According to This Black Girl

So we are almost done with this season and of course we are having technical issues! We will be working them out, but in the meantime, lock in to listen (only) to an episode that may clear the room the most. Your two favorite Black girls talk about boundaries and valuing those you love. Melissa shares the troubles she's having with her family (the saga continues) and talks about how her and he...

Did yall catch whatever cold is going around like Melissa did? If so, we hope you're feeling better and after a week of rest are ready to listen to an episode that's sure to make you sit up in your seat! We have a guest (Melissa's good friend) who dated a man 30 years older! How old is too old? What's it like to have several generational gaps in age? sex...? Tap in with your two fa...

We havne't had a Man's POV episode in a long time and this one was a wild ride! Your two favorite Black girls were joined by dating coach Derrick Bradley to discuss communication in relationships. One topic of discussion: everyone should be self-interested, but are we narcissists? And before you get up in arms about the use of the word, tap into this episode with us and our guest Derrick.

We are back!!! Your two favorite Black girls took a much needed break at the halfway point in the season we are back with a topic that's sure to have people in their feelings. Sometimes you have to cut friends loose and that's what this episode is about. Do yall just keep friends in your life just because they have been "down" with you in the past? Protect your peace and tap in w...

We are half way through this season and your two favorite Black girls are STRESSED!! From health issues to anxiety, it's a time, and we are podding, laughing, and praying our way to the other side. Listen in as we share what's causing the stress and how we are managing (or not). We keep it real at According to this Black Girl, so lock in with us as we give you an honest look at our lives.

We are keeping Season 5 hot with our first guest! SavagelyHumble joins your two favorite Black girls as we talk first dates! If y'all haven't seen the list, there are a TON of places you can't take a woman on a first date and we break that down on this episode. Some are spot on and some are just outrageous. Listen in and make draw your own conclusions!

#wewantoutthegroup chat! Well, we'll leave after this episode lol! This week, your favorite Black girls are talking about the saga that is Jada Pickett Smith and Will Smith. We aren't sure if they are smoking crack or the rest of us are, but this has got everyone spinning (and checking social media). While all of this sounds nuts, it looks like they are going to stick beside each other. Ta...

On this episode of According to this Black Girl, Amron and Melissa talk football (kind of). Some of these folks been acting up over Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce and interrupting good football, but most importantly, they have dragged Kayla Nicole into it (again, leave here alone). You know we didn't hold back on this topic, so strap in and hit us on our socials and let us know what you think!

Y'all we have been gone for so long we said this was Season 4 like five times! But, welcome to SEASON 5!!! We have had some life changing events occur since you last heard from us, but your two favorite Black girls are back and ready for all the smoke (only kind of like that sounds). Lock in, and get ready for a season like no other!

Thank y'all for sticking with us through this challenging season! This week, your two favorite Black girls wrap up Season 4 by discussing negative self talk and when is a challenge a good thing. When you pray and are giving the desires of your heart, is it supposed to be easy? Do you have "the right" to feel overwhelmed by your blessings? Melissa open up about her struggles with her...

Have you ever lied to protect someone's reputation? Was that person your ex? Why did you do that? This week your two favorite Black girls discuss flat out lies, lies by omission, and being "named" when someone tells their side of the story. Also, y'all ever considered sending an NDA while out in these dating streets? We are almost done with this season, so you won't want to m...

Has social media made us more attracted to negativity or were we always like this and social media is just the medium in which we express ourselves? Your two favorite Black girls tackle this topic (again, but it's remixed and still funny) as only they can. Tap in with us as we also talk about who gets to come to the cookout and clickbait.

Stay Schemin (shoutout to Rick Ross)!! On this episode, your two favorite Black girls talk ambition and can you have enough of it? We talk about "little" achievements and how lame people are for qualifying another person's effort (really stop this $hit). There are lots of gems and laughs in this episode, including a moment where Amron shows her growth when it comes to dating (check o...

We are back (again) y’all! Your two favorite Black girls tap into a topic about vanity. Can vanity be a good thing? Melissa gets personal about her sinus surgery struggles and her journey to look and feel better. Set with the backdrop of Angela White’s very recent and very talked about journey to undo several cosmetic procedures, this is one episode you won’t want to miss!

Your favorite two Black girls are back (this will probably be a constant theme as Melissa works through having a sinus procedure and losing her voice on and off) with a Man's POV episode! Are women the problem?? Do we make the rules or are men driving this "less is more" trend? We have Flan from the TWS Podcast with us to discuss nakedness when it relates to mothers and the supposed...

Happy Valentine's Day y'all! Your two favorite Black girls jumped right into this one! Social media would have women believe that just because a man shows you attention that he a "simp," but we here at According to this Black Girl think that's not only crazy, but detrimental to women finding the happiness they deserve. On this episode, we ask the question "can a woman be a simp?" and chat about fa...

The idea that women should be a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets is still alive and well in 2023! And on the surface, it's fine, but has it gone too far? Are women "oversharing" (y'all saw Caresha and the "Pee" Diddy stuff trending) or should society stay out of our sexual lane and our bodies. On this episode your two favorite Black girls discuss this and so much more! Also, check out...

We are keeping Season 4 going with an episode about how Keke Palmer is glowing and growing and the haters can't stand it! Some are calling Keke a stereotype - an unwed Black mother - but your two favorite Black girls think she is not only a beacon of hope for woman with PCOS, but also minding the baby and fine ass baby daddy business that pays her! Embrace being a "stereotype" if it works for you!...

Happy New Year and we are back for Season 4!!! We missed y'all and in this episode listen in to catch up with your favorite Black girls. Some things have changed, but some things have stayed the same. This season we are getting into all types of "good trouble" to bring in 2023.

This is the season finale! Melissa and Amron reflect on the season's ups and downs, while expressing what they have learned while trying to glow up. Listen in as your two favorite Black girls talk about H.E.N.R.Ys (high earners, not rich yet) and how dating men with "potential" is working out. You won't want to miss this episode filled with laughs and self-love as your girls close out this season....

On this episode, Melissa and Amron get serious and talk about just how hard it can be to glow up. Do you need a "team" or a support system to glow up? Or to become your best self only something that you can only do alone? Tap in as we stay real about mental health and how going it alone may work for some and not for others. 

On this episode, Melissa and Amron get serious and talk about forgiveness and how to find your peace without an apology. Although there are some laughs on this episode, there are also some tears as Melissa recounts how she feels about her relationship with her dad and stepmom, what her therapist thinks she should do, and how Amron does not agree with the former first lady's famous philosophy...

On this episode, Melissa and Amron talk about marriage and cheating. Melissa is coming to you from Cleveland, Ohio where she experienced married men hitting on her and her other single colleagues at a conference (these men really ain't sh!t). In the age of open relationships, situationships, and everything in between, is marriage "still" a glow up? Watch and listen as your favorite Black girls dis...

On this episode, Melissa and Amron discuss an article from Psychology Today entitled: The Rise of Lonely, Single Men (you can find the link to the article in our IG story). The article talks about how women's dating standards have changed and these two Black girls definitely agree! No more swiping right on "trash" men or men just "because." Do higher standards come with age or just with maturity?...

We are halfway through Season 3! On this episode, Melissa and Amron chat with their high school friend Jasmine about glowing up and tightening up. Listen in as these ladies discuss dealing with the struggles of working out and staying healthy, while celebrating the bodies they have (and the bodies the men want!) Abs may be made in the kitchen, but According to the Black Girl is always cooking up t...