AM I TOO LOUD?! with The Odditty

PODD FAM!! Today on Am I Too Loud?!, we’re talking about the pressure to have it all before 30 beacuse my 29th birthday was just last week and we need to talk! From the dream career, to wanting all the money in the world, that dream body, the relationship, the purpose, the dream life… everything! In this episode, I’m unpacking my solo birthday trip, some pre-birthday anxiety and just general thoug...

PODD FAM 💚 Today on Am I Too LOUD?!, our guest is Olive Okoro, better known as @digital.olive, Founder of Queer Motherland, creator, advocate, and community builder. In this special PRIDE MONTH episode, Olive joins the PODD for an honest conversation about being African, queer, and still choosing to belong fully to yourself. You know those conversations you’ll remember for a long time and that wo...

PODD FAM 💚 After two weeks away, Am I Too Loud?! is back and better. This week, The Loud Report has moved to FRIDAYS and on today’s episode we have commentator, creator, and writer Simone Umba. We talked about Simone’s background, finding her voice online, and what makes good commentary in an internet culture where everyone has a take. Then they get into OUR FYP’s: Love Island USA and UK, Emma Gr...

It’s the 6 month mark of the year and, PODD FAM… we need to talk. not in a “my life is falling apart” way, but in a “wait, am i actually becoming the person i keep saying i want to become?” way. this episode is about growth, limbo, discipline, disappointment, ambition, self-love, and the very rude realization that being busy is not the same thing as being aligned. i talk about feeling like i’m gro...

PODD FAM 💚 Today on Am I Too LOUD?, we’re flipping the TikTok trend “reasons why you wouldn’t be my friend” into a full episode: reasons why you shouldn’t listen to my podcast. In this solo episode, I’m talking honestly about what this podcast stands for — queerness, womanhood, feminism, honesty, loudness, and creating a space where we can tell the truth without shame. We are also talking about P...

PODD FAM 💚 Today on Am I Too LOUD?!, we’re finally having the money conversation. In this episode, I’m talking about my complicated relationship with money: growing up in Lagos, watching my mom give even when she barely had enough, learning to see money as a blessing instead of a tool, coming to America as an immigrant student, surviving college on basically fumes and prayer, and then suddenly ma...

PODD FAM 💚 Today on Am I Too LOUD?!, we're getting into ALL the tea from the past few weeks because your girl has been MIA and I'm back with opinions, gossip, and so much pop culture chaos. Trying out this new series where I share my loudest opinions around all things POP CULTURE! From Megan Thee Stallion and Klay Thompson's breakup to the Met Gala 2026 fashion, the Rihanna vs Tyla vs Ayra Starr...

PART 2!!! In today’s episode, Ismatou (On Our Terms) and Sofi (Am I Too Loud?!) sat down to finish the conversation from last week on sex, silence, shame, and everything Black Muslim women were never supposed to say out loud. In this part 2, we dive into relationships, dating and so much more. From our first boyfriends, to halal dating and to arranged marriages? They're unpacking first crushes, li...

PODD FAM 💚 Today on Am I Too LOUD?!, we’re getting into Coachella chaos, so much internet drama from BRAN FLAKES and STARBUCKS to OLANDRIA, and Children of Blood and Bone and so much more!! From the reality of being a creator and losing friends, to why some conversations around sex, shame, patriarchy, and Black Muslim womanhood still feel so radical, this episode goes there. I’m also breaking dow...

IT’S ABOUT DAMN TIME!! In today’s episode, Ismatou (On Our Terms) and Sofi (Am I Too Loud?!) sat down for the conversation they've both been circling for years. The one about sex, silence, shame, and everything Black Muslim women were never supposed to say out loud. From the sex talk that never happened to the cultural double standards that shaped how they learned about their own bodies, this epis...

PODD FAM 💚 Today on Am I Too LOUD?!, it’s April Fools’ Day… so naturally I decided to do something deeply unserious and answer 55 spicy Never Have I Ever questions by myself. And let me just say now: some of these should’ve stayed in the drafts. Comment below: Which question was the wildest? And which one would YOU refuse to answer? 🎧 Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and everywhere you get you...

PODD FAM 💚, Today on Am I Too LOUD?, I’m opening up about one of the most personal and painful experiences of my life. In this solo episode, I’m talking honestly about pregnancy loss, reproductive choice, and what it means to live in a woman’s body in a world that always seems to have an opinion about it, the kind of thing we don’t usually say out loud, but probably should. I share my story, how...

PODD FAM 💚, Today on Am I Too LOUD?, we’re talking about womanhood, femininity, power, identity, and why being a woman can feel both divine and absolutely unhinged. In this solo episode, I’m getting honest about what it means to become your own version of a woman in a world that constantly tries to define you first. We’re getting into the female experience, the pressure to be beautiful, desirable...

I HAD TO JUMP ON THIS ONE! This week on Am I Too Loud?!, we’re talking about jealousy - the emotion nobody wants to admit to but everybody feels. From friendships to relationships to career comparison, I’m unpacking why jealousy hits so hard, what it actually reveals, and how to stop letting it turn you into someone you don’t like. Comparison really is the THIEF OF JOY and we’re not letting anyone...

Welcome back to Am I Too Loud?! where today we’re discussing a disease many of us had in our 20s: being way too nice and calling it “having a good heart” 😭💀 In this episode, I’m unpacking the nice girl trap, people-pleasing, saying yes when I wanted to say absolutely hell no, overexplaining myself when I didn’t need to, and why being “easygoing” had me stressed, resentful, and lowkey disappearin...

Hey PODD FAM! This one was a rollercoaster!! I’m solo again this time talking all things black history month, valentines day, diaspora wars and so much more? Was I TOO LOUD? ABSOLUTELY!! Hope you enjoy todays podcast and I’ll see you back here next wednesday! Chapters 00:00:00 Welcome & Technical Difficulties Drama 00:03:40 Valentine's Day Crash Out & Panic Attack 00:11:03 Physical Touch & Why I H...

POD FAM 💚 I have missed you!!!! In today's episode of AM I TOO LOUD?!, I’m talking honestly about everything that happened in the past few months, some pop culture catch up and a much needed podcast debrief and new year plans!  I've missed you! Watch VIDEO Episodes - https://www.youtube.com/@AmITooLoudPod/videos If you haven't already... Subscribe to AM I TOO LOUD?! with the Odditt...

Hey POD FAM 💚 I miss you, and I hope you've been enjoying all the episodes from the past year. We're almost at our 50th episode, which feels like a significant milestone for us, still just babies in this podcasting journey. Our first episode back will officially be episode 50, and I can't wait to share more moments with you all.   Thanks for watching in 2025 & Happy New Year!!! 🎉...

POD FAM 💚 This is our final episode of the year, so we wanted to end on a conversation that’s reflective, grounded, and honest about what it really means to speak publicly, take space, and choose yourself when things get heavy. In this episode, we discuss: Cancel culture and context collapse Being misunderstood online Internet outrage vs real accountability Faith, culture, and organized religion...

POD FAM 💚 This episode might make some people uncomfortable, and that’s exactly why we had it. On this episode of Am I Too Loud, I'm joined by Igho and Donald for a long, honest, no-rushing conversation about selfishness, burnout, boundaries, and what it actually looks like to choose yourself as an adult. Somewhere along the way, being “selfless” turned into being exhausted. And in this epis...

POD FAM 💚 Today on Am I Too Loud, our guest is Andrea Okeke, better known as DreaKnowsBest — Nigerian-American actress, creator, comedian, storyteller, and digital powerhouse.  In this episode, Drea opens up about what becoming your best self actually looks like. You know those conversations you’ll remember for a long time… this is one of them. Drea really knows best. We got into the business of...

POD FAM 💚 Today, we have actual reality TV royalty in the building. She was born in the Congo, moved to the U.S. as a kid, and has been choosing joy and resilience ever since. You first met her on Love Island USA Season 2, where she went from overlooked to unforgettable and made history as part of the first Black couple to ever win the American franchise. Then, because once just wasn’t enough, sh...

POD FAM 💚 Today on Am I Too Loud, we are joined by a man who is single-handedly trying to prove that men, in fact, can moisturize, lift heavy, be disciplined, smell good, be accountable and keep their sanity at the same time. Our guest is Mohamet Mbaye — better known as Swaggy Mo and The Fit African — a creator, athlete, model, and wellness advocate based in Los Angeles. Born to Gambian and Seneg...

PODD FAM 💚 Before we get into today’s conversation, I want to acknowledge the tragic events that have unfolded over the last couple of days. There is a lot of pain in the world right now. Disclaimer: This episode was recorded before everything happened, but the themes still matter deeply. Please listen gently and take what you need. In today's solo episode, we’re talking about something many...

POD FAM 💚 This week, I’m sitting down with two powerhouses, Eche and Chika, the voices behind the Afropolitan Podcast, to talk about what it really means to come home. We get deep about identity, purpose, and the beauty (and chaos) of living between two worlds, America and Nigeria. From building community and unlearning scarcity, to redefining success and wealth on our own terms… this one is spec...