A Podcast About Gender

This episode is with hilarious comedian and co-host of Feeling Asian Podcast, Youngmi Mayer (@ymmayer) Gara (@garararararara) and Youngmi discuss misogyny in the comedy world, Christianity, our femmessaince, performing gender, cancer season, TikTok drama and more! THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART IS BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog) Support the show

This episode is with artist, performer and absolute beauty, Alexander Paris (@parishiltonals)! We talk about tripping on mushrooms, our gender bars, clouds, geometry, hometowns, the great mirror debate and more! THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART IS BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog) Support the show

In this kooky episode Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararara) discuss our dog park crushes, gender envy, WLW, sucking titties, haircuts, Walt Whitman and more! SOPHOMORE COMEDY SHOW RSVP:  https://www.eventbrite.com/e/sophomore-comedy-show-tickets-162874021583 THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY ANNA BOULOG Support the show

This week on DEAR EN(BA)BY Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@gararararara) talk about first kisses, making out with gay boys, transphobic dogs, the IKEA Bisexual Couch, queer red flags, poop and more! THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART IS BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog) Support the show

This episode is all about pride!!!! Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararara) talk about going to The Dyke March, celebrating pride by yourself, CVS, inclusivity, Massachusetts, our queer ancestors, hot butches, Party Rock Queer Anthem and more! THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART IS BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog) Support the show

This hilarious episode is with absolute star comedian and writer, Reid Pope (@rpopegram)! We talk about being a sports gay, girlhood, Joseph and the Technicolor Dreamcoat, tomboys, rainbow capitalism, being perceived, Brandi Carlile, name changing admin and more! THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART IS BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog) Support the show

Maggie (@softie.mag) and Gara (@garararararara) talk all about The NYC Dyke March and our plans to do a little EN(BA)BY meetup after the march on July 26! Full episode is available on Patreon! THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog) Support the show

This week Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararara) discuss their GPA's, breaking up with friends, free trials, trans firefighters, the clubbing bible, coming out at work, dollar slice pizza, GEB clothing and more! THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog) ASK US A QUESTION: https://docs.google.com/form...

On this super fun, super wacky episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY, Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever), Gara (@gararararararara) talk about flirting FIRST, cringy high school phases, Regina Spektor, enby cartoon characters, how to feel hot, making out in bars and more! THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART IS BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog) Support the show

This week the Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararara) talk about girl scouts, "All Gender Camp", anxious attachment, dating men, Trans Eagle Scouts, sleepovers, building a fire, active listening and more! THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog)  Support the show

This week we are talking about our sexiest topic yet, healthcare! Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararara) talk about Kate Bush, wild nights in NYC, going to the doctor, Trans and Queer Healthcare, Trauma Informed Care, D.A.R.E. and More! THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY ANNA BOULOG GENDER RESOURCES MASTER DOCUMENT: https:/...

This episode is all about Polyamory! Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@gararararararara) answer questions about "Poly D" (polyamory) while talking about things like communicating with your partner, cocktails, hooking up, exploring your sexuality, our Summer Goals, open relationships and more! THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART...

On this episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY your favorite homos Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararara) discuss GEB smells, living in "The Big Apple", rich people's apartments, cohabiting, dating yourself, the deodorant binary, moving in with your partner and more! THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART IS BY ANNA BOULOG (@anna...

On this incredible episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY the gang talks about flirting with service workers, BDSM quizzes, being GAY, gender validation, coming out to your friends, Trader Joe's, throwing your phone in the ocean and more! THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY; BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog) ASK US A QUESTION!  https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdUu0c...

This week on DEAR EN(BA)BY we are talking about hair! Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@gararararararara) talk about body hair, our favorite stores at the mall, barbers, the farmer's market, gender affirming haircuts, shaving your head, Delias and more! THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog) LIVE ZOOM SHOW I...

THIS IS PART TWO OF THE 420 EPISODE! So if you haven't listened to the first one yet, what are you doing? Go listen to that shit! Okay, in this wild adventure of an episode your favorite stoned hotties, Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararararara) talk about munchies, comfort youtube videos, snacking, being high at work, our most stoned in NYC moments, baby talk and...

This week on the pod we have resident cool boy and virgo podcast king, Remy Kassimir (@remykassimir). Gara (@gararararararara) and Remy talk about their incredible podcast, How Cum, Stanley Tucci, their gender parents, The Real Housewives, the comedy world, coming out as Non-binary and more! THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART IS BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboul...

It's here. The long awaited 420 episode. An episode so huge we had to separate it into two parts! Your favorite stoner boys Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@gararararararara) possibly get high and discuss smoking at parties, sororities, the Non-binary flag, Mike Hawk, shaking ur booty, getting high before sex and more! THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@dest...

This week Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (Garararararara) answer exciting questions about names, therapy and open pronouns. They discuss titillating topics like public enemy John Green, YA novels, email names, horrible coworkers and more! ASK US A QUESTION! https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdUu0c0xq8fdChLtyIF-7q4bAqakTZSO1YkRFado2fl3ZBOLA/viewform ORDER MERCH! https://www...

Basil (@whagever), Maggie (@softie.mag) and Gara (@gararararararara) go deeeeeeep this week talking about bisexuality vs. pansexuality, Zillow.com, men named Chip, femme boy energy, Peter Pan and more! THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog) EN(BA)BY MERCH: https://www.garalonning.com/enbabystore Support the show

Comedian Dylan Adler (@dylanadler_) is on the podcast this week! We talk (and sing) about going on tour, Eartha Kitt, our gender musicals, feeling embodied onstage, The Indigo Girls and more! LINKS TO ORGANIZATIONS SUPPORTING AAPI: RED CANARY SONG: https://www.redcanarysong.net/ ASIAN AMERICANS ADVANCING JUSTICE https://www.advancingjustice-atlanta.org/ THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY...

This week we answer your FAQ's!!!! This is the frequently asked questions episode! Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@gararararararararara) discuss the Spotify algorithm, binders, the prud to slut pipeline,  coming out to your parents, The Packers, packers and more! THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog) EN(B...

This juicy episode is all about sex, betrayal, rumors and scandal! Basil (@whagever), Maggie (@softie.mag) and Gara (@gararararararara) talk about dogs they've buried, texting your ex, sexy secrets, fucking your friends, having children, making out to Leona Lewis and more! EN(BA)BY MERCH PREORDER https://www.garalonning.com/enbabystore THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destr...

This episode is all about astrology! Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararara) discuss their "big three", Gemini love, gender self care, Disney Gays, Taurus', texting your mom, Craft Beer and all things astrology!!! LISTENER QUESTION GOOGLE FORUM https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdUu0c0xq8fdChLtyIF-7q4bAqakTZSO1YkRFado2fl3ZBOLA/viewform THEME SONG IS...

This week Gara (@garararararara) interviews actor and local wand maker Ellie Desautels (@ohyouknowellie) they talk about adventures in barista-ing, Gilmore Girls, affirming haircuts, Star Trek, being Trans in "the industry" and the perfect GEB day! THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART IS BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog) SUPPORT THE SHOW BY SUBSCRIBIN...