Aella Speaks

Aella's words of wisdom 21.04.2025 14:34 ↓

To celebrate the final 100th episode of Aella's speaks. I share some words of wisdom

"Women should just choose better" 14.04.2025 12:12 ↓

A line said by men who need to DO better😏

Signs of a Misogynist 08.04.2025 22:51 ↓

What are the signs he could be a misogynist?

Worst things to say to a survivor of sexual assault 01.04.2025 16:00 ↓

By now most of us have the common sense not to ask a survivor of sexual assault "What were you wearing?" or "Were you drunk? But are you saying the wrong things & not realising it? On Episode 97, we dive deep into some wreckless statements people make that is damaging to a survivor of sexual assault. Please think before you speak.

Tap into your intuition 25.03.2025 12:20 ↓

Intuition is the voice of God. Are you listening?

How to make a player fall in love 18.03.2025 19:09 ↓

As per a beloved listener's request

Grief : When your whole world goes dark 11.03.2025 14:18 ↓

Episode 94 talks about grief & how to handle it

The Mindset of a Hater: A message to all content creators 28.02.2025 12:11 ↓

Do not let them get to you

When he leaves you for someone else 10.02.2025 15:36 ↓

It hurts. It hurts like hell.

How being the Black Sheep makes you the G.O.A.T 28.01.2025 14:15 ↓

Is it so bad being called the Black sheep?

For the fellas: Do not marry her if... 04.01.2025 13:04 ↓

As requested by a friend, this is an episode for the men on the kind of partner they shouldn't go for when it comes to marriage

I come first 15.12.2024 18:27 ↓

Why should you come first? Well...the other choice is not so great It's time to choose you

Embody Black Cat Energy 10.12.2024 19:58 ↓

Why embodying the black cat energy is some thing every woman should do 1) What is Black Cat Energy? 2) What isn't Black Cat Energy? 3) Why it makes sense to embody Black Cat Energy 4) How to embody Black Cat Energy?

Do not marry him if... 03.12.2024 15:19 ↓

Watch out for these traits of men you do not want to marry

Healthy Love - Does it exist? 10.11.2024 26:09 ↓

Do you believe healthy love exists for you?

Discover your passion 09.09.2024 14:45 ↓

5 questions to ask yourself to discover your passion

Is his interest in you Lukewarm or Flaming Hot? 15.08.2024 13:12 ↓

Is the man your with really interested in being with you or do you have it the wrong way?

Girl, she wants your man! 30.06.2024 9:18 ↓

Signs your "friend" wants your man

Stay away from the "Woe is me" people 22.06.2024 8:28 ↓

People with a victim mentality are dangerous

Stop believing these lies at your big age! 12.05.2024 10:24 ↓

BS women over 30s are still believing

Ladies, stop doing these things on social media 05.05.2024 6:55 ↓

Get in touch with me on my coaching on Instagram: @aellathecoach or email on: aellathecoach@gmail.com

Male centered friends are Dangerous! 06.04.2024 9:07 ↓

Ever had a friend that was too "boy crazy"? You can understand when you're teens but as adults, it's no longer cute but scary at times.

Setting you up with the wrong person on purpose 18.03.2024 9:11 ↓

Do you trust your family or friends to set you up with someone for marriage?

Shera's advice - The good, the bad & the ugly 26.02.2024 10:02 ↓

My thoughts on the famous Sprinkle Sprinkle Lady's advice

Subtle ways he makes you chase 13.02.2024 8:48 ↓

Are you unknowingly chasing him?