All That And Mo

The title says it all. Saddle up, students, we're going to answer some questions from someone who's been interested in peeking into the world of BDSM. This is a good jumping off point if you're interested in seeing what it's about. Complete with optional reading: BDSM Checklist Different Loving The Ultimate Guide to Kink *** If you've always wanted to start a podcast and haven't quite gotten yours...

Saying I was a child star already gets me some looks and side-eyed glances. In all reality, my experiences weren't all bad—I had some absolutely insane opportunities, like meeting the likes of Diana Ross and Patti LaBelle. However, as you may expect, there's a bit of a tragic, darker side (and it may not be the one you're expecting. As a little bonus, here's my stellar, groundbreaking performance...

Relationships of all kinds—marriages, relationships, friendships, and sexual relationships—are often way more complicated than they look. --- I would LOVE it if you signed up to be a Patron—it supports my work and also gets you some cool extra throwback episodes, right in your podcast feed. Sign up here: https://open.acast.com/public/patreon/fanSubscribe/2869793 (and a big THANKS to those of you w...

Getting older is one of those things nobody prepares you for, especially when you have lady parts and ESPECIALLY especially when you are kinky. So take this as my contribution (even though it's my narrow experience) to the conversation. Things that have happened to me, things I have tried, and a story of me following a voluptuous ass for three blocks on accident. --- I would LOVE it if you signed...

This week marks a huge accomplishment for me—my sobriety reached its 15th complete year. It was huge for me and marks a massive changing point in my life, so I thought I'd give a little more info about it: how we got here, how it all started, and why it may have been easier than expected. --- I would LOVE it if you signed up to be a Patron—it supports my work and also gets you some cool extra thro...

This isn't a normal episode, it's a sneak peek at what you get if you sign up for my Patreon! A throwback episode or old recording, something from the Mo Archives™️. Sign up here:  https://open.acast.com/public/patreon/fanSubscribe/2869793  (and a big THANKS to those of you who have already supported me! 💜) Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/all-that-and-mo . Hosted on Acast....

When I first started out in the kink and BDSM community, I had so many insecurities. Things I didn't even realize. That's the funny thing about being insecure. Not only can a confident, outgoing person like me still feel these things....we might not even know we're feeling them. On today's episode I share a few vignettes about times I conquered insecurity, accepted myself, and basked in my own sel...

There unfortunately remains a lot of fatphobia in today's world—even more so in the kink community. A long time ago I noticed these trends and decided to do something about it. On today's episode I explore some of these actions—I go into one of the most brutal (but in the end, most satisfying) photo shoots I've ever done, some experiences with others that haunt me to this day, and what I'm doing n...

My favorite piece of writing about dominance and submission is actually not some textbook or a well known tome from someone in the community—it's actually something you may have read as a kid (and maybe even your parents or grandparents.....stay with me here...): The Little Prince. --- I would LOVE it if you signed up to be a Patron—it supports my work and also gets you some cool extra throwback e...

We live in the Information Age—which is simultaneously some of the best and worst humanity can come up with. I recently joined TikTok and had heard from my friend Sunny Megatron ( listen to her podcast! ) that there was some pretty wild misinformation about the world of kink and BDSM floating around. I took a minute to browse the hashtags and boy howdy, she wasn't wrong. I took it upon myself (as...

This isn't a review—this is a discussion about Jeremy O. Harris's Slave Play. Me and two lovely other Negresses talk about the personal connection we felt to the material, and how kink and race were closely intertwined. This is the second part—so if you didn't listen to episode 15 make sure to check that out before you listen to this one! --- I would LOVE it if you signed up to be a Patron—it supp...

This isn't a review—this is a discussion about Jeremy O. Harris's Slave Play. Me and two lovely other Negresses talk about the personal connection we felt to the material, and how kink and race were closely intertwined. --- I would LOVE it if you signed up to be a Patron—it supports my work and also gets you some cool extra throwback episodes, right in your podcast feed. Sign up here: https://open...

A power exchange relationship is exactly that— an exchange . So many who are new to a kinky lifestyle don't actually realize this, but I think it's a crucial thing to keep in mind. Remember, if you're expected to "earn your collar", you can definitely expect something in return. Join me as I discuss my early experiences struggling with this—the lessons I've learned, and why I believe that your sub...

Everybody's scared of signing a contract (except for Terms of Service on a website, that is), but I'd argue they're more important than you might think in a relationship. Today I'm giving you my thoughts on a "preep" (you heard it here first, I coined it!). How thinking about a relationship isn't just your feelings toward another person—it's a mutual arrangement that needs to be kept by both sides...

Living in an RV is one of those things that lots of people wish they could do—with #vanlife spreading even further because of COVID (can't catch it if you never leave your car!). RV sales and rentals have skyrocketed in the past couple of years, and it makes sense why. You can carry everything with you, it's often cheaper than a hotel, and you can be where you want on your own terms. I myself am a...

In 2016, a fun mobile game came out that absolutely blew up into a worldwide phenomenon. Pokêmon GO completely took the world by storm—and I got swept up in it as well. Even though it's a silly video game of monsters and training in a virtual world, there were some real-world good things that happened because I play it. Surprised? So was I! --- I would LOVE it if you signed up to be a Patron—it su...

The holidays can bring up a lot of mixed emotions (even if you don't celebrate them), but they can be particularly difficult for those of us who are alcoholics. As I have mentioned on my podcast before, I was, and continue to be, an alcoholic. Here's how it all went down, from beginning to end. If you're reading this and it sounds familiar, don't be too proud to get some help, even if AA or other...

Part two in a series born from a Facebook post about building resilience while being submissive—particularly as a black woman! Today I continue my conversation with Tenyjah Mckenna about different types of subs, bad experiences with our owners, and why she doesn't want to be your first black anything. Get in touch if she sounds cool 👀 She is @notsotinytim on Twitter and Instagram, and her email a...

This episode was born from a Facebook post about building resilience while being submissive—particularly as a black woman! I've recruited Tenyjah Mckenna to have a conversation about the same (hence the title!). We'll be talking about what it's like navigating this community (and the world), reactions from interested parties after finding out our race, and more. --- If you haven't already, please...

Ketamine is a drug you've probably heard of, but may not be super familiar with. Admittedly I myself wasn't that familiar with it not too long ago. As a disclaimer, I don't pretend to be a medical professional and am not necessarily advising anybody to get ketamine therapy—but for me, it was a total game changer. On today's episode we discuss the (fairly recent) events in my life that led me to tr...

Family can mean a lot of different things. For some, it's their safe place. For others, it's a source of love, but also a source of stress. And for yet others, it can be something, well, complicated. I fall into that third category, certainly. On this episode, it's all about family, with my partner Georg. We discuss how family relationships can have silver linings, but sometimes it's best to leave...

You may have seen this week’s gobsmacking article from the New York Times. For those who ain’t, here is a Guest Link to the original article: everyone should be able to access it. It would behoove you to check it out prior to listening...or during, if you’re like me.  https://www.nytimes.com/2021/11/11/style/interracial-dating.html?unlocked_article_code=AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAACEIPuonUktbfqohlSVUaAib...

This is part 2 of our two-parter. Be sure to listen to episode 3 first! We’ll be chatting about dark sides, deities, and deep humiliation! Relevant Linkage: Rami’s Sit & Groove Workout! https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLR1H7pQuK71gfQiyUzxkEwWxCpAPLOant Monsters Of Talk Podcast Episode Feat Me! https://soundcloud.com/margaretcho/motmowi Curtsey to Stacey R, Andrea Z. and Samantha S,...

This is part one of a 2-parter feat my amazing homie Rami Margron! We go on about hyenas, breathing, theater, kinky stuff and weird spirituality. Come thru on Patreon and become my Sub(scriber) and my DOM (Donator Of Money) and earn all the clout! https://www.patreon.com/MollenaLeeWilliamsHaas Curtsey to Stacey R, Andrea Z. and Samantha S, thank you for your past support and making this possi...

Read more on my website: http://mollena.com. If you wish to support this work, please join us on Patreon! Shout out to my PatriPeeps! Stacey R, Mac, Andrea Z. and Samantha S, thank you for your past support and making this possible! And BIG UPS to my current PatriPosse! Meg B., JP, Lisa C., D. Potts, aeric meredith-goujon,Sinclair Sexsmith, Becky B., Alan G., Sara L., Esther, The Adipositivity Pro...