An Extraordinary Take

The Polygamist , Netflix's adaptation of Sue Nyathi's novel, has had everyone talking since its release over three weeks ago. If you haven't watched it yet, run! Packed with cliffhangers that leave you gasping for more, the show is entertaining but also deeply triggering for many viewers. In this week's episode, we bring together a panel of voices all impacted by the show in different ways. Joinin...

In this episode, we sit down with Tech Entrepreneur Motsabi Makhetha who has carved her path in one of the most demanding industries, the events space. Motsabi shares the realities of building a company in a sector often plagued by disorganization, overpromising, and underdelivering. She opens up about how her business mitigates these challenges, the lessons she's learned from running a diverse bu...

We often celebrate the mind and soul, but the body; the vessel that carries us through every experience, too easily becomes overlooked, criticized, or dragged along until it breaks. In this episode, I explore the forgotten role of the body in the mind–body–soul triad, and how our collective culture of "fixing" and "improving" our bodies has left us disconnected from its wisdom. I share the moment...

The holiday season often brings us back into the heart of family but what happens when those spaces are no longer safe, supportive, or aligned with the healing work we've begun? In this powerful conversation with psychologist Dr. NkululekoMhlongo (Dr. Better) , we unpack the realities of mental health in Black communities during the festive season. From navigating triggers and setting boundaries,...

South Africa is often called the rape capital of the world , and the numbers are devastating: 15 women are murdered every day , and 117 rapes are reported daily ; with thousands more going unreported. Gender-Based Violence and Femicide (GBVF) is not just a crisis; it's a national emergency. In this episode of An Extraordinary Take , host Sibonisile Cossa sits down with Cameron Kasambala , spokespe...

This week's episode is more of a story time where we journey through the miraculous and the mysterious, these are moments where faith met the supernatural and the impossible became reality. You know those moments where every plan you had has gone out the window and you have nothing new up your sleeve; but how just when you were about to lose hope, things come together and work out even better than...

Did you know that research shows people often prefer complainers over those who speak positively about their lives? It's a surprising truth that reveals how deeply our culture discourages self-celebration, especially for women. In this episode, we challenge the idea that humility means shrinking yourself. We explore how being too humble might actually be holding you back from the success, joy, and...

Remember that episode about family members who only call when they need something? Well, Part 2 is here, and it's deeper, bolder, and more necessary than ever. This time, we're joined by Phumza Chuene, a Black Tax Coach and author of The Black Tax Survival Guide, a powerful guide that's helping Black professionals across South Africa and beyond reclaim their financial and emotional autonomy. In th...

In this powerful and heartfelt episode, acclaimed poet and writer Mutle Mothibe , a father of three, joins us for an intimate conversation about the evolving role of Black fathers in the household. We explore the profound distinction between being a father and being a dad , and how intentional parenting can foster lifelong friendships between fathers and their children, relationships that many in...

"Your perspective will either become your Prison or your passport; choose wisely"  Who has shaped the way you see the world? How much of what you believe about yourself and your life has been unconsciously influenced by others? In this episode, I reflect on a somewhat life altering day spent with two of my high school teachers. One, a fabulous woman in her late 50s, is navigating a cancer diagnosi...

In this episode of An Extraordinary Take, I'm joined by my good friend Kuda as we unpack the often-overlooked beauty of singlehood. We challenge the notion that being single is to be endured as a waiting cell before the desired destination of marriage. Kuda reflects on his own journey of navigating singleness as a black man and the responsibility that comes with being seen as an eligible bachelor....

And we're back! After a 3 week break, An Extraordinary Take returns with its 10th episode. In today's episode, we dive deep into the transformative power of travel. More than just a leisure activity, travel is a gateway to expanding your worldview, challenging your assumptions, and connecting with the broader human experience. We unpack the myths and misconceptions that often hold people back, lik...

In a world where luxury is celebrated and progress is often measured by possessions, many of us find ourselves caught in a loop, waiting for the next big thing, the next breakthrough, the next season of abundance, before we allow ourselves to truly live. But what if this constant pursuit of "more" is quietly robbing us of the richness of the present moment? This episode invites listeners to pause...

In this episode we dive into the complex world of workplace dynamics with HR Specialist Thobeka Msweli . Together, we explore what really goes on behind the office doors, from the subtle signs of a toxic work culture to the often-unspoken reasons why internal promotions are passed over in favor of external hires. Thobeka brings her expert lens to help us understand how to recognise if you might be...

This week, I'm joined by Producer, Pastor, and Podcaster Blaq Nubon who is the creator and host of That Husband Podcast, the only podcast on the continent dedicated to husbands under the powerful theme: "Husbands who know better, do better." Together, we dive deep into the institution of marriage and the many dynamics that shape it. From ukukotiza, (a traditional Zulu practice where a new wife (ma...

In this episode, we delve into the emotional and relational complexities that arise when one person becomes the only financially successful member in their family. We explore in particular how sibling relationships can become strained—sometimes even breaking down, when success is unevenly distributed.   We also unpack the subtle ways in which these dynamics can become transactional, with the succe...

In this episode, I open up about my personal journey with anxiety and the emotional waves that often come with it. Here, I share the tools and practices that have helped me not only manage anxiety but also navigate a wide range of emotions with more clarity and compassion. But this isn't just about learning how to live through difficult emotions—it's about strength, growth, and learning to build a...

What if finding the balance' in life isn't about finally tipping the scales even? What if it's not even about finally figuring out how to show up at 100% for all the roles you occupy in your life. On this episode I share my own journey of discovering how prioritising work above all else, didn't quite turn out the way I had thought or hoped and how this taught me the importance of prioritising what...

Dear Extraordinary Tribe Welcome to the very first edition of our monthly newsletter for  An Extraordinary Take ! Each month, I get to choose one episode that had the biggest impact on me and put on my writing hat so I can share my deepest reflections and some behind the scenes insights on the topic in a letter to you. This concept feels like such a lofty task considering how deeply meaningful eac...

On today's episode we are joined by Former Football player Jesse Donn, as he takes us through his own process of redefining himself and navigating life after a career move he never saw coming. Together, we unpack the often unhealthy relationship we can have with our work when we can't separate ourselves from what we do vs who we are. Jesse, who has now transitioned to a Fitness Trainer, also takes...

In this powerful episode of An Extraordinary Take, we dive into the complexities of the mother-daughter relationship with author, educator, and TEDx speaker Sebabatso Thulo. A passionate advocate for women's healing, Sebabatso has dedicated her life to helping women mend the often complex relationships they have with themselves and each other.   Sebabatso shares her deeply personal journey of disc...

On this episode I am joined by Barbara Moagi who's a 24-year-old Radio Personality, Multimedia Content Creator, Entrepreneur, and the voice behind the empowering podcast "Boldly Becoming." When I knew I wanted to start this podcast Barbara was one the very first few people I felt safe enough to tell and it felt fitting to have her not just as my first guest, but to have her be the person that intr...

Hi there! Vulnerability moment here, one of the main things that led to me taking so long to release this podcast was how many podcasts I would see being launched almost on a daily! I felt as though people were getting podcast fatigue and I completely understood why. But here's the thing, while they may be annoying (some…haha) podcasts are an important mirror into our society. By being exposed to...