Adulthood is a Project

Have you ever caught yourself saying, "Things were different back then..."? This week on Adulthood is a Project , we're taking a lighthearted look at America Then vs. Now as we wrap up our 3-Part Summer Series. From political campaigns and voting habits to the lessons history continues to teach us, we're comparing yesterday and today with plenty of laughs along the way. We even manage to wander in...

What happened to July 4th? In Part 2 of our Summer Series , we take a trip down memory lane and talk about how Independence Day has changed over the years. From small-town ice cream socials and neighborhood fireworks to learning surprising facts about the Declaration of Independence, we're exploring what made July 4th feel so special growing up and why it feels a little different today. We share m...

Presidents Were Wild… and history class definitely left out the fun parts. In this kickoff to our 3-part summer series , we’re diving into the weird, wild, and unexpected side of U.S. presidents. From bizarre rumors and strange coincidences to surprising personal stories, this episode proves American history was a lot messier, funnier, and more chaotic than we remember. Did Lincoln’s son have unbe...

KC has no idea what today’s topic is… and we’re keeping it that way. 😏 In this Mystery Episode of Adulthood is a Project, the only clue comes through the quiz, and she’ll have to piece it together one question at a time. Will she figure it out before the episode gives it away? Play along, make your guesses, and see if you can crack the mystery before KC does. 🎙️ Come for the fun and stay for the...

Family relationships feel more complicated than ever… but are they actually, or are we just talking about them differently now? In this episode, we dive into the pressure parents face to be “perfect,” the new language around trauma and boundaries, and whether we’re too quick to label family relationships as toxic or cut people off completely. We talk about everything from spanking and changing par...

Are we more judgmental than we think... and should we actually be more discerning? 🤔 In this episode of Adulthood is a Project , we’re talking about the blurry line between judgment and discernment. Is avoiding certain people protecting your peace... or are we just judging with better vocabulary? We get into neighborhood drama, being judged for weird preferences (including KC somehow wanting a pi...

What books have stayed with you long after you turned the last page? In this episode of Adulthood is a Project , we’re talking about the stories that shaped us, the authors we can’t stop reading, and the books we still think about years later. From childhood favorites to the things we’re reading now, we’re diving into books. We chat about getting completely hooked on an author (until they start fe...

Adult friendships can feel complicated. Between work, kids, activities, texts, snaps, notifications, and trying to survive your own day-to-day life, keeping up with people can start to feel like another task on the to-do list. In this episode, we talk about friendships that survive months without talking, why some people need constant connection while others don’t, the pressure of always being rea...

Postpartum is often talked about like it’s just depression… but it’s so much more than that In this episode, we open up about the parts of postpartum no one really prepares you for—the anxiety, the overthinking, the unexpected sadness, and the pressure to feel nothing but happiness after having a baby We talk about how postpartum is really another phase of pregnancy that doesn’t just end after bir...

Life isn’t about avoiding hard… it’s about choosing the right kind of hard. In this episode, we’re diving into what it really means to “choose your hard” — from relationships that take effort, to big life decisions that look exciting on the outside but come with their own challenges behind the scenes. We talk about: Why the lifestyle you want will always come with trade-offs The reality of relatio...

Editing was a struggle this week - enjoy the chaos In a world where soap is good for you… until it’s not Eggs are healthy… until they’re suddenly not 🍳 And somehow even water feels suspicious some days… How are you supposed to choose anything? This week, we’re talking about the constant back-and-forth of “what’s good for you” and how trying to do everything right can leave you feeling overwhelmed...

Volume Up On This One (we’re working on it) Ever feel like life isn’t going the way you planned… and you’re not sure if you should stick it out or switch it up? In this episode, we’re talking about what it really means to pivot — and why giving yourself permission to change your mind might be one of the healthiest things you can do. We get into how pivoting shows up in real life — from careers to...

Yeah…we realized too late that the camera was sideways - we just went Adulthood style and rolled with it. What does it really mean to invest in yourself? In this episode, we’re breaking down the idea that self-investment always has to cost money — because honestly, it doesn’t. Sometimes it’s as simple as taking a nap, sitting in silence for a few minutes, picking up a book, or even trying a new ho...

Growing up before smartphones feels like a completely different world… and honestly, we kind of loved it 😅 In this episode, we’re talking about what life was like before everything was tracked, recorded, and instantly shared. From being thankful there were no Ring Doorbell cameras catching our every move, to somehow surviving with maps and pure guesswork—we look back at a time that felt a little...

In this week’s episode, we’re talking about a hard but important truth — people will show you who they are. Sometimes it’s through their actions. Sometimes it’s through their words. And sometimes… it’s both. The real question is, why don’t we always listen? We get into how this shows up at different stages of life. When we’re younger, it can be about wanting to fit in, find our people, or not full...

In this week’s episode, we’re talking about something that feels small… but somehow affects all of us — needing an app for everything. From grocery stores to gas stations to fast food, it seems like every place wants you to download an app just to get the same deals or basic convenience. And while some of them can be useful, it’s starting to feel like a bit much. We get into the reality of having...

In this week’s episode, we’re talking about something many of us struggle with — slowing down. What started as a surprise topic revealed through our quiz turned into a deeper conversation about how often we rush through life without realizing it. From talking too quickly, to responding before we really listen, to constantly feeling like we’re behind on everything. We dive into why slowing down can...

In this week’s episode, we’re diving into confidence — where it comes from, who profits off of it, and why so many of us feel like we’re missing it. We talk about how low confidence can quietly become a selling point. From beauty standards to targeted messaging, entire industries thrive on convincing us we need just one more tweak to be enough. Why are women often targeted more than men? And how d...

In this week’s episode, we’re talking about something we’ve all experienced — when someone’s actions don’t match their words. We dive into why this happens, from wanting to be perceived a certain way to genuinely believing a version of ourselves that doesn’t line up with reality. Why does the person who says they “hate drama” always seem surrounded by it? Why do some people claim they value peace,...

In this week’s episode, we’re diving into masculine and feminine energy and what it really means to find balance within yourself. We all carry both. Strength and softness. Logic and intuition. Structure and flow. The problem isn’t having one or the other, it’s living out of balance. We talk about how learning your more dominant traits can help you grow personally and also improve your relationship...

Long distance relationships sound romantic in theory… until you’re coordinating time zones, plane tickets, and FaceTime dates that freeze at the worst possible moment. As we wrap up our Dating Series, we’re talking about what it really takes to date someone who doesn’t live down the street. How do you stay connected? What makes the distance harder or easier? We share our thoughts on effort, commun...

In Part 2 of our dating series, we’re talking about dating etiquette for women — but not in a rulebook, old-school way. This is about effort, reciprocity, and how to show interest without losing your standards. We get into the small but meaningful things that show you actually like someone: returning effort, thoughtful gestures, bringing his favorite snack just because. Because if you see yourself...

In Part 1 of our dating series, we’re talking about the difference between situationships and intentional dating and why so many modern relationships live in the blurry space between the two. We break down what situationships really look like, why they’re easy to fall into, and how dating with intention shifts the way you communicate, set expectations, and protect your time and energy. This episod...

We’ve all been there — one mistake, one awkward moment, one bad decision, and suddenly that’s the story people love to tell about you. In this episode, we talk about what it’s like dealing with people who focus only on your flaws, your past, or the things you’ve done wrong — even when you’ve grown far beyond them. We share personal stories about how easy it is for a single moment to overshadow yea...

Participation trophies were meant to encourage kids — but somewhere along the way, the lesson may have gotten a little blurry. In this episode, we’re taking a lighthearted look at participation trophies, keeping score (or not), and what it really means to “do your best” as kids grow into adults. We talk about the difference between internal and external motivation, why effort matters, and how lear...