RJ GayByrd

Alive, I Guess Podcast

Society EN ↓ 31 episodes

Some days you're thriving, other days you're just… alive, I guess. Hosted by RJ GayByrd, Alive, I Guess Podcast is where women and queer folks come to stop feeling like they're failing at life. This isn't about highlight reels or curated wins - this is about the messy, unglamorous, hard parts of being human that we usually keep quiet. Every week, RJ shares raw stories from their life as a queer, Black, non-binary person navigating sobriety, mental health, identity, relationships, and everything in between. Through raw storytelling and unfiltered conversations, this podcast reminds you that fig...

Author

RJ GayByrd

Category

Society

Podcast website

www.youtube.com

Latest episode

Jul 9, 2026

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Episodes

Episode 31 - Self Care Be Happenin 09.07.2026

In this episode of the Alive, I Guess Podcast, RJ explores the true meaning of self-care, emphasizing its importance for mental and physical well-being. They share personal insights and practical tips on how to incorporate meaningful self-care practices into daily life. ------------------------------------------------- Visit  tinyurl.com/AIGPadvice to submit your questions for “ I Say This With Lo...

Episode 30 - Mama’s ‘Girl’ Be Happenin 02.07.2026

In this episode of the Alive, I Guess Podcast, RJ shares a heartfelt journey through their relationship with their mom, exploring love, growth, and understanding across different life stages. A touching reflection on family, identity, and gratitude. ------------------------------------------------- Visit  tinyurl.com/AIGPadvice to submit your questions for “ I Say This With Love ” ----------------...

Episode 29 - Discernment Be Happenin 25.06.2026

In this episode of the Alive, I Guess Podcast, RJ shares a heartfelt reflection on personal challenges, the importance of discernment, and trusting your inner knowing to navigate life's uncertainties. A must-listen for anyone looking to strengthen their intuition and make safer, wiser decisions. ------------------------------------------------- Visit  tinyurl.com/AIGPadvice to submit your que...

Episode 28 - The Shift Be Happenin 18.06.2026

In this episode of the Alive, I Guess Podcast, RJ explores the gradual shift from difficult seasons to brighter days, emphasizing the importance of faith, self-awareness, and trusting the process. The episode offers insights on recognizing the signs of a shift, overcoming imposter syndrome, and embracing good news without fear. ------------------------------------------------- Visit  tinyurl.com/A...

Episode 27 - Family Breakups Be Happenin 04.06.2026

In this episode of the Alive, I Guess Podcast, RJ explores the complex dynamics of family breakups, their types, emotional impact, and ways to navigate through grief and healing. ------------------------------------------------- Visit  tinyurl.com/AIGPadvice to submit your questions for “ I Say This With Love ” ------------------------------------------------- IG: @aliveiguesspodcast   TT: @alivei...

Episode 26 - Retired Crashout Be Happenin 28.05.2026

In this episode of the Alive, I Guess Podcast, RJ explores the concept of being a retired crashout, sharing personal stories, emotional regulation strategies, and the importance of therapy and boundaries in managing volatile reactions. This episode offers insights into emotional growth, self-awareness, and the journey toward calmness and self-control. ----------------------------------------------...

Episode 25 - Transparency Be Happenin 21.05.2026

In this episode of the Alive, I Guess Podcast, RJ explores the importance of living a transparent life, sharing personal experiences about vulnerability, authenticity, and the power of truth. The episode emphasizes how transparency fosters genuine connections and personal growth. ------------------------------------------------- Visit  tinyurl.com/AIGPadvice to submit your questions for “ I Say Th...

Episode 24 - Sometimes, Nothing Be Happenin 14.05.2026

In this episode of the Alive, I Guess Podcast,  RJ explores the experience of feeling stuck or in a period of nothingness, emphasizing the importance of patience, stillness, and internal growth during these times. They share personal insights, analogies like the melting ice cube, and encourage embracing the quiet moments as part of the larger process of development. -------------------------------...

Episode 23 - The Glow Up Be Happenin 07.05.2026

In this episode of the Alive, I Guess Podcast, RJ shares their personal journey of their glow up, emphasizing the importance of internal work before external changes. They discuss mental shifts, self-love, discipline, grace, and practical steps for transformation. ------------------------------------------------- Visit  tinyurl.com/AIGPadvice to submit your questions for “ I Say This With Love ” -...

Episode 22 - Boundaries Be Happenin 30.04.2026

In this episode of the Alive, I Guess Podcast, RJ discusses the importance of boundaries, how to set them, and their impact on personal growth and relationships. Learn practical tips for establishing boundaries in family, work, and romantic relationships to improve mental health and self-respect. ------------------------------------------------- Visit  tinyurl.com/AIGPadvice to submit your questio...

Episode 21 - Codependency Be Happenin 23.04.2026

In this episode of the Alive, I Guess Podcast, RJ discusses the complexities of codependency, its roots, manifestations, and strategies for healing. Drawing from personal experience and therapy, they offer insights into recognizing and breaking free from codependent patterns to foster healthier relationships and self-care. ------------------------------------------------- Visit  tinyurl.com/AIGPad...

Episode 20 - Black Creativity Be Happenin w/ SōLauren 16.04.2026

In this episode of the Alive, I Guess Podcast, RJ sits down with SōLauren, a Black, queer artist and creative from San Francisco — and the voice behind the Alive, I Guess Podcast intro song. SōLauren opens up about her journey through grief, identity, and artistry — and how pain doesn't block the creative process, it fuels it. Together, they explore the complicated legacy of the Black church,...

Episode 19 - Nostalgia Be Happenin 09.04.2026

In this episode of the Alive, I Guess Podcast, RJ explores the nature of nostalgia, its impact on our lives, and how to embrace it healthily while moving forward. ------------------------------------------------- Visit  tinyurl.com/AIGPadvice to submit your questions for “ I Say This With Love ” ------------------------------------------------- IG: @aliveiguesspodcast   TT: @aliveiguesspodcast   F...

Episode 18 - Big Sister Duties Be Happenin 02.04.2026

In this episode of the Alive, I Guess Podcast, RJ shares a heartfelt reflection on the role of being a big sister, the responsibilities, challenges, and joys of sibling relationships, and personal growth. The episode explores family dynamics, protective instincts, boundaries, and the impact of sibling bonds on identity and life. ------------------------------------------------- Visit  tinyurl.com/...

Episode 17 - Unemployment Be Happenin 26.03.2026

In this episode of the Alive, I Guess Podcast, RJ shares a candid and insightful journey through a year of unemployment, exploring its emotional, mental, and financial impacts, and highlighting the growth and resilience that can emerge from such challenging times. ------------------------------------------------- Visit  tinyurl.com/AIGPadvice to submit your questions for “ I Say This With Love ” -...

Episode 16 - Making New Friends Be Happenin 19.03.2026

In this episode of the Alive, I Guess Podcast, RJ explores the complexities of making new friends as an adult, sharing personal insights and practical advice on building meaningful connections, vetting new friends, and maintaining authentic relationships. ------------------------------------------------- Visit  tinyurl.com/AIGPadvice to submit your questions for “ I Say This With Love ” ----------...

Episode 15 - Impostor Syndrome Be Happenin 12.03.2026

In this episode of the Alive, I Guess Podcast, RJ explores imposter syndrome, its impact on success, and practical ways to overcome it. This episode offers insights into internal beliefs, the importance of self-awareness, and strategies for moving forward despite doubts. ------------------------------------------------- Visit  tinyurl.com/AIGPadvice to submit your questions for “ I Say This With L...

Episode 14 - Life After Ball Be Happenin 05.03.2026

In this episode of the Alive, I Guess Podcast, RJ reflects on their 10-year anniversary since retiring from basketball, exploring the emotional, physical, and mental challenges of transitioning from athlete to everyday life. They share personal stories, lessons learned, and advice for fellow retired athletes navigating this significant life change. -------------------------------------------------...

Episode 13 - Birthday Blues Be Happenin 26.02.2026

In this episode of the Alive, I Guess Podcast, RJ shares personal insights and lessons learned from experiencing multiple birthday blues and traumatic events over the past decade. They discuss overcoming fear of aging, celebrating life, and embracing the present moment. ------------------------------------------------- Visit  tinyurl.com/AIGPadvice to submit your questions for “ I Say This With Lo...

Episode 12 - Too Much Be Happenin 19.02.2026

In this episode of the Alive, I Guess Podcast, RJ discusses the challenges of maintaining mental health and sanity in a chaotic world. They emphasize the importance of gratitude, community, and finding joy amidst suffering. RJ shares personal experiences and coping strategies while addressing the overwhelming nature of current events and the impact of information overload. The conversation culmina...

Episode 11 - Heartbreak Be Happenin 12.02.2026

In this episode of the Alive, I Guess Podcast, RJ delves into the complex emotions surrounding heartbreak, especially as Valentine's Day approaches. They share personal experiences and insights on the grief that accompanies the end of relationships, the role of music in processing emotions, and the importance of setting boundaries in future relationships. RJ emphasizes that while heartbreak i...

Episode 10 - That Gay Sh*t Be Happenin 05.02.2026

In this episode of the Alive, I Guess Podcast, host RJ shares their personal journey of coming out as a Queer, Non-Binary individual. They discuss the complexities of their identity, the importance of acceptance, and the challenges faced with being in the LGBTQIA+ community. RJ emphasizes the significance of living authentically, respecting pronouns, and supporting others in their journeys. The co...

Episode 9 - Losing Motivation Be Happenin 29.01.2026

In this episode of the Alive I Guess Podcast, RJ delves into the complexities of losing motivation, exploring its causes, signs, and strategies for overcoming it. RJ emphasizes the importance of understanding the difference between motivation and discipline, the impact of burnout, and the necessity of clarity in one's goals. The conversation also highlights the significance of patience and se...

Episode 8 - The Strong Friend Be Happenin 22.01.2026

In this episode of the Alive I Guess Podcast, RJ explores the complexities of being the 'strong friend' in social circles. They discuss the characteristics of the strong friend, the emotional toll it takes, and the importance of setting boundaries. The conversation delves into the roots of this role, the challenges faced, and the necessity of mutual support in friendships. RJ emphasizes...

Episode 7 - Money Troubles Be Happenin 15.01.2026

In this episode of the Alive I Guess Podcast, RJ delves into the often-taboo topic of money troubles, exploring the emotional and psychological impacts of financial struggles. RJ shares personal experiences and insights on the causes of money issues, the societal factors at play, and the importance of discussing financial challenges openly. The conversation emphasizes the need for financial litera...

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