A Blessing in Divorce

Contemplating leaving a long-term relationship or marriage?  It’s one of the toughest decisions you will make. And one of the reasons it’s so hard is because we have never been taught that we are allowed to choose to be happy even if it doesn’t make your partner happy. Are you feeling emotionally exhausted? Tired of fighting for the relationship all by yourself. Frustrated continuously giving...

I have known Dr. Amy for almost as long as I have been running The Separation Club. We actually met online but I don’t even remember exactly how now. We Masterminded with each other for a while and still keep in touch. I have always valued her very compassionate, kind and practical approach to co-parenting. She always puts the kids first but does so in a way that feels good for the parents. ...

How did my ex just stop loving me all of a sudden and how do I stop loving them? Love - the thing we all seek and want. To be loved unconditionally. To be valued and put above all others. To feel passion and deep love from  your heart and to your heart from another. But love is complicated and not as unselfish as we would like to think. It’s often transactional and weighed in more or less, mo...

Closure - something we want from someone else, but really only need from within.  So often a coaching session with a new client will start with "I just feel like I can't move on until I get closure". My answer is always the same; "Sure you can. What do you feel you need closure on? Let's figure out why you feel you need that and how you can give that to yourself.  KEY TAKEAWAYS FROM...

Develop Self-awareness, find your voice... How do you do that? Let me tell you.   Today I talk about developing self-awareness and figuring out who you are. Why that matters and everything that goes with this. It’s kind of the first step to a truly happy, joyful and inspired life. Which I’m guessing you would like for yourself. Let me first ask you this? Do you believe it’s possible for yours...

It was such a pleasure speaking with Eva. She cares so much about helping her clients understand and come to grips with the financial plan that will serve them and their family best. First, some facts about her:  Eva Sachs is a recognized expert in financial planning in divorce. She is passionate about providing clients with financial clarity, compassion and confidence at various stages of th...

A nice and short episode for you today. People pleasing is one of those labels that people (mostly women) will use to describe themselves. Usually with a shrug or as a way of saying "I'm just too nice for my own good". And you know what? That's the bottom line. Are you so busy pleasing everyone else that your mental health is suffering and possibly you are also doing a lot more than...

Today I’m sharing a live Masterclass with you so this is a little different but I’m really excited to share such a positive topic with you. You will hear me mention Part 1 of this Masterclass series and the replay of that is available to you by joining The Club (yes it’s free) using the link below. There you can catch that video replay as well as video replays of all past Masterclasses.  &nbs...

Regain, reclaim and live your worth. Self-worth - elusive but available. Self-worth comes up often in one on one sessions and group coaching/support calls. And equally often my client or student expresses not knowing how to feel worthy and even wonders what that means. Self-worth is defined as our own sense of our worth and value to others. It’s attached to our sense of belonging. Where we are on...

Ready isn't a feeling, it's a decision. Welcome back to another episode of A Blessing in Divorce. The end of a marriage or long term relationship is devastating and disruptive to your life. Whether you’re the one who ended it or if your partner did - this is possibly the most difficult period of your life to date. It feels like being thrown into an emotional spin cycle that is never going to end a...

Welcome to the first episode of A Blessing In Divorce! I am so excited and grateful to be here chatting with you though I don't love the reason. What I know is that you want to feel better or you wouldn't be right here right now. There is no question that divorce or the end of a long term relationship changes your life forever. Everything changes. You current, your future and it feels like your pa...

Welcome to A Blessing In Divorce . First episode drops on September 7th, 2022. In the meantime, please subscribe so you don't miss a single episode.  This Podcast is hosted by Elisabeth Joy - the Owner & Founder of The Separation Club. She is the mother of 4 grown sons, step mom to 3 and a compassionate guide and coach for women who are navigating separation and divorce. Check out Th...