ADHD-Friendly

Trying to keep everything in your head can place enormous strain on ADHD executive function skills - especially working memory, planning, and task initiation. In this episode, I explore why externalizing information reduces the mental load and share practical ADHD-friendly strategies to create scaffolding that helps your brain carry less and follow through more. PLUS: Hear this week’s Book of the...

In this episode, I share how “Past Patty” gave “Future Patty” an incredible gift by planning ahead for vacation and re-entry when I got home. By blocking recovery time, reducing overwhelm, and making the transition home so much easier I found myself incredibly grateful for the work “Past Patty” did! We’ll explore why thinking about and supporting your future self is such a powerful ADHD-friendly s...

Summer can quickly become overwhelming for ADHD brains when routines disappear, schedules shift, and days become reactive instead of intentional. In this episode, we explore ADHD-friendly strategies to simplify summer routines, reduce overwhelm, and create flexible systems that support more calm, consistency, and enjoyment all season long. PLUS: Hear this week’s Book of the Week. Join ADHD-Friendl...

Many ADHD adults know what they should do for future success—but still struggle to take action in the moment. In this episode, we explore why “future you” can feel invisible with ADHD, how the now/not now brain impacts decision-making, and practical ways to bridge the gap with more ease. PLUS: Hear this week’s Book of the Week. Join ADHD-Friendly and start planning YOUR way! As a member, you’ll ha...

What if relationships had an annual “State of the Union”? In this episode, I share how creating a yearly relationship check-in became a fun, intentional way to reflect on what’s working, strengthen connection, and build ADHD-friendly relationship systems. PLUS: Hear this week’s Book of the Week. Join ADHD-Friendly and start planning YOUR way! As a member, you’ll have access to ADHD-Friendly live e...

Summer can feel freeing—but for ADHD brains, changes in structure, routines, sleep, and responsibilities can quickly lead to overwhelm, time blindness, and dropped habits. In this episode, we’ll explore why summer routines often fall apart and how to create a flexible, ADHD-friendly summer that supports both joy and functioning. PLUS: Hear this week’s Book of the Week. Join ADHD-Friendly and learn...

How to Use “Open Loops” to Get Things Done Why do unfinished tasks stick in your brain and feel impossible to ignore? In this episode, we explore the Zeigarnik Effect, its connection to ADHD brain wiring, and ADHD-friendly strategies to use mental “open loops” to create momentum, reduce overwhelm, and make starting tasks feel easier. PLUS: Hear the Book of the Week. Join ADHD-Friendly and learn ho...

Turn music into a tool—not a distraction. Learn how to use playlists to activate your brain, create structure, and make it easier to start, focus, and follow through. PLUS: Hear the Book of the Week. Join ADHD-Friendly and learn how to plan YOUR way! Plan, Act, Thrive is an ongoing course. Jump in anytime! As a member, you’ll get full access to this course and all ADHD-Friendly live events, planni...

House hunting with ADHD can quickly become overwhelming as details blur together and priorities get lost. In this episode, I share how using a simple spreadsheet helped me stay focused on what mattered most, track each home clearly, and make confident decisions without the mental overload. PLUS: Hear the Book of the Week. Join ADHD-Friendly and learn how to plan YOUR way! Plan, Act, Thrive is an o...

If you’ve ever said “just one more” and couldn’t stop, you’re not alone. This episode breaks down why ADHD brains struggle with “brakes” and shares simple, ADHD-friendly strategies to help you pause before things spiral. PLUS: Hear the Book of the Week. Join ADHD-Friendly and learn how to plan YOUR way! Plan, Act, Thrive is an ongoing course. Jump in anytime! As a member, you’ll get full access to...

What if support didn’t mean trying harder—but feeling safer being yourself? Learn how ADHD masking impacts your energy, relationships, and self-worth—and what actually helps instead. PLUS: Hear the Book of the Week. Join ADHD-Friendly and learn how to plan YOUR way! Plan, Act, Thrive is an ongoing course. Jump in anytime! As a member, you’ll get full access to this course and all ADHD-Friendly liv...

To-do lists are supposed to help, but for ADHD brains, they often create overwhelm, avoidance, or get completely ignored. In this episode, we break down why to-do lists don’t work the way they’re “supposed to” and share simple, ADHD-friendly strategies to make them actually usable and effective. PLUS: Hear the Book of the Week. Join ADHD-Friendly and learn how to plan YOUR way! Plan, Act, Thrive i...

Ever feel like you start everything… but finish nothing? You’re not alone—and it’s not a motivation problem. In this episode, I explain why finishing tasks is uniquely challenging for ADHD brains and share simple, realistic tools (including one powerful mindset shift) to help you follow through with more ease. PLUS: To register for the First Step Lab Workshop on 4/15/26, use the following link: Fi...

Why Visibility Changes Everything Many people with ADHD struggle with “out of sight, out of mind” due to differences in working memory and executive functions. Using simple, visible systems - what I call ISIM (In Sight, In Mind)—can make it easier to remember, prioritize, and follow through. PLUS: To register for the First Step Lab Workshop on 4/15/26, use the following link: First Step Lab PLUS:...

Why do people with ADHD often struggle with consistency, organization, and follow-through? In this episode, we explore the research on conscientiousness and ADHD, what it looks like in everyday life, and practical strategies that help ADHD brains turn good intentions into reliable action. PLUS: To register for the First Step Lab Workshop on 4/15/26, use the following link: First Step Lab PLUS: Hea...

Do you instantly forget someone’s name right after being introduced? Many adults with ADHD struggle with name recall due to working memory and retrieval challenges. In this episode, we explore the fascinating concept of proper name anomia, why ADHD brains often struggle with names, and practical strategies that actually help. PLUS: Hear the Book of the Week. Join ADHD-Friendly now and learn how to...

Why are transitions so hard with ADHD? In this episode, we explore how ADHD impacts task switching, hyperfocus, executive functioning, and emotional regulation — and why moving from one activity to another can feel exhausting or even impossible. You’ll learn practical strategies to make transitions easier and reduce resistance when switching tasks. PLUS: Hear the Book of the Week. Join ADHD-Friend...

When you live with ADHD, sometimes you know exactly what to do, and still don’t do it. In this episode, I share a personal story about an avoidable mistake, the shame spiral that followed, and how I shifted from self-blame to self-support. Plus I’ll share 5 tips to reset faster, repair what you can, and build systems that make it easier for your future self next time. PLUS: Hear the Book of the We...

When schedules are too packed or too open, the brain gets flooded with decisions, leading to fatigue, avoidance, or paralysis. In this episode, we explore how “Goldilocksing” your schedule, (right-sizing it to fit your brain and energy), can dramatically reduce decision stress and make action easier. PLUS: Hear the Book of the Week. Join ADHD-Friendly now and learn how to plan in YOUR way! Plan, A...

Ever wonder why brushing your teeth, doing the dishes, or starting the laundry can feel strangely overwhelming? In this episode, we unpack why “simple” tasks aren’t always simple for the ADHD brain, and share practical, ADHD-friendly strategies to make them easier to start and finish. PLUS: Hear the Book of the Week. Join ADHD-Friendly now and learn how to plan in YOUR way! Plan, Act, Thrive! Jump...

Spoiler alert: You’re not bad at time… you’re just optimistic. This episode breaks down time optimism , how it sneaks into ADHD life, and practical, shame-free strategies to stop underestimating time and start feeling more in control. PLUS: Hear the Book of the Week. Join ADHD-Friendly now and join the 2026 program, Plan, Act, Thrive! As a member, you’ll get full access to this course and all ADHD...

You probably heard of FOMO (Fear of Missing Out), but what about FOFO (Fear OF Finding Out)? FOFO is a common reason many of us will avoid getting recommended health screenings or make an appointment to get a strange mole checked out. It is a general term used to describe the avoidance and anxiety people sometimes feel about medical care. If this sounds like you, check out this episode to learn mo...

Did you set an intention for a routine in 2026, but are struggling now that the initial sparkle has worn off? ADHD brains prioritize novelty and stimulation. In this episode learn how to resparklize your routines so they work for your brain! PLUS: Hear the Book of the Week. Join ADHD-Friendly now and join the 2026 program, Plan, Act, Thrive! As a member, you’ll get full access to this course and a...

Planning for the future with ADHD can feel overwhelming because ADHD brains are wired to focus on the present moment. In this episode, we explore strategies that make future planning easier so we can move from intention into action with more ease. PLUS: Hear the Book of the Week! Join ADHD-Friendly now and join the 2026 program, Plan, Act, Thrive! As a member, you’ll get full access to this course...

“Just try harder” sounds helpful, but for ADHD brains, it’s a myth that creates shame instead of progress. In this episode, we explore why effort alone doesn’t work with ADHD wiring and share practical, brain-friendly strategies to create motivation, momentum, and real change. PLUS: Hear the Book of the Week! Create an ADHD-Friendly Personal Owner’s Manual (POM) eBook is now available in the ADHD-...