.com/thestudleys Today we are talking about a VERY common marriage and relationship problem in the digital age, addictions to chat apps, hookup apps, sexting randos, and basically anything tha...

Today we share simple ways to connect with your kids. We get lots of questions from parents saying that they didn’t grow up in a connected home and they just don’t know how to connect with their kids. Well, here it is!   LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://g...

Today Seth and I called up one of our heroes, Hal Elrod, author of The Miracle Morning, and probably one of the most influential people in saving and transforming our marriage. Hal shares how his death at the age of 20 was the pathway to the new mission-driven life that he now leads, and how beating cancer three years ago has only strengthened his desire to help those in need.   LINKS https://www....

Oh my gosh you guys, we are just a few days away from our big relaunch with 2 ALL NEW SHOWS added to the Studley family, Anatomy Of Family and Anatomy Of Sex! WOOHOOO!  Here is a taste of the goodness to come!      Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices