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She'd been paying her mother's bills for eighteen months when the bank froze the account and asked for legal documentation she didn't have. This week's episode talks about the gap that catches so many families off guard: doing the real work of managing a parent's finances without any legal authority behind it. Account numbers, debit cards, being known by name at the bank... non...

A new IG Wealth Management study found that 84 percent of Canadians say estate planning is a priority. But only 41 percent have a plan. In this episode I talk about what's actually getting in the way, because it isn't a lack of awareness. People know they should do this. The real blockers are subtler: not knowing where to start, not having sorted out what they want before they try to forma...

Most people who agree to be an executor do it because someone they love asked them to. What nobody tells them is that the moment they say yes, they're held to a specific legal standard, with real consequences if they fall short. In this episode, I'm talking about the executor standard: what it actually is, what it covers, and what a real 2026 BC Supreme Court case shows happens when it isn...

Having a will and having a ready estate are two different things, and most executors find that out in the first week after a death. In this episode I talk about what that week actually looks like from inside an executor's role, where solutions exist, and what genuinely prepared looks like in practice. If you have people who depend on you, or if you'll ever step into an executor role yourse...

A friend said three things to me recently that I’ve heard more times than I can count. “I’ll be dead, so it won’t be my problem.” “I know my kids, they won’t fight.” “If my spouse wants to deal with it after I'm gone, that’s up to her.” He has a will. He has five kids. He feels like he’s handled it. But his will passes everything to his spouse with no direction about personal property and no c...

What happens to an inheritance when the beneficiary is going through a divorce? It's a question that comes up more and more in estate administration, and the answers aren't always intuitive. In this episode, I'm walking through how inherited assets can lose their protected status, why the timing of executor distributions matters, and what parents can do when designing an estate plan th...

Blended family estate planning is one of the most misunderstood areas I see in estate work, and the cost of getting it wrong doesn't show up until after someone has died. In this episode, I'm talking through why the "leave everything to my spouse" approach so often backfires, how executors end up in the middle of conflict they didn't create, and what families in second marria...

When death has a date, you'd think the estate would be inorder. But that's not usually how it goes. MAID, or medical assistance in dying, gives Canadians the legal option to choose the timing of their death. And that changes the estate planning conversation in ways most people haven't considered. In this episode I'm walking through what MAID means for your documents, your executor,...

A GOBankingRates article came out this week asking what the Golden Girls' retirement would look like in today's American economy. I loved it so much I ran the same exercise through a Canadian lens. CPP, OAS, TFSAs, provincial health coverage, and Victoria real estate instead of Miami. The numbers are illustrative, but the conversation is real. The biggest retirement advantage Canada has ov...

If you're in your 20s or 30s and you haven't sorted out yourestate planning yet, you're not alone. Most people in this age group have it on the list somewhere between "call the dentist" and "learn to make sourdough." It doesn't feel urgent. It feels like something for later. This week's episode is about what later actually looks like when it arrives unexpect...

Executor compensation is one of the most misunderstood topics in Canadian estate administration. Most family executors don't know they're entitled to it. Most beneficiaries don't know it comes out of the estate. And almost nobody has the conversation before it's too late to have it without conflict. This episode covers how compensation is calculated across provinces, the tax implic...

This episode looks at one of the most avoidable crises inestate planning: losing the window to put your planning documents in place before cognitive decline takes it away. In Canada, signing a Power of Attorney or personal care directive requires legal capacity. Once that capacity is gone, the documents can't be signed, and families are left navigating a court process that's expensive, slo...

Most people think a will covers everything. It doesn't. A will only takes effect after death, which means it does nothing if you're still alive but unable to manage your finances or make healthcare decisions. This episode looks at the two documents that fill that gap,why so many families are caught off guard without them, and what complete estate planning actually looks like. Read the full...

What would it feel like to settle your own estate while you're still very much alive? A friend of mine found out firsthand when she made the decision to move abroad. Suddenly she was sorting through decades of her life, deciding what to sell, what to give away, and what to let go of entirely. It sounds practical. And it is. But it's also something else entirely. Because when you're for...

Most people don’t put off estate planning because they don’t care. More often, they put it off because they believe there is still lots of time and hope things will work out if something does happen. In this episode, I talk about why hope is not a strategy when it comes to estate planning. A will is important, but it doesn’t help during incapacity. If someone is still alive but unable to manage fi...

Can you really “disinherit” the CRA? Well, not exactly. But you can take steps to reduce unnecessary tax, avoid preventable mistakes, and make sure your planning is working the way you think it is. In this episode, I talk about tax at death in Canada, common issues with beneficiary designations, why organization matters more than people realize, and how better coordination can help preserve more o...

We often think estate planning is shaped by the biggest decisions, but that's not always what creates the biggest consequences later. In many cases, it is the smaller details, those that seem easy to leave for another day, that end up changing everything for the people left behind. In this episode, I talk about the butterfly effect and why it's such a powerful way to think about estate pla...

When an inheritance involves minors or vulnerable beneficiaries, structure matters. In this week's episode and article, I explain how trusts for minors work, why staged payouts are often preferable to lump-sum distributions, and how dependent protection planning can preserve stability for beneficiaries receiving disability support. We also explore trustee duties and executor exposure. Many peo...

When someone writes a will, they usually assume the plan is complete. But many assets never pass through the will at all. Registered accounts and insurance policies often have beneficiary designations attached to them, and those forms can override what the will appears to say. When the paperwork is not aligned, the result can be confusion, unequal outcomes, and difficult explanations for the execu...

A dementia diagnosis often leads families to assume incapacity comes automatically. But that isn’t how the law works. In this week's episode, I talk about the difference betweendementia and legal capacity, explain why capacity is decision-specific, and how early estate planning can preserve independence and reduce future conflict. This conversation is for anyone supporting a parent or spouse a...

More and more executors are turning to AI tools to help them manage estate work. They are not trying to replace lawyers or accountants. They are usually trying to cope with information overload. This week, I talk about how AI is actually being used in estate administration, where it can genuinely help, and where it can create new risks. If you are acting as an executor and considering AI as part o...

Pets are often overlooked in estate planning, not because people don’t care, but because they assume things will sort themselves out. When they don’t, the responsibility lands with the executor. Decisions about care, veterinary costs, and temporary arrangements often have to be made quickly, sometimes without clear guidance or authority. In this episode, I walk through what happens when pets are p...

Probate is often talked about as if it’s something to fear or avoid at all costs. But what does it actually mean and what really happens when an estate goes through probate? This week, I break down probate in plain language. We talk about when probate is required, when it isn’t, how it connects (and doesn’t connect) to taxes, and why so many executors are caught off guard by what the role actually...

Family relationships are not always simple. And when they break down, estate planning can become far more complex. In this week's episode, I discuss how estranged or strained family dynamics affect executor roles, power of attorney decisions, and estate administration outcomes. Many people plan based on obligation or hope, rather than the reality of their relationships. That gap often creates...

Many newcomers to Canada assume inheritance will be handled automatically, the way it often is in other parts of the world. That assumption can lead to serious problems. This week, I talk about why wills in Canada oftencatch immigrants off guard, how inheritance laws differ across legal systems, and what can happen when someone dies without a will here. We also touch on why familiarity with anothe...