Allegedly

What if you didn't have to have all the answers? In this episode, I'm sharing where I am on my spiritual journey. From reading about Wicca and feeling unexpectedly connected to nature, to questioning faith, anxiety, and what it really means to believe in something, this isn't an episode about having the answers—it's about giving yourself permission to explore. Maybe the goal isn&#3...

When I was a kid, I thought adults had everything figured out. Then I became an adult. In this episode, I'm talking about entrepreneurship, relationships, careers, life changes, and the realization that nobody actually knows what they're doing. We're all learning as we go, making mistakes, pivoting, and figuring things out one step at a time. If you've ever felt behind, overwhelmed...

What if I took away your job title, your degree, your house, and your car? Who are you? In this episode, I'm sharing why I think being interesting is better than being impressive, how we've confused accomplishments with identity, and why the stories we collect matter more than the things we own. We'll talk about success, freedom, travel, happiness, and the question I can't stop thi...

We sold our house to chase freedom… and immediately questioned every decision we had ever made. In this episode, I’m talking about the chaos of RV life: freezing winters, terrifying parking situations, broken levelers, cat litter everywhere, propane disasters, neighbors, panic, and the reality of taking a leap before you feel ready. Honestly? I’d probably still do it again. If any of you sources o...

For a long time, I thought I wanted the “normal” life. The career. The house. The relationship that looked right on paper. But after losing my mom, something inside me started to unravel. In this episode, I talk about grief, coming out, falling in love, buying a house, selling everything to move into an RV, and the realization that I had been building a life that didn’t actually fit me. This episo...

I didn’t realize how much this affected me… until I started looking back. For a long time, I felt like I was never anyone’s first choice… and I thought that meant something was wrong with me. In this episode, I’m sharing the friendships that shaped me—from high school to my twenties—and the moments that made me question everything about who I was. But this isn’t just about losing people… it’s abou...

In the last episode, we talked about toggling. The different versions of ourselves we step into depending on where we are and who we’re with. This episode is about one of those versions. The calm one. The one who doesn’t escalate. The one who keeps things steady. The one people rely on. The one who gets very tired. In this episode, I talk about what it really means to be “the calm one”—and how it...

This is Allegedly. The version of you that shows up. The version that holds it together. The version people don’t worry about. But what happens when that version starts to feel… off? In this first episode, we explore the idea of the “versions” we carry—and the quiet ways we learn to minimize our needs, even in moments where nothing is being asked of us. Sometimes it doesn’t show up in big ways. So...