An Older Gay Guy Show

WARNING: If you are SENSITIVE regarding the topic of DEATH, or have had a particular trauma with the death of a loved one, PLEASE SKIP THIS EPISODE. Humor regarding death is within this show. But if you are curious about the Universe and are not bothered by discussing death in detail, please enjoy this trippy, intense, thought-provoking episode about the unknown. This is THE MOST BIZARRE episode I...

Two unbelievable things happened to me this week, and unfortunately, they ending up being related. Sit back and listen to a couple of stories that have taught me a most important lesson in life. Learn from my mistakes, please!

Tired of endless dating and not finding the right one? Or, tired of not even getting any dates to see if they are the right one? I give you my part of my perspective on gay dating and finish with an important exercise that will give you insight into the potential reasons why you find it impossible to date a decent guy. I hope it gives you some things to think about!

I recently re-connected with my friend from high school, Bob. I reminisce about our teenage years and my 'seduction room'.

A bit controversial, I discuss the various labels used in the gay community and consider whether some are welcome and good, or are all of them restrictive and insulting? Let's think about it. 

I have the most embarrassing phobia that seems to attack me whenever the Universe is looking for a laugh. I hope you enjoy my story about my strange paranoia. I end Season 2 with a silly, hopefully fun, kinda stupid tale of a conversation between friends. Enjoy the remainder of your Summer, see you all in 3 weeks for the start of Season 3. PLEASE, SUBSCRIBE !!

Not sure if this was a good idea, but I purposely messed myself up a bit so I could have some fun. This won't be a regular thing, fear not. But I hope you get a laugh, or a nice memory from it. A more serious look at Our Identity will be on the YouTube Channel for this podcast. The Channel name is An Older Gay Guy Show.

My first ' buzzed' episode, as my husband Paco and I celebrated the first day of Summer out on our deck with some wine. LOL In this episode I discuss an article about the most common relationship mistakes that gay guys make. These factors might be some of the reasons for break-ups that we have all experienced.

Part One of a 3-part series about Gay Relationships and Break-Ups. In this first episode, I begin to tell you about my personal relationship experiences and then discuss an article called 'Gay and Can't Find a Partner?' that lists reasons why gay relationships might be doomed from the outset. Part Two will conclude my personal story and will discuss an article called 'Top 7 Common Relationship Mis...

An Interview Show featuring one of my closest friends who has had an extraordinary life. Kris shares interesting details of his early days as he prepared for his transition into a woman. He tells of surprising circumstances that led to a life-long quest for acceptance and to find his place in the LGBTQ community. It's a fascinating listen, and I hope you enjoy this first interview episode of An Ol...

A discussion about the importance of screening for colorectal cancer. If you are approaching age 50, it is imperative you have this important procedure. I had been petrified beyond belief about having a colonoscopy due to a previous test I had done more than 20 years ago. I discuss the early procedure as well as my personal experience with having a colonoscopy. I take you step-by-step through what...

A discussion about Neuropathy, a common problem that develops with Diabetes, Advanced HIV, Lyme Disease, Shingles and many other ailments. While there is no cure, we look at current treatments for pain relief and management of the condition. Anyone over the age of 40 should listen to this episode, as it is becoming more prevalent due to excessive body weight in more and more adults.

As we age, it is not uncommon to have growing fear and anxiety about the future. In many cases, these emotions are not only related to health and finances but also to a sense of losing your connection to the LGBTQ+ community. In this episode, I tell you a bit more of my own history of fear and anxiety, and we look at an article that gives us '5 Ways to Overcome Fear and Anxiety'.

An important message about the Thanksgiving and Christmas Holidays, as well as all the religious celebrations around the world, inclusive of ALL religions. You are all important in this world.

Today I'm going to tell you one of the most unusual things that happened while I worked as a Funeral Director/Embalmer. I think you'll find this story entertaining and interesting. At the time, I couldn't believe it actually happened! Please join me for a unique mystery.

Have you ever felt that you are less attractive, less muscular than others? Have you felt that at your age all your chances at happiness have evaporated? I talk candidly about outward appearance and why sometimes the grass is actually greener on YOUR side of the fence.

As we age, we all have concern about who will care for us when we are old. This is a discussion about some of the unknown details that might shock you, and I quote some articles that may offer some assistance in this very important factor as we move into our Senior years.

Age is just a number, right? So maybe there are some dreams that we used to have when we were 'younger' that we kind of pushed back for  someday in the future , or maybe we just gave up on those dreams altogether. But do we have to? We aren't dead (or at least in most cases, LOL), so......can we still make those dreams come true? I'm telling you about one of mine, how I'm going to do it, and I ask...

Us gays LOVE our pets! In this episode I tell you a tale of what I consider to be the best thing I have done in my life. I hope it inspires you, I hope it calls you to action, and I hope it prompts you to give your pet family an extra hug tonight!

My history with Gay Pride Parades started with the 3rd Pride Parade that Boston ever had, back in 1973. This year is my return to those celebrations and I wanted to tell my story of why I haven't been to a Pride event in many years, and the strange introduction I had to gay life all those years ago.

I share a story that I didn't think I would ever talk tell on a podcast. But having just had a birthday, I decided that I needed to tell this tale, and explain why I feel like a free man now. This is not the typical episode of this show. But if you are a person who has struggled with the past, running a movie-like memory over and over again in your mind, this story might be of value to you. This i...

Gay Bars are closing all over the country. Why? Is it the Internet? Drug use? Our older gay community is losing its structure. Let's discuss what Gay Bars and Gay Dance Clubs used to be, and what is happening now.

Looking for a boyfriend but can't seem to get past a first date? Why doesn't it work out?  We look at some situations and suggestions on how to attract the right people.