Doctor Becc and Kristeen Barker

Am I doing it wrong? For Doctors by Doctors.

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In "Am I Doing It Wrong?” Doctor Becc & Kristeen Barker have the vulnerable conversations all doctors need to remind us "You're not crazy, life as a doctor is". You'll feel seen & connected again & you'll also get actionable strategies to be able to show up as your favourite version of you as a doctor regardless of the daily challenges. Dr Kristeen Barker, nephrologist at Alfred Health, runs online medical education courses for physicians & trainees. Doctor Becc (Dr Rebecca Nothrop) is coach & host of Dare, Darling—a transformative group coaching program for doctors who are people-pleasers.

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Doctor Becc and Kristeen Barker

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5: Dealing with devastating situations as a doctor 02.11.2023 53:17

We start this episode on dealing with devastating situations as a doctor with Kristeen's memory of needing to lift her hands from the chest of her patient after the decision had been made to stop CPR. Any person would agree this is a discomposing situation to face for the first time - or even the fiftieth. However, it's not an unfamiliar situation for any doctor. Today's podcast h...

4: Hard conversations - why you don't tell someone they have food in their teeth 02.11.2023 42:46

What stops you from telling someone they have food in their teeth? Buckle up, team. You're about to hear one of Becc's most embarrassing stories. This will absolutely put you in the mood to get better at saying the hard thing to yoru fellow humans - doctors, patients, loved ones and strangers. Communication is an incredibly important part of our work as doctors. This episode is beyond the b...

3: Receiving negative feedback 02.11.2023 45:57

In medical culture, negative feedback predominates the feedback gifts that we receive. While feedback is a gift in so many ways, it’s never easy to receive negative feedback. And it’s especially difficult to feel like you only ever get ‘bad news’. Taking this situation and being skilful with your response is, however, a game-changer when it comes to sky-rocking your career and becoming the person...

2: Do you feel like you don't belong in medicine? 02.11.2023 41:45

Belonging is a fundamental human need. It’s normal for us to feel a desire to belong and even to feel destabilised when we don't. Many of us hold an idea about what a 'typical' doctor is... Or even a 'good' doctor. Consequently, it's common to feel 'othered' in medical culture. It's never *easy* to feel othered. But, together, we can make this not only a better...

1: Pretending as a Doctor. Can doctors really have balance? 02.11.2023 41:16

Everyone deserves a space in their human lives to be their real human self - even doctor humans. It's less common today in a medical culture of strict expectations of this controversial thing we call 'professionalism', which can be unforgiving to the human condition. Life can be simply described a series of joys and dilemmas and there's no human who's exempt. To pretend t...