A c*nts guide to peace Podcast

Season 2 Finale is out!! This week on my podcast @acntsguidetopeace, I dig into the Netflix doc Bad Surgeon: Love Under the Knife, the shocking story of Paolo Macchiarini—a surgeon whose celebrated breakthroughs hid falsified research, failed surgeries, and devastated patients. The doc also exposes his toxic romance with a journalist he deceived, showing how charisma and desire can override judgme...

Ever wonder why dating in 2026 still feels like we’re running ancient software on a glitchy new system? This week on a cunts guide to peace, I dig into my theory of outdated genetic coding—the idea that our brains are still wired for survival patterns that made sense thousands of years ago… but now just leave us ghosting, chasing, self-sabotaging, and calling it “chemistry.” Are you actually in lo...

What if the chaos in modern dating isn’t just bad behavior… but outdated genetic coding running the show? In this episode of A Cunt’s Guide to Peace, I break down the wild Catfish documentary “Hey Beautiful” and use it as a case study for something I call outdated genetic coding — the old biological signals that once helped humans bond, choose partners, and survive… but are now colliding with the...

What if your DNA is running your love life… and it’s about 200,000 years out of date? this episode covers netflix's "Sweet Bobby" I unpack how outdated genetic coding may have helped enable one of the most astonishing nine-year catfishing stories - proving that even intelligent women can be outmatched by both evolution and Wi-Fi.

 Ever accidentally dated a “diamond mogul”… who turned out to be a financial black hole?  Episode 2 of A C*nts Guide to Peace – Season 2 is OUT NOW and we’re diving headfirst into the wild world of Tinder Swindler Simon Leviev  I’m unpacking the chaos, the manipulation, and my spicy little theory about how our outdated genetic coding might actually make us WAY more vulnerable to smooth-talking con...

Have you ever looked back at an old… let’s call them a chapter… and thought, with a full-body shudder, “why on earth did I ever find that smouldering skip-fire attractive?” Well, welcome to Season Two of A Cnt’s Guide to Peace, in which I present my perfectly serious, entirely “academic” thesis: that many of our worst dating decisions aren’t personal failings at all, but the result of outdated bio...

🎙️ New Episode: “Sober vs. Cali Sober” Longtime sober legend (and rock star) Tommy Vext drops by the studio - and what started as a quick hello turned into a full-on debate! We dive into the whole “sober vs. Cali sober” conversation — why I don’t totally hate the term (even if, let’s be real, you can’t reinvent “sober”), and why I think scaling back before getting fully clean can actually be part...

I could try to explain the absolute disaster that was this flight - BOTH ways - but where do I even begin? Let’s just say I’ve enjoyed years of smooth, carefree travel… so apparently the universe decided I was long overdue for a train wreck in the sky. And oh, did it deliver. Here’s the kicker: among the things that went missing in the lost luggage was the portable podcast gear we were going to us...

POV:You’re abandoned as a newborn in Thailand - and your rescuers discover you have no legs. Fast forward 30+ years… you’re a recording holding professional skater? Meet Kanya Sesser - one of the most inspiring, magnetic people I’ve ever met. She radiates positivity; when she walks (or rather, rolls) into a room, everyone’s energy rises to meet hers. In this episode, we covered it all. Honestly, I...

I had the absolute joy of sitting down with one of my favorite humans, the incomparable actor Max Martini! My first encounter with Max wasn’t in real life but on screen—through his unforgettable role as Mac in The Unit, one of my all-time favorite characters. Years later, life tossed in a twist: I moved to NYC, started dating someone, and—surprise—it turned out he was a close friend of Max’s. We c...

 Sebastian Siegel is back on the pod! His first appearance stirred the pot, so of course, I had to invite him again. Yet again, we dive into the messy, magical art of finding your way back from self-abandonment . Sebastian unpacks his TED Talk “The Invisible Force Driving Our Lives & 5 Stages of Love” while I toss in questions inspired by my book A Cunt’s Guide to Peace. Buckle up-it’s equal p...

What an episode! You may know Tommy Vext as the powerhouse lead singer of Bad Wolves, the band that rose to global fame with their unforgettable cover of The Cranberries’ “Zombie.” Over the course of his career, he’s achieved Diamond, Gold, and Platinum status multiple times, and has also fronted bands including Divine Heresy, Snot, and Westfield Massacre. I, however, first came across Tommy in a...

Rashaad has always been something of an intriguing figure in my life. As he shares in our interview, I first noticed him years ago at the gym-back when I was still drinking heavily and carrying extra weight. We’d occasionally cross paths at Ralph’s too; his cart neatly stacked with nourishing food to fuel his training, mine filled with wine and whatever indulgence I craved to soothe the aftermath...

The fascinating thing about having friends like Firefly is that they’re a bit like the sun. It rises and sets every single day, and because it’s always there, we forget the sheer magic of it. That’s how I (and I suspect many others) perceive Firefly. On one hand, she’s the friend I’ll have wonderfully long, meandering chats with whenever our schedules align. On the other, she’s this radiant force...

the artist episode,how deliciously overdue. As some of you know, I’m an abstract surrealist painter, and in sobriety, I’ve found my way back to the studio with a clarity and reverence I hadn’t known before. Art has always been my portal, but sobriety gifted me the stillness to step through it properly. It’s one of those strange and sacred gifts of a clear mind like suddenly being fluent in your ow...

Oh, don’t mind us,just two women fan-girling over each other in broad daylight!  Marissa is one of those skaters I quietly admired from a distance at the park, unsure exactly what drew me in beyond her obvious talent on wheels. Maybe it was the way the whole space seemed to light up when she was around-the sincerity in her hugs, that radiant smile that made everyone feel seen. We only just properl...

This was such a beautiful, heart-filled interview! I always try to bring you guests I think will leave you inspired and with hope. Meet my guest, the lovely Sammy Myer,  the founder of papasweater  shares how her love for design first blossomed through wardrobe styling until people around her started pointing out what was clear all along: she was thinking, moving, and creating like a true designer...

Raise your hand if you happened to be at the center of one of the largest federal drug smuggling cases in modern history, outmaneuvered the notorious prisoner’s dilemma, represented yourself in court, and managed to have a 30-year sentence reduced to 17—ultimately walking free after just 12 years served. Then, against all odds, you not only rebuilt your life but soared to the top, earning a covete...

This was such a special interview—one I genuinely cherished. I was deeply moved by Dakota Dean’s courage, honesty, and willingness to speak so openly about the darker chapters of her life, and the raw, often gut-wrenching reality of her sobriety journey. Dakota is a remarkable woman who has navigated and transcended many versions of herself—from the world of OnlyFans and Instagram influencer world...

And we’re off to Bali! Joining me for this episode is the incredible Anth Lowther—a true force of health, authenticity, and transformation. Anths mission? World peace through radical self-love. He’s spent the last 15+ years sober, learning what it really means to honor his body, live in integrity, and help others do the same. He’s also the visionary behind the wildly successful Rise and Shine sobe...

Doing “the right thing” doesn’t mean you’ll feel happy. As someone who struggles to access her feelings , (the positive ones in particular) me and my sponsor seniajade talk about what it’s like to have to shelf the idea of being happy in favor of restoring your integrity and moral compass in order to be good with yourself. We discuss what being in service means, my outreach sharingvenice that was...

Featuring Sebastian Siegel! a British-American screenwriter, director, author, and actor from Oxford, England Part of his mission statement on his website deeplyconsious.com says “Through traditional, transpersonal, and integral psychotherapeutic methods we explore the effects that conscious and unconscious thoughts are having on decisions, states of being, and patterns of behavior. We explore how...

I was always considered the "sleeper". the one no one could have guessed would be the most problematic one of the group especially when under the influence.  I think peoples perception of an addict or a drunk is tied to such a specific image that it almost makes those of us that are 'sleepers' think we might not have a problem. My guest here is Paige Phillips who is the stereotypical 'crashout' ad...