Hosted by Ambar, joined by Steven

Ambar, Actually...

Society EN ↓ 14 episodes

Capturing the essence of everyday life, exploring the mundane, the absurd, and the hilarious. Tune in with Ambar and co-host Steven as they navigate the randomness of modern life—one laugh, eye-roll, and rant at a time. From dating drama and pop culture chaos to the deeply petty things that keep us up at night, no topic is too trivial. You’ll get raw conversations, hot takes, and unfiltered hilarity biweekly.

Author

Hosted by Ambar, joined by Steven

Category

Society

Podcast website

www.steventhesier.com

Latest episode

Jul 1, 2026

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Episodes

EP. 14 - Actually… You’re pocket watching 01.07.2026

Since when did scrolling through your timeline turn into auditing someone else's bank account? In this episode, we're diving into why the internet has made everyone entirely too comfortable calculating other people's coins and counting their blessings. This week, Ambar and Steven are tackling the toxic rise of "pocket watching" and the downright scary levels of digital entitlement. From delusional...

EP. 13 - Actually… I want a soft life 17.06.2026

Ambar and Steven discuss the intersection of "soft life" and real-world responsibilities. They challenge the capitalistic version of softness seen on social media—often tied to designer bags and expensive trips—and instead advocate for a definition rooted in peace of mind, healthy boundaries, and self-awareness. Key Topics The Social Media Illusion: How digital marketing sells an overwhelming vers...

EP. 12 - Actually… You’re being performative 03.06.2026

In this episode, Ambar joined by Steven dive into the complex world of performative behavior versus authentic living, exploring how societal pressures and personal aspirations shape our choices. They discuss the importance of aligning with what truly matters to you and how to navigate the pressures of life’s milestones without losing yourself. Key Topics: The duality of personality—the "extra" ver...

EP. 11 - Actually… I’m intuitive 20.05.2026

In this episode, Ambar and Steven explore the power of intuition, self-trust, ego, and societal issues like capitalism and gun violence. They share personal insights, stories, and practical advice on listening to your gut and making confident decisions. Key Topics The Role of Intuition: Discussing how to identify and trust your "gut feeling" as a guiding force. Ego and Self-Confidence: Examining h...

EP. 10 - Actually… I’m kinda attached 06.05.2026

This episode explores attachment styles and their impact on romantic and platonic relationships, emphasizing self-awareness and communication. Ambar joined by Steven share personal insights, debunk myths, and offer practical advice for healthier connections.

EP. 09 - Actually… I said no 22.04.2026

In this episode, Ambar joined by Steven, explore the themes of self-respect, boundaries, and the impact of hustle culture on modern living. They discuss the importance of saying no, the challenges of navigating gender roles, and the emotional intelligence required in relationships. The conversation also touches on the need for accountability and personal growth, as well as the complexities of huma...

EP. 08 - Actually… I don’t want to be your friend 08.04.2026

This conversation delves into the complexities of friendships, particularly the emotional impact of friend breakups, the dynamics of loyalty, and the importance of communication. Ambar, joined by Steven & a special guest explore how friendships can change over time due to life circumstances, the role of jealousy, and the necessity of emotional maturity in maintaining healthy relationships. The...

EP. 07 - Actually… I see you as a friend 25.03.2026

In this conversation, Ambar joined by Steven delve into the complexities of the friend zone, exploring whether it is a myth or a reality. They discuss the nature of rejection, the dynamics of friendships, and the importance of clear communication in relationships. The conversation highlights the differences in how men and women experience rejection and attraction, emphasizing the need for boundari...

EP. 06 - Actually… I’m independent 11.03.2026

In this conversation, Ambar joined by Steven explore the complexities of independence, hyper-independence, and their impacts on relationships and personal well-being. They discuss how cultural backgrounds shape their views on independence, the challenges of modern relationships, and the societal pressures that come with being independent. The conversation also touches on the importance of vulnerab...

EP. 05 - Actually… That’s a red flag 25.02.2026

In this engaging conversation, Ambar and Steven delve into the complexities of modern relationships, discussing red flags, communication styles, and the impact of social media on dating. They explore the importance of vulnerability, emotional intelligence, and the need for clarity in romantic connections. The discussion emphasizes the significance of self-respect and the necessity of recognizing p...

EP. 04 - Actually… I’m healing 11.02.2026

Summary This conversation explores the multifaceted themes surrounding womanhood in 2025, emphasizing the importance of healing, cultural identity, and the unique challenges women face today. The discussion delves into the impact of social media, self-sabotage in relationships, and the need for authenticity in personal and professional spaces. The speakers highlight the significance of understandi...

EP. 03 - Actually…I’m a mom 28.01.2026

Summary In this conversation, Amber and Steven explore the complexities of dating as a parent, discussing the challenges, emotional labor, and communication required in such relationships. They delve into the differences between dating and situationships, the importance of time management, and the impact of social media on dating perspectives. The discussion emphasizes the need for emotional intel...

EP. 02 - Actually… It’s a situation 14.01.2026

In this episode, Ambar and Steven delve into the complexities of modern dating, exploring the nuances of situationships, the dating spectrum, and the impact of social media on relationships. They discuss the importance of emotional intelligence, the role of materialism in dating expectations, and the necessity of therapy for personal growth. The conversation emphasizes self-awareness and understan...

EP. 01 - Actually…Ambar or Ambar, Actually? 31.12.2025

In this engaging conversation, Ambar and Steven explore their backgrounds in podcasting, the challenges of corporate life, and the societal issues affecting their generation. They discuss the cultural shift of women de-centering men in their lives, the importance of mental health awareness, and the need for community engagement. The episode wraps up with reflections on personal growth and the exci...

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