A Couple of Couples

Can you truly grow as a couple if you’re not growing as individuals? In this episode, we unpack the delicate dance between personal growth and relationship growth — how to pursue your own evolution while still nurturing “the us.” We explore how your childhood experiences quietly shape the way you connect, argue, and love, and why understanding each other’s love languages is more than just a fun qu...

In this episode, we dive headfirst into burnout—where it comes from, what it really means, and whether it’s just exhaustion… or a deeper spiritual signal. We ask the big question: is everything spiritual, and if so, does that mean everything is a spiritual problem ? (Spoiler: maybe not.) Tune in for some honest reflections, a few spicy takes, and the kind of conversation that might just be the per...

Feeling fried from nonstop scrolling, group chats, and screen time overload? You’re not alone. In this episode, we dive into digital burnout—why it hits so hard, how to spot it, and what to do when your brain says ‘nope’ but your phone says ‘one more scroll.

We’ve all been there—wondering if a friendship still fits who we are today. In this episode, we open up about the tough moments of realizing you might be outgrowing a friend. Is it normal to drift apart? Should you keep trying even if it feels one-sided? We talk about what it means to grow, when it’s okay to move on, and how to handle the guilt that can come with letting go. It’s honest, a little...

In this episode, we dive into the realities of conflict in relationships - why it happens, how different communication styles can clash, and what it means to 'fight well.' We share insights on resolving disagreements in healthy ways, building deeper understanding during tough conversations, and strengthening relationships through honest (and somethings messy) communication. Whether you&#39...

In Episode 2, we're settling back into the groove after our Season 3 kickoff. We catch up on what we've been up to, talk about our love for food, and travel, and we shared where our adventurous spirits come from. Plus, tips on how to explore the world on a budget - because the best adventures don't have to break the bank.

We took a break… and it lasted a little longer than expected. But we’re back! In this episode, we catch up on everything that’s happened while we were away—from travel adventures to pregnancy and birth. Join us as we share all the big (and little) moments from our time off. We’d love to hear from you too—what have you been up to while we were gone? Let us know!

In this "pause" episode, we take a moment to reflect on a full year of podcasting and celebrate the end of Season 2! Join us as we look back on the journey so far and key takeaways. We also discussed our top 10 most played episodes and tried to remember what resonated with us and our listeners the most. Whether you're a day-one listener or new to the pod, this episode is the perfect way to wrap up...

Is marriage really necessary in today’s world? We talk about how long couples should wait before saying “I do,” whether marriage is just about validation for some, and why it might not be a must for everyone. But here’s the twist—we also explore what makes marriage feel essential for others. Tune in as we share our own thoughts and challenge the ideas of what marriage means. This episode will give...

In this second part of our take on church hurt, Ebenezer, Berica, Hannah, and Patrobas continue their candid discussion about the pain many face within the church. We share how seeking healing in the church can sometimes lead to hurt, highlight red flags we won’t overlook in the future, and offer honest tips for those who have been hurt by a church. Whether you're continuing from our first epi...

This is the first of two-part episodes on church hurt. Ebenezer, Berica, Hannah, and Patrobas delve into the complex topic of church hurt. Why? We believe there is healing in sharing personal stories from their experiences in church. We will talk about the often hidden emotional toll of religious trauma. We explore the disconnect between the church's mission and the reality some people face. W...

Are you secretly an Olympian? The Olympics are over, and we begin this episode by discussing our own Olympic dreams. Then, we dive into the exciting yet challenging journey of starting over. From relocating to a new country or a different part of the country to embarking on a path of self-reinvention, we share our personal moving experiences. Whether you’re seeking a change of scenery or a complet...

In this relatable episode, we share a little about the world of firstborns and the valuable lessons that come with being the family trailblazer. We explored how firstborn issues are the "first-world problems" of sibling dynamics - because setting a good example is not so easy. So if you are a firstborn, remember, you didn't choose the firstborn life - it chose you. So grab your &quot...

On this new episode, we have our first guest on the show. We are joined by Patrobas’s brother, Victor, to chat about what it was like growing up together in Nigeria, the woes of traveling internationally for the first time and adjusting to life in Canada.

*TW - some of the topics we discuss on this episode may be triggering* Welcome back to another episode of ACOC.  In this episode we dive into the real conversations about friendships, scandals and trust. We discussed about how to navigate the difficult challenges one can encounter as a friend in relationships where trust is broken due to unacceptable moral failures. How does one be a good friend w...

Another one! Because we couldn't get enough of the conversation in episode three, we've added a bonus episode, the first of possibly many more to come. So what are you waiting for? Press play and listen to us rank love, happiness, money, sex, and faith from least important to most important.

Love: a deep feeling of affection, care, and emotional attachment towards another person. It involves a strong desire for the well-being of the other person and a willingness to make sacrifices and compromises for their sake. Happiness: a feeling of fulfillment, satisfaction, and a sense of emotional and psychological well-being with one's partner. Money: a source of stress, conflict, or security....

This episode felt like a debate. Why? Because we delve into the intricacies of family dynamics and went back and forth on divided loyalties to partners and parents. We discuss about a man who left his pregnant wife in the delivery room to attend to his mother in the emergency room. Also we talk about the importance of prioritizing your partner while still honoring your parents and maintaining your...

Your favourite podcast is back! It's been a while, but we're excited to be back for season two. A lot has happened since we last talked, so we hope you are ready! In this first episode, we introduce ourselves and personally share the stories of how we went from being just friends to couples. You'll hear all about our first impressions of each other and hear us laugh about our memorable...

The last episode of season one! In this short episode, we take you behind the scenes and share our experiences creating the podcast and what it's like to be a podcast host, from the best parts of sharing our thoughts and ideas with all of you to the not-so-glamorous side of things in producing every episode. Plus, we share how we love you (the listeners) who connect with us on how much you app...

Can you believe it? Because we can’t! We are 8 episodes deep this season on the Pod. In this episode, we talk about March and where it falls on the best month ranking. Then, we dive into everyone's favourite reality TV obsession, Love is Blind, on Netflix. We'll share our thoughts on this season's cast and reveal who we think takes the title of the proverbial worst person. Next, we tac...

This episode is all about talking. We had a lively discussion on our first Valentine's Day as a married couple, making fashion choices for outings, Love is Blind on Netflix, what we recently changed our minds on, and something about a husband, wife, and girlfriend. Let us know what you think about this episode via email: acoupleofcouplespod@gmail.com and follow us on Instagram @acoupleofcouplespod

In this episode, we chat about the ins and outs of making friends. We share our thoughts on the importance of being kind, patient, and open, even when someone might not be your cup of tea. Plus, we dish out our hot takes on friendships. We come to the conclusion that, at the end of the day, everyone deserves kindness, even if they are not your friend. Tune in for some laughs and some real talk abo...

Are you ready for a mouth-watering episode? As we dive into the world of food, Hannah’s favourite topic. In this episode, we explore some of the most controversial foods out there, as well as reminisce about the sugary treats of our childhood. And of course, we'll hear all about Hannah's favorite foods and culinary adventures. So sit back, relax, and get ready to indulge your taste buds and your c...

We dive into the experience of meeting the in-laws. We share our personal stories of meeting each other's families and explore the intricacies of ask-versus-guess cultures and the lasting impact of first impressions. This episode is a must-listen for anyone who has ever felt the nerves of meeting their significant other's family, or for those seeking insights into the complex world of cross-cultur...