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Download First Rounds on Me firstroundsonme.coThis week, we sat down with comedian and podcast host Erica Spera (@spericaa) to talk all things stand-up—from performing at top comedy clubs across the country to navigating the dating world as a comic. We get into what it’s like building a career in a saturated industry, where she draws inspiration for her material, topics she will never do a bit on,...

Download First Rounds on Me firstroundsonme.coIn this episode, we chat with Dani’s longtime friend Caesar Palotta (@caesarpalotta) about growing up gay in a not-so-accepting high school, coming out, and exploring his identity once in college. Caesar shares what it's like to be in a loving polyamorous marriage — including how he’s worked through jealousy, handled the shame or judgment from people w...

Download First Rounds on Me firstroundsonme.coThis week, we sat down with Talia Koren, host of the podcast @DatingIntentionally. We chat about her system for tracking past dates to be more intentional in future ones, why the key to finding your person might be looking outside your usual type, the importance of being single in your 20s, and why you should not ask someone why they’re single. Exclusi...

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Download First Rounds on Me firstroundsonme.coThis week, we sat down with Anna Morgenstern (@annamorgenstern), a NYC-based matchmaker. We discussed the benefits of working with a matchmaker, how to manage expectations before a date, whether opposites truly attract, how matchmaking can help break a dating rut, the process behind the perfect setup, and so much more. Exclusive Offer - Are You Ready t...

Download First Rounds on Me firstroundsonme.coToday, we sat down with Veronica Droulia (@veronicadroulia), host of the Martinis and Bikinis podcast (@martinisandbikinispod), to chat about being a content creator, starting her podcast, how she met her long-distance boyfriend, how her priorities have shifted, and how she’s leveraged those changes in both her personal and professional life—and so muc...

Download First Rounds on Me firstroundsonme.coThis week, we sat down with Alessia Scauzillo (@alessiasculpt) to talk about why she broke up with the "good guy" after 12 years, how she found love again, transitioned from a finance career to focus on fitness and content creation, and how psychedelic mushroom therapy healed her in unexpected ways. Exclusive Offer - Are You Ready to Transfor...

Download First Rounds on Me firstroundsonme.coThis week, we sit down with Carleigh Ferrante (@MostlyDating), host of the popular podcast Mostly Dating. Carleigh shares how she started her career and what inspired her to dive into the dating and relationship space. We discuss essential topics couples should address early in a relationship, tips for avoiding common patterns of unhealthy dating behav...

Download First Rounds on Me firstroundsonme.co This week, we sat down with Jessica Evans, founder of BODA (@boredofdatingapps), to talk about her success in hosting singles events across cities. We dive into how to make a great first impression, the underrated green flags to look for, why breaking free from your “type” can be a game-changer, and whether chasing the elusive “spark” is actually hold...

Download First Rounds on Me firstroundsonme.co This week, Dani hosts a solo episode and dives into all things related to navigating your twenties. She shares her experiences in NYC during her early 20s, reflects on how her single years shaped her life today, discusses the term 'boyfriend girl,' explores dating outside your social circle, offers tips on how to approach people, and talks abo...

Download First Rounds on Me firstroundsonme.co This week, we sit down with dating coach Erika Ettin (@alittlenudge) to talk about everything you need to know about navigating dating apps (the right way 😊). Erika offers expert advice on presenting yourself in the best light, boosting your confidence, and appearing more approachable. We also explore strategies to avoid getting stuck in the endless...

Download First Rounds on Me firstroundsonme.co This week, we sat down with Nigel Roxbury, the creative mind behind @dumb_hot and @nychistoryhub, to dive into some real talk about modern dating. We explore sober dating and how to approach it with confidence, discuss the impact of societal pressures shaped by our upbringing, and unpack what dating with intention really means. Nigel opens up about th...

Download First Rounds on Me firstroundsonme.co This week, we’re joined by Ali Jackson (@findingmrheight) to talk about everything from handling the dreaded breakup text to what makes her current relationship different from past ones. We also discuss the best ways to get set up on dates, how to navigate when someone you’ve dated resurfaces, and so much more. Exclusive Offer - Are You Ready to Trans...

Download First Rounds on Me firstroundsonme.co This week, it’s just the two of us having a conversation about goals and intentions. We reflect on the past year, talk about what we’re focusing on in the year ahead, and share practical tips for setting meaningful goals and taking time to look back thoughtfully. Exclusive Offer - Are You Ready to Transform Your Dating Life? 👄 Say goodbye to bad date...

This week, I (just Dani!) sat down with confidence coach and host of  For The Girls  podcast, Victoria Alario, for a conversation on all things confidence and self-empowerment. We explored why you shouldn’t match someone else’s energy, the keys to feeling confident, and the important difference between being kind and being nice. Victoria also shared insights on how to remove old insecurities in ne...

Download First Rounds on Me firstroundsonme.coIn this episode, we sat down with Mental Health Counselor and host of the podcast Quiet The Clock, Beth Gulotta, to explore breaking free from societal timelines and embracing your own path. We dive into the process of freezing your eggs, choosing to settle down later in life, navigating life at a different pace than your friends, and much more. Exclus...

Download First Rounds on Me firstroundsonme.co This week, we sat down with entrepreneur and influencer Liv Schreiber (@livschreiber) to dive into the art of putting yourself out there. Liv shares the inspiring journey of how she built multiple brands focused on fostering genuine connection, as well as her unexpected love story and how she found a partner who didn’t fit her “dream man” list but end...

Download First Rounds on Me firstroundsonme.co This week, we sat down with dating strategist Benny Hart (@bennyinc) to take a peek inside the male brain when it comes to dating. We covered how to avoid dating burnout, discussed the biggest mistake people make in the early stages of a relationship, and unpacked how to handle mixed signals. Benny also shared tips for spotting love bombing and stayin...

This week, we are thrilled to welcome the incredible therapist Lisanne Godnick back to the pod! Together, we’re diving into the challenges singles often face during the holidays, including feelings of loneliness and how to gracefully navigate the infamous "Are you dating anyone?" question from family members. Lisanne also shares her perspective on what confidence truly means and offers invaluable...

Download First Rounds on Me firstroundsonme.co This week, we’re diving deep! Janice opens up about her childhood, reflecting on her relationship with her mom and how it shaped her own parenting approach. Together, we unpack how we’ve fostered such a close relationship and share the valuable lessons we’ve learned from each other along the way. Exclusive Offer - Are You Ready to Transform Your Datin...

Download First Rounds on Me firstroundsonme.co On today’s episode, we sit down with the fabulous Melissa Garson, Certified Life Coach, Speaker, and author of The Recipe for Real Happiness. Together, we dive into practical tips and strategies for anyone feeling stuck, unhappy, anxious, or overwhelmed. Melissa shares her wisdom on building confidence, creating a healthier lifestyle, improving relati...

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Download First Rounds on Me firstroundsonme.co We sat down with Brianna McCabe, author of The Red Flags I've (Repeatedly) Ignored, to discuss toxic relationships, why girls often crave the "girlfriend" title, the issue of over apologizing in relationships, and whether having sex early in dating impacts the relationship. We also wrapped up with a fun game of "Red Flag or Not," featuring red flags s...