About This Love

When does well-meaning family advice cross the line into marital interference? When you get married, you don't just marry your partner—you blend families, traditions, and opinions. While family support is invaluable, unsolicited advice and overstepping can quickly create tension, resentment, and division between you and your spouse. It is tough to draw the line when guilt and loyalty come into pla...

Marriage isn't always smooth sailing, and disagreements are a natural part of two lives merging into one. But what happens when the storm hits? This episode focuses on the "Rules of Engagement" every couple needs to navigate conflict safely. We share insights on maintaining emotional safety, avoiding common communication pitfalls, and ensuring that your relationship always wins, even when you don'...

For the second part of this intense deep dive, we are pulling back the curtain on the silent killers of connection: the things we leave unsaid. If Part 1 was about recognizing the path toward a breakdown, Part 2 is about the heavy burden of carrying secrets, omissions, and "polite" silences that eventually crush the foundation of a marriage. In this episode, we explore why we choose to hide—whethe...

Every family has a vault—a collection of stories, identities, and "incidents" locked away to protect the collective image. But what happens when the walls of that vault start to crumble? In the first installment of our "Road to Ruin" series, we explore the devastating psychological and structural Effects of Family Secrets. We’re moving beyond the "harmless" surprise to examine the toxic legacies o...

Do you actually need to change your personality, habits, or goals to get married? In Episode 93, we break down the myth that you have to become a completely different person to be a good spouse. We’re talking about the good, the bad, and the necessary changes that come with long-term commitment. Hit play to find out where to draw the line between evolving as a person and sacrificing your true self...

Insecurity is a universal human experience, but managing it in our relationships is a completely different challenge. In Episode 93, we dive into a heavy but deeply necessary question: Do we actually have the emotional capacity to handle each other's insecurities? When someone we care about is struggling with self-doubt, jealousy, or fear, our instinct is to support them. But realistically, holdin...

Struggling with roles in early married life? Tune in as we discuss what true leadership looks like in a new marriage and how to lead together as a team. 🔥 To listen to our latest podcast episode or to read our blogs: YouTube: https://rb.gy/2lft30 https://lnk.bio/AboutThisLove https://rss.com/podcasts/about-this-love/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ma.maven?lang=en

Is it possible to have a relationship without the drama? Most couples think fighting is "normal," but there is a better way to live. Join us as we explore the psychological shifts required to attain lasting peace with your partner. Whether you’re dealing with long-term resentment or daily bickering, these five steps will help you reset your dynamic and rediscover the calm you both deserve. 🔥 To l...

Are you wondering why your past seems to follow you into new romances? In this episode, we dive deep into the importance of addressing trauma before entering into a relationship. We explore how healing your inner child and processing past experiences can lead to a healthier, more secure partnership. Key Takeaways In this podcast, you’ll learn: The signs of unresolved trauma in dating. How "baggage...

Join us as we join the Becoming Abraham Podcast. We dive into the foundational lessons, modern pursuit of purpose, identity, and divine calling. For More from the "Becoming Abraham Podcast": All episodes - http://divemedia.co TT - https://www.tiktok.com/@Thisisdivemedia IG - https://www.instagram.com/Thisisdivemedia FB - https://www.facebook.com/ThisisDivemedia 🔥 To listen to our latest podcast e...

Why Did I Get Married? (The Conclusion) The trip concludes! In Part 3, we wrap up our discussion on Tyler Perry’s classic. We’re covering the final confrontations, the emotional reunions, and our overall rating of the film’s portrayal of modern marriage. Is it a masterpiece of relationship drama or just a mess? Tune in to find out. Some of the "Why Sid I Get Married" Cast: Janet Jackson, Jill Scot...

Episode 87: Why Did I Get Married? (Movie Discussion, Part 2) The conversation continues! In the second half of our deep dive into Tyler Perry’s modern classic, Why Did I Get Married? , we’re moving past the surface-level drama to dissect the heavy-hitting themes that still resonate today. In this episode of About This Love , we explore: The Anatomy of a Secret: Analyzing the fallout of infidelity...

This week, we head to the snowy mountains of Colorado to revisit Tyler Perry’s 2007 cultural phenomenon, Why Did I Get Married? In Part 1 of our retrospective, we’re breaking down the four foundational couples and the baggage they brought to the retreat. From the heartbreaking vulnerability of Sheila and the "toxic perfection" of Patricia and Gavin, to the high-volume chaos of Angela and Marcus, w...

Is a wedding ring a prerequisite for a virtuous life? In a culture that often equates "settling down" with "growing up," it’s easy to feel like your character development is on hold until you say "I do." But is that actually true? In this episode, we challenge the misconception that marriage is the only refinery for character. We break down the definition of virtue—not as a relationship status, bu...

In this episode, Dale and Charel tackle the hot-button issue of submission in marriage part 2. They cut through the confusion and toxic baggage often associated with the word, contrasting the worldly view (control, hierarchy, and devaluation) with the Biblical view. Stay tuned for part 2 on topic of submission as we share our personal insights, ditch the harmful myths, and offer practical ways to...

In this episode, Dale and Charel tackle the hot-button issue of submission in marriage. They cut through the confusion and toxic baggage often associated with the word, contrasting the worldly view (control, hierarchy, and devaluation) with the Biblical view. Stay tuned for part 2 on topic of submission as we share our personal insights, ditch the harmful myths, and offer practical ways to build a...

What do the three F's—Family, Friendship, and Fellowship—really mean in a world that often feels fractured and busy? In this heartfelt episode, we dive deep into the vital connections that shape who we are. We're exploring the often-complicated dynamics of our birth families, the chosen support system of our closest friends, and the powerful sense of community we find through fellowship, whether i...

Episode 80: Dating w/ The Intentions of Marriage Pt. 5 In this episode, we continue our deep dive into dating with purpose, focusing on the importance of building relationships that are rooted in faith, values, and long-term commitment. Join us as we unpack practical insights, biblical perspectives, and real-life experiences to help singles and couples navigate the journey of dating with marriage...

💍 How do you really know if someone is “the one”? In this episode of the About This Love podcast, we open up about trust, prayer, and the personal journey of discerning God’s best for our relationship. From battling insecurities to learning how to prepare our hearts and connect with God in your season of singleness, we share the real conversations that shaped the start of our marriage journey. 🙏...

In this episode, we continue our series on Dating with the Intentions of Marriage by diving into the importance of setting and maintaining healthy boundaries . Boundaries are not about building walls but about creating clarity, respect, and protection for both individuals in a relationship. We’ll discuss: Why boundaries are vital for intentional dating. How to communicate your standards without fe...

Welcome back to About This Love ! In Episode 78, Dale and Charel dive into the 2nd of a five-part series on dating with the intention of marriage . If you’re tired of casual flings and endless ghosting, this episode is for you. We’ll discuss: Why clarity matters : How defining your ultimate goal shapes every date. Red flags vs. green lights : Spotting traits that point toward a lifelong partnershi...

Welcome back to About This Love ! In Episode 77, Dale and Charel dive into the first of a five-part series on dating with the intention of marriage . If you’re tired of casual flings and endless ghosting, this episode is for you. We’ll discuss: Why clarity matters : How defining your ultimate goal shapes every date. Red flags vs. green lights : Spotting traits that point toward a lifelong partners...

In this episode of About This Love , we tackle a thought-provoking question: Is marriage worth it for someone who doesn’t believe in God? Dale and Charel explore the purpose and design of marriage from a faith-based perspective and consider what it means when that foundation isn’t there. Whether you’re a believer, non-believer, or somewhere in between, this conversation will challenge how you view...

In this episode of About This Love , we dive into the everyday battle of staying focused in a world full of distractions—especially the ones that come from social media. Dale and Charel open up about how social platforms have impacted their time, attention, and even their relationship. From mindless scrolling to comparison traps, they explore the challenges and offer practical ways to stay present...

Before the vows, before the wedding, and before the "I do"—there's the mindset. In this episode, we dive into the mental, emotional, and spiritual preparation needed before entering marriage. Whether you're engaged, dating seriously, or just thinking about your future, this conversation will challenge you to reflect on your expectations, your purpose, and what it truly means to be ready for a life...