A Podcast About Gender

On this very wild and sexy episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY the boys; Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararara) talk about new lovers, Tinder, Joni Mitchell, butt stuff, the gayest songs of all time, “And Just Like That”, homophobic roommates, sex drives and more! THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART IS BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohansson) MER...

This episode of EN(BA)BY is with musician, SOAK (@soaksoaksoak). Gara (@gararararararara) interviews them about Avril Lavigne, performance euphoria, concerts, gender parents, releasing new music, names and more! THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART IS BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohannson) Support the show

In this episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY Gara (@garararararararara) and special guest, Gara's recent ex-boyfriend, current roommate and best friend, Jacob Brooks (@worldstrongestpainter) talk about their breakup, non-monogamous relationships, Cynthia Nixon, cheating, dating and much much much more! THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjo...

On this MICRODOSE of an episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararara) talk about The Notoriously Hung Eric Carle, body neutrality, moms, Queer Eye, Titty Funerals ,Bruce Springsteen and more! THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohansson) Support the show

This episode is with writer, producer and show runner,  Jaclyn Moore (@jaclynpmoore)! Gara (@gararararararara) and Jaclyn talk about H & M, TERFS, bathrooms, gender euphoric hair growth, Drag Culture, The Santa Clause, gender affirming surgeries and much much much more! TW: THIS EPISODE CONTAINS REFERENCES TO TRANSPHOBIA, ASSAULT AND ABUSE THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@de...

On this episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararara) talk about cookies, ve/ver/vis pronouns, coming out to your grandparents, Cawk/Caulk, queer people from high school and more!  THEME SONG IS ‘CRYBABY’ BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohansson) Support the show

This incredible episode is with writer, comedian and Gara's  (@gararararararara) Top Surgery Brother, Reid Pope (@rpopegram). Together they talk about their experiences getting gender affirming surgery while also discussing Mark Ruffalo, transphobia, nipples, reality tv, doctor's office art, recovery, Angelina Jolie's Double Mastectomy and more! TW: This episode contains discussions...

We're Back!!! And Gara got top surgery!!! In this amazing homecoming episode Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararararara) talk about dreams, TLC Shows, top surgery (ofc), lovers, how to date, Lana Del Ray and more! THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART IS BY NADA HYEK (@sloppyjohansson) Support the show

HAPPY ONE YEAR OF EN(BA)BY! On this UNCUT episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara talk about Adrianne Lenker, celebrity gossip, masterb*ting, friendship, going to concerts, Christian Mommy Vloggers, Pete Davidson and so so so so so much more! GARA TOP SURGERY FUND:  https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-gara-pay-for-top-surgery THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTR...

On this super MUSICAL episode of EN(BA)BY Gara interviews comedian and musician, Sofia Dobrushin (@oh.sofritas) they talk about straight halloween, social anxiety, their gender songs, Paul McCartney, soft boy energy, their favorite musicians, mustaches, top surgery and more! ONE PERSON SHOW TICKETS:  https://www.caveat.nyc/event/how-to-be-a-girl-in-three-easy-steps-11-15-2021 THEME SONG IS 'C...

On this CHAOTIC episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY everything goes wrong!!!!! Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@gararararara) talk about their crushes, what scared them as kids, 2011, mental health in the pandemic, being in a relationship with depression, self care and more! GARA'S ONE PERSON SHOW NOV. 15 @ CAVEAT: https://www.caveat.nyc/event/how-to-be-a-girl-in-three-easy-steps-11-15...

On this episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY, Maggie (softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@gararararara) talk about ads, Dua Lipa, dysphoria with multi vitamins, Gara’s top surgery!!!, jealousy, trust in partnerships, talking to ex’s, The Wilson Brothers, friend breakups and more! TICKETS TO 'ONE MILLION GIRLS' AT BRANDED SALOON:  https://www.eventbrite.com/e/one-million-girls-tickets-192333112...

Gara (@garararararara) interviews actor, writer and filmmaker Misha Osherovich (@mishaosherovich) about their new show The Girl in The Woods on Peacock (out now!) while talking about queer horror, Jennifer's Body, gender parents, movie villains, being Trans in the film and TV world, their dream roles and more! WATCH THE GIRL IN THE WOODS ON PEACOCK NOW! THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DE...

This is our first ever live show!!!! Back in September Maggie (@softie.mag) and Gara (@garararararara) traveled to Maggie's hometown, Providence, Rhode Island and performed a small, intimate live show for 20 people at AS220! They talk about stuff like chosen family, soaking, their queer awakening, the movie Sky High, coming out to your family, GEB childhood memories and answer questions with...

On this suuuuuper fun episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY your favorite hot friends, Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@gararararara) discuss using pronouns, p*ssing (again lol), shaving your head, "the one that got away", relationships with therapists, letting your parents down, dads and more! ASK US A QUESTION!  https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdUu0c0xq8fdChLtyIF-7q4bAqak...

In this episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@gararararara) talk about our favorite bugs, rumors, friendships with age differences, Gender Apathy, SLUGS!!!!!,  and genderless blobs! EN(BA)BY MERCH DROP: https://www.enbabypodcast.com/store Support the show

In this BIG CITY episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY, Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@Garararararara) talk about homophobic roommates, Rolling Stones Top 500, what we can’t live without, big city life, Matt Damon (rip), mental health while dating and more! THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohansson) THE BABY TOUR TICKETS:...

On this episode of EN(BA)BY Gara (@gararararara) talks to comedian and personal gender hero, Kate Sisk (@thekatesisk)! They talk about punching dudes, euphoric nicknames, open pronouns, being trans in comedy, arm wrestling, gender envy and more! THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohansson) Support the show

On this bonk bonk episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@gararararara) talk about Chuck E. Cheese, coming out at work, 2009, our names, religion, skating songs, navigating the cis-het service industry and a wild wild question from a listener THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohannson) Nola Blac...

In this super fun episode Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararara) introduce a new segment called “Help Me Out, Bro” where they ask EACH OTHER advice questions! In this “HMO,B” the gang talks about Selena Gomez, the binaries they subscribe to, hanging out with straight people, bar food, standing in your power, encouraging your creativity, being slutty on Venmo and more! T...

On this episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY Maggie (softie.mag), Basil (@whagever), Gara (@garararararara) the hottest friends in the universe talk about musicals (lol big surprise), our two woofs, posting yourself as a child, The Jonas Brothers, self care before Top Surgery, communication in friendships, P!NK and more! THEME SONG BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY NADA HAYEK (@sloppyjohansson)...

On this episode of DEAR EN(BA)BY Maggie (@softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@gararararara) talk about The Triangle Shirtwaist Factory Fire, Bi-Pride, Summertime GEB, The Family Stone, our adorable throuple friendship and more! THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog) Support the show

This episode is with Gara's better half, actress and comedian Emily Evans (@hotgaycelebrity) Together, they talk about Anna Sophia Rob, things that aren't gay that are gay, finding queer friends, high school dances, Gossip Girl, Elite Gays and more! THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog) SOPHOMORE COMEDY SHOW https://ww...

This episode is the second part to our GEB (gender euphoric bliss) extravaganza! Maggie (softie.mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@gararararara) discuss Trans utopias, gender euphoric tattoos, Non-Binary activities, p**p, bathroom culture, holding the door open for men, Lilo and Stitch and more! THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART BY ANNA BOULOG (@annabou...

This two part episode extravaganza is all about GEB (Gender Euphoric Bliss). Maggie (@Softie. Mag), Basil (@whagever) and Gara (@garararararara) discuss douche rooms, secret pleasures, what to wear at a piano recital, GEB clothes, piercings, business casual, the gay cold and more! THEME SONG IS 'CRYBABY' BY DESTROY BOYS (@destroyboysband) ALBUM ART IS BY ANNA BOULOG (@annaboulog)  Suppor...