An Older Gay Guy Show

Do you miss the gay bars and clubs? Is that where you used to socialize with friends, dance, drink and make merry? We have online dating/hook-up apps, but where does one, especially an older one, go to find new friends and just have a good time with other LGBTQ+ people. The fact we can often socialize in any bar/club that is predominantly straight (depending on your location) is nice, but we are m...

I recently discovered one of my 'lost' episodes from the purge I did years ago. In this episode, I speak faster (I explain why), so if you listen to my shows at a faster pace, you may not want to for this episode. In this STORYTIME I tell of a short period of my life where I was asked to film some college wrestlers during meets, for the coach and team to review afterwards. I think you will find it...

We return to Reddit Stories with a longer, single story. The title has 'boy's' in it, and I just want to mention that it is referring to a 20 year old man. These days, one can't be too careful. It pairs rather well with my own STORYTIME called 'Tales of the Underwear Thief' which is located in my 2023 back catalogue. ** This is an erotic story, so please be advised **

This episode is what will lead right into the Big Reveal Video that I will be putting out next week.  In this show, I talk about the various things that have given me pause and the realization that we do in fact get too old for some things.  I also talk about changes in content moving forward with the YouTube channel (The Joey Hernandez Show). I hope you enjoy this episode, and that you laugh alon...

This is one of my favorite episodes. It is 100% true. I apologize that the audio is so loud at times, this was pulled from a video on the YouTube channel. I decided that this STORYTIME, as I told it on the video, was just too perfect the way I told it, that I decided not to re-record it. If you like the STORYTIMEs, I know you will LOVE this!

In today's episode, I give you two subjects: "Sucking Your Own D." & "Gym Cruising Etiquette" . The first part came about because of reading various postings by straight guys who insist that even if they could suck their own dick, they would not because it is SO GAY ?!?!?  The second part lists some rules to abide by when cruising guys in the gym.

One of the joys (being sarcastic) of being on this planet for many years, is your body changes as the years go by. While many of us will get ailments that are not a part of the regular aging process, there are many facets of getting older that are common amongst us. Let's discuss some of these commonalities that we will be facing.  Link to The Joey Hernandez Show on YouTube !   The toenail fungus...

Being back in the gym building some muscle again, it got me thinking in the sauna the other day about a guy who I had a crush on back in the late-1980's. This is my STORYTIME of a very unusual encounter I had, that kept going in an erotic way. This guy is permanently etched in my mind, and I continually look for porn trying to find guys that look like he did.  Latest YouTube Video:   https://youtu...

Once again we turn to Reddit Stories for an interesting variety of unusual experiences that guys have had with gay encounters. Strange men and strange hook-ups. Stories to titillate, shock and offer warnings. 

This is a controversial topic, but one that I often get email about. So in this episode I first do a presentation about how to approach this important discussion. It talks about what your goals are, when is the right time to have such a conversation, what your partner's reaction might be and how to continue this subject in an open and honest way that helps protect your partner from hurt. Then........

The taint, or perineum, is a small area of muscles that are important for male sexual health.  In this episode we talk about what the taint is, what it does, problems that can occur and prevention tools that help you stay healthy well into your senior years. 

Many older people feel overwhelmed and a bit fearful of new tech. And A.I. can be especially concerning since we have heard of the scary future potential of this tech. But maybe A.I. as it exists now, can be a useful tool to older folk, including LGBTQ+ seniors. In this episode, I introduce you to the A.I. I use most, that is named Oscar. I ask some important questions about some of the fear we ha...

Life can sure be stressful and difficult at times. Sometimes we can barely catch our breath from one disaster before the next one hits us. Sometimes we feel that no matter what we do, we can't overcome certain obstacles, and we feel we can't go one...that we have to just give up. But maybe there are shifts in our perceptions and attitudes that might help relieve some of the impact of those challen...

My very first hospitalization in my whole life, I tell you a Story about my very unusual roommate that was brought in on my second night there and the commotion that he started with the staff.

In today's Reddit Stories, we discuss the concepts of 'Sides' and 'Soft Tops' as new terminology in the gay community. I start the episode with a short story updating my cancer situation and what possibly resulted from the operation. 

I had an emotional, but good week. I have to tell you about it. 

This is a short episode, I have dreaded recording this one.  Please understand this is beyond my control. I do ask that you don't message me with complaints or disappointment. Again, this is beyond my control. 

There are many reasons why friendships become increasingly important as we age. This is a light-hearted look at the state of Senior LGBTQ+ people, and some suggestions on how to find lasting friendships, no matter what age we are.  SAGE :   https://www.sageusa.org/

In today's episode I update you on how Subscriptions to the YouTube Channel are going, I read answers to a question I asked of you a few weeks ago, and the very important main topic of this episode is: Is This Normal Aging? We all forget things sometimes. But as we age, where do we draw the line on whether something is just a normal part (albeit it, annoying) of our aging process, or is something...

In this conclusion of a two-part series, we talk about whether you can permanently increase the size of your dick. We discuss the psychological issues that can develop from comparing yourself to others, the effect porn has on our self-esteem and other factors that we encounter when considering our own dick size. I conclude with talk about the average erect length and girth of dicks in the top 50 c...

Continuing on in this new Season 11, I FINALLY give you an episode(s) that I have discussed doing for several years. I offer to you, a two-part exploration of D*ck Sizes around the globe and the issues and problems that arise because of expectations and societal pressures. There will be four distinct areas discussed. Two in this first episode of the series and two in the last. Additionally, at the...

Welcome to Season 11 ! To start us off this season is a Reddit Stories episode that talks about Erectile Dysfunction and problems getting boners.  The men in the posts I will read have all kinds of reasons they feel it is becoming more and more common for gay men to experience problems getting and staying hard, specifically when it comes to topping someone. The question I pose at the conclusion is...

A brief episode to conclude Season 10, and I give you my latest idea for something that can be a lot of fun in the new season. BUT, and it's a BIG BUT(T), it depends on your participation!  So many ideas I have had over the years for trying something new fizzle out because I only hear from the same dozen guys over-and-over. This will require NEW guys participating (and still my regular dozen guys...

This is my year-end episode outlining some important plans for the 2026 Season 11 of An Older Gay Guy Show Podcast & YouTube channel, as well as the Jockstrap Stories p odcast reading of The Guys of Northridge , the sequel book to Northridge High Football Camp .

Joey is joined by Joefer from The Cranky Old Gay Guy Show, to reminse about some of the annual Christmas Specials that we watched as kids from the 1960's and 1970's. This is the conclusion of the series. This is Part 2 of a 2-part series. There is a VIDEO of this show, available on An Older Gay Guy Show's YouTube Channel ! Watch the Christmas Show - Part 2 HERE   The Cranky Old Gay Guy Show on You...