Almost Understood

In a world obsessed with achievement, perfection, and self-glory, how do you truly live without losing yourself? In this episode of Almost Understood, Jordan Alexa opens up about the struggle of trying to control life, the pressure to always “do it right,” and the moment she realized that surrendering control is the only way to glorify God. We discuss: • The difference between seeking glory for yo...

In a world full of chaos, anger, and constant information, how do you stay sane without losing your peace? In this episode of Almost Understood , Jordan Alexa talks about the chaos we’re constantly consuming, the emotional toll of social media, and why so many people are living in a constant state of anger, stress, and reaction. We discuss: • Why the internet profits from your emotions  • The diff...

Growing up has nothing to do with age. In this episode of Almost Understood , Jordan Alexa explores what real maturity actually looks like and why many adults are still operating from survival patterns they developed earlier in life. This conversation dives into emotional maturity, healing, and the process of unlearning behaviors that once protected us but now hold us back. We discuss: • Why age d...

What happens when life forces you to slow down? In this episode of Almost Understood , Jordan Alexa shares the personal story behind a season where everything came to a halt and the unexpected lessons that followed. Sometimes we move through life constantly doing, producing, and proving ourselves, only to realize we’ve forgotten how to simply exist. In this episode, we talk about: • The pressure t...

We’ve all heard it — “just do what makes you happy.” But what if that mindset is exactly what’s keeping you stuck? In this episode of Um Actually, we unpack the hidden cost of comfort and why the spaces we cling to the most might actually be the ones holding us back. I’ll share a personal story about being led through literal darkness and how it forced me to confront my own fears around change, co...

Not all friendships last forever, but what happens when they end? In this episode, Jordan Alexa and Vannah Cherrelle open up about friendship breakups and transitions, sharing their personal experiences and lessons on handling these changes with maturity. If you’ve ever had to let go of a friendship or redefine a connection, this one’s for you. Stay Connected: 📲 Follow Jordan Alexa: @_jordanalexa...

n this episode of Um, Actually, we explore the delicate balance between ambition and faith. Jordan shares personal insights and practical advice on how to pursue your goals while staying grounded in your values.  Stay Connected: 📲 Follow Jordan Alexa: @_jordanalexa 🎙 Follow the Podcast: @umactually.jordanalexa 📧 Email Us: umactuallypod@gmail.com Want to Support the Show? ⭐ Subscribe & Revie...

In this episode of Um Actually, Jordan Alexa is joined by none other than her husband, Nick Kayea—director, producer, artist, musician, and actor. Together, they dive into the season of life they’re navigating, the realities of being a creative couple, and how they balance passion, partnership, and purpose. Stay Connected: 📲 Follow Jordan Alexa: @_jordanalexa 🎙 Follow the Podcast: @umactually.jor...

After a year-long break, Um, Actually is back! 🎙️ In this episode, Jordan Alexa kicks off the new year with a candid conversation about why she stepped away from the podcast and how that time off made her confront a deep-rooted struggle with perfectionism. From overthinking every creative move to realizing how fear of imperfection held her back, she unpacks the lessons learned and the mindset shif...

In life, we are often faced with tough choices: do we focus on surviving the challenges of the present, or do we dare to pursue our wildest dreams? In this conversation, we delve into the concept of "choose your hard" and explore the delicate balance between survival and dream pursuit.  Stay connected on Instagram: @umactually.jordanalexa. Your feedback matters, so drop us a line at umac...

Join the Conversation with Jordan Alexa! 🗣️ Overcoming New Year fatigue, cultivating big faith, and shedding "the residue", or old habits!   Exciting news – 'Um, Actually' is making waves in 12 COUNTRIES! 🌎 Grateful for your incredible support! Let's continue this amazing friendship. 🤝💖  Stay connected on Instagram: @umactually.jordanalexa. Your feedback matters, so dro...

Jordan shares her personal reflections on the perception of God and why it's essential to recognize that He transcends human comparisons. Join her as she delves into her own experiences and explores the unique nature of God, highlighting the importance of understanding beyond our limited human perspectives, and how to get past seeing God as our interactions with people around us.  IG📸: @umac...

Join a discussion about not letting your environment define you. Jordan talks about striving to be an influence instead of being a product of the things, people, and situations around you.  Email📩: umactuallypod@gmail.com  IG📸: @_jordanalexa

Join Jordan as she reflects on her journey of mastering humility and she’s come to the revelation of how no one reaches a goal without first being processed.  Email📩: umactuallypod@gmail.com  IG📸: @_jordanalexa

Join Jordan Alexa as she answers a listener submitted question about how to be more confident. She discusses her own experience with confidence, overcoming fear, and what it looks like to exercise your belief. Email📩: umactuallypod@gmail.com IG📱: @_jordanalexa

Join Jordan Alexa as she begins a conversation about what she did this summer, that quickly spirals into a dialogue about grief, its many forms, and how it has affected her. She discusses allowing the time to navigate it instead of turning a blind eye or taking the fast approach that society suggests. IG: @_jordanalexa  Email: umactuallypod@gmail.com

Jordan recalls a conversation where she was asked "How Do I Find My Purpose" and what she has come to realize since.  IG: @_jordanalexa Email: umactuallypod@gmail.com

Jordan discusses navigating what she calls "The In Between" or the time of coming out of the certainty of a season, and walking into the uncertainty of the next one. She also talks about unlearning "super self sufficiency" and gaining a new level of faith. IG: @_jordanalexa Email: umactuallypod@gmail.com

Jordan is joined by her husband, Nick Kayea! Listen as they discuss several topics regarding relationships including their history, loving your S.O. during hard times, submission, and purpose within your relationship.  IG: @_jordanalexa Email: umactuallypod@gmail.com

Jordan Alexa talks about overcoming constantly looking toward the next milestone in life and how it prevents her from enjoying the journey.  IG: @_jordanalexa Email: umactuallypod@gmail.com

Jordan Alexa discusses the New Year, the phrase "New Year, New Me", and how it can become a lie we just tell ourselves. IG: @_jordanalexa Email: umactuallypod@gmail.com

Jordan Alexa talks about what she calls "The Burden To Be Great",  how it has effected her in how she views herself, and how it influenced her navigation of life.  IG: @_jordanalexa Email: umactuallypod@gmail.com

Jordan Alexa talks about the burden of being "The Strong Friend", her personal experience with it, and how to find peace + build boundaries in the process of ridding yourself of that title.  IG: @_jordanalexa Email: umactuallypod@gmail.com

Um, Actually The Podcast is a show about perspective. A show about thinking beyond what you can see and what society and social media is trying to shove down your throat. It’s about considering truths beyond played out mindsets and breaking past the idea of “that’s just the way it is”. Join Jordan Alexa as she talks about how the show came to be and what she had to overcome, just to simply hit the...