Charlie Ocean, MSW (they/them)

Allyship is a Verb

Education EN ↓ 74 episodes

People want to do better, but they don’t always know how. Allyship is a Verb is a 4x award-nominated (and now award-winning!) podcast featuring conversations with LGBTQ+ community members of various lived experiences and backgrounds who share their stories and an allyship tip. The host is a silly, warm human who offers self-reflection questions and voiceovers to help deepen the learning for listeners. The host is Charlie Ocean, MSW (they/them), who has a background in LGBTQ+ education, community organizing, and social work.

Be sure to visit the podcast's website and support the creator: www.allyshipisaverb.com

Author

Charlie Ocean, MSW (they/them)

Category

Education

Podcast website

www.allyshipisaverb.com

Latest episode

Jun 4, 2024

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Episodes

The Magic of LGBTQ+ Summer Camps feat. Rebecca Kling 23.05.2023

Consider the relevance of someone's identity. This week, Rebecca Kling (she/her) discusses creating inclusive summer camps for LGBTQ+ youth where they can be themselves without making everything about being from the LGBTQ+ community. In this episode, you will learn 1. What conversations are coming up at summer camps 2. How B'Mitzvahs/B'nai Mitzvahs may differ from Bar and Bat Mitzvahs 3. When we m...

The costs of religious trauma feat. Christina Carlson 09.05.2023

Sign up for Sam's workshop, Understanding the Basics of Neurodiversity and the Neurodiversity Movement . Happening virtually on Thursday, May 11th or 25th, 7-8 PM ET. Register for Speak Up! Tools for Active Trans Allyship with Chris Angel and Rebecca, Thursday, May 18th at 7 PM ET. This week, Christina Carlson (she/they) talks about how being ex-religious has impacted her life. In this episode, yo...

What is T4T? feat. Maze Felix 25.04.2023

Want to book Charlie for Pride month and beyond? Check out their offerings here . This week, Maze Felix (they/them) talks about the beauty of T4T (trans for trans) relationships! In this episode, you will learn 1. What affirming actions they experienced behind the scenes while shooting a Pride Target commercial 2. Why being in community with others in their gender journeys is euphoric and healing...

Have you worked through your own trauma? feat. Shaan Dasani 11.04.2023

This week, Shaan Dasani (he/they) talks about creating Agents of Change and what it means to have an all-queer and trans cast! In this episode, you will learn 1. How spy movies like D.E.B.S. and the James Bond series inspired him while writing Agents of Change. 2. Why having someone as a possibility model was helpful for their gender journey 3. What in the world a “nibling” is. 🎙️ Connect with Sha...

One woman's late in life lesbian story feat. Kathy Houston 28.03.2023

RSVP to Celebrate Transgender Day of Visibility (TDOV) RSVP to Connecting With Community: How to Build an Online Audience for your LGBTQ-owned Business RSVP to Speak Up For TDOV: Talking Points for Active Trans Allyship Put yourself in the other person's shoes. This week, Kathy Houston (she/her) talks about Club LILLES and what it means for her to be a late in life lesbian. In this episode, you wi...

How do you talk about someone with no pronouns? feat. Lianna Newman 14.03.2023

This week, Lianna Newman (name only) expands on carving out space in STEM, finding community, and creating resources. In this episode, you will learn 1. Some changes we'd like to see in tech. 2. The complexities of gender-neutral vs gendered awards. 3. How to use no pronouns and what we mean when we ask someone for their pronouns in the first place. 🎙️ Connect with Lianna to learn more about + sup...

Exploring the kink spectrum and community feat. Wesley Toma 28.02.2023

Exploring the kink spectrum and community! This week, Wesley Toma (he/him) expands on how kink is a spectrum, and for those who fall on it, it's very unlikely we're vanilla kinksters. In this episode, you will learn 1. How kinks and fetishes are different. 2. Some examples of how someone could start safely exploring the kink community. 3. Why he currently must travel out of state to access certain...

Get clear on what you're willing to lose feat. Rebecca Minor 14.02.2023

Check out Rebecca's parent coaching . We were nominated for Best Personal Growth and Best DIY for The Ambies! Thank you to those who watched live on March 7, 2023. We didn't win this time, though it was an honor to be nominated for both categories. This week, Rebecca Minor, LICSW (she/her), expands on why the term femme feels the most at home and who helped her to tap into that energy. In this epi...

The best apology is changed behavior feat. Kieran Mcmonagle 31.01.2023

This week, Kieran Mcmonagle (he/him) expands on how he's learned so much from young people in the LGBTQ+ community. In this episode, you will learn 1. Why he shares that he was born in the right queer, trans body. 2. How no space can be truly safe for everyone. 3. How parents of trans kids should love and support their kids and do their own processing in private. 🎙️ Connect with Kieran to learn mo...

Turning mistakes into teachable moments feat. Ed Carratalà 17.01.2023

Grab podcast merch here: https://www.bonfire.com/store/allyship-is-a-verb/ This week, Ed Carratalà (él/he/him) expands on how he spent 33 years of his life hiding parts of himself. In this episode, you will learn: 1. What it was like for him to attend his first pride event after coming out.  2. Why he had to teach his therapy students about the LGBTQ+ community in secret. 3. How therapists can cau...

Are You OK?: Empowering Trans Youth Through Storytelling feat. Jesse Freidin and Rebecca Minor 03.01.2023

This event aired live on December 4th, 2022, and has been cut for clarity. "Are You OK?" documents the experiences and stories of 130+ trans and nonbinary youth living in the United States during this time of horrific anti-trans legislation. You can watch this video on Spotify or YouTube . Looking for more info about the merch? Grab the wearable merch here ! Be sure to check the podcast website fo...

Sex and gender are made-up concepts (like everything else) feat. Lena Dirscherl 22.11.2022

This week, Lena Dirscherl (they/them) expands on some of the many factors that influence gender. In this episode, you will learn: 1. What our thoughts are on the term "transgender" and where we think it's heading in the future.  2. Some of the many different definitions of "queer" or "queerness." 3. How "sex" and "gender" are made-up concepts and why that matters. 🎙️ Connect with Lena to learn mor...

Bonus Episode: Check in on your LGBTQ+ friends and family 20.11.2022

In the wake of the most recent tragedy yesterday (November 19th, 2022) at Club Q, an LGBTQ+ nightclub in Colorado Springs, CO, I am publishing a formerly recorded episode that I never released. At the time of posting this, we believe that 5 people are dead and 18 are injured. There was a drag show. I didn't publish this episode because I thought it was too dark and heavy to be so early in the firs...

Cassie Brighter on the hidden costs of being transgender, TSA PreCheck, and "the surgery" 08.11.2022

Did you miss our November event? Watch it here on YouTube: Are You OK?: Empowering Trans Youth Through Storytelling feat. Jesse Freidin and Rebecca Minor Content warning for abuse. This week, Cassie Brighter (she/her) expands on the hidden costs of being transgender, why TSA PreCheck may make travel safer for trans women, and how she responds to questions about "the surgery." In this episode, you...

Cody Daigle-Orians on being ace, queer, and polyamorous 25.10.2022

Did you miss our November event? Watch it here on YouTube: ⁠ Are You OK?: Empowering Trans Youth Through Storytelling feat. Jesse Freidin and Rebecca Minor This week, Cody Daigle-Orians (he/they), AKA "Ace Dad Advice," explores what it means for them to be asexual, queer, and polyamorous. In this episode, you will learn: 1. How do his ace and polyamorous identities intersect? 2. How do they manage...

Give people and situations grace feat. Mister Larrie 11.10.2022

This episode is sponsored by a private donor. Thank you!!! In this week's episode, Mister Larrie (he/him) and I get SILLY! It starts off with him encouraging you to do the work of finding your people in your communities (and to be patient with the process). We get into mistakes and how having a learner's mindset can help, including when others correct us. Learn what he's been told as a Black man a...

The Patriarchy Episode feat. Petey Gibson 27.09.2022

This episode is sponsored by a private donor. Thank you!!! Content warning for LGBTQ+ youth discrimination, suicide statistics. In this week's episode, Petey Gibson (he/him) shares about who he's inspired by to embody gentle masculinity. Suppose you've wondered about the differences between characters written as cisgender men versus trans men or transmasculine people. In that case, Petey explains...

Why do some people use two sets of pronouns? feat. Josée Sovinsky 13.09.2022

This episode is sponsored by a private donor. Thank you!!! Did you miss the launch party for the Corporate Guide to LGBTQ+ Events? You can watch the recording and purchase the guide here ! In this week's episode, Josée Sovinsky (she/they) updates us on what's changed since we spoke early last season, including pronouns and identities. If you've ever wondered why some people use two or more sets of...

Anger and fury can be turned into action that can create change feat. Jesse Freidin 30.08.2022

This episode is sponsored by a private donor. Thank you!!! Interested in the Corporate Guide to LGBTQ+ Events? Watch the recorded launch party on LinkedIn! You can now buy the guide here . In this week’s episode, Jesse Freidin (he/him) shares about his former photography projects and how he's surprised himself by working on a new series that hits close to home. The "Are you OK?" series addresses t...

Listen to minorities and thank them feat. Ra Ra Rollins 16.08.2022

This episode is sponsored by a private donor. Thank you!!! Content warning for mentions of George Floyd's murder and generally sensitive topics without details. In this week’s episode, Ra Ra Rollins (he/him) shares why he claims “queer” and “gay” and the difference in meaning for him between the two terms. He ponders if he’s Black first or gay, queer first, especially since not all spaces see him...

Don't forget to live a queer, abundant life and laugh feat. Richard Follett 02.08.2022

This episode is sponsored by Rebecca Minor, LICSW (she/her). For more information about her parent and caregiver coaching, please visit: https://www.genderspecialist.com/coaching In this week’s episode, Richard Follett (he/him) shares how each of his intersections has shaped a portion of who he is and that while some of them may seem at odds with each other, that's not the case for him. Learn abou...

Special Video Episode: Trans Day of Visibility Nonbinary Panel! feat. Zoa Glows, Maze Felix, and Noel Fernando 24.05.2022

This episode is sponsored by Rebecca Minor, LICSW. For more information about her course, How To Talk To Kids About Gender, please visit: https://www.genderspecialist.com/learn Listeners of this podcast get 10% off with code ALLYSHIP For more information about her resource, My Kid Just Came Out: Free Guide for Parents, please visit: https://www.genderspecialist.com/nowwhat And if you're looking to...

Experiencing "Bless Your Heart" Homophobia in the South feat. Destiny Clarke 10.05.2022

This episode is sponsored by Rebecca Minor, LICSW. For more information about her course, How To Talk To Kids About Gender, please visit: https://www.genderspecialist.com/learn Listeners of this podcast get 10% off with code ALLYSHIP In this week’s episode, Destiny Clarke (who now uses she/they pronouns) talks about why they left teaching in the classroom to pursue a career in providing teachers w...

Stealth Mode Activated: Living as a Trans Man in Private feat. Dominic 26.04.2022

This episode is sponsored by Rebecca Minor, LICSW. For more information about her resource, My Kid Just Came Out: Free Guide for Parents, please visit: https://www.genderspecialist.com/nowwhat In this week’s episode, Dominic (he/him) talks about the first time he got hit on by a girl and how that started his sexuality (and later gender) journey. Learn about what shifts occurred in his life as he s...

Everywhere is Queer: Mapping Our Vibrant Businesses feat. Charlie Sprinkman 12.04.2022

This episode is sponsored by Rebecca Minor, LICSW. For more information about her resource, My Kid Just Came Out: Free Guide for Parents, please visit: https://www.genderspecialist.com/nowwhat In this week’s episode, Charlie Sprinkman (he/they) talks about growing up in "small-town vibes" Wisconsin and how it's important for people to find the best language for themselves. Learn about what happene...

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