18 Summers: Podcast for Parents

The debate around education is everywhere right now. With so many families championing a return to public school so children can "face adversity," we decided it was time to sit down and share our honest thoughts on the modern education system. In this episode, we explore the pros, cons, and missing elements of both traditional and alternative education. We discuss why the current school model ofte...

There is not just one path to growing a family. In this episode of 18 Summers, we sit down to share our honest, firsthand experiences with the different types of adoption. From navigating the uncertain and beautiful mess of foster care to pursuing a private open adoption and completing a step-parent adoption, we are laying it all out there. We discuss how we built a standout adoption profile, the...

Is the goal of parenting to keep our children happy? While it sounds like a noble objective, prioritizing constant happiness might actually be doing more harm than good. In this episode, we dive into the "happiness trap" and explore why a range of emotions, including disappointment and sadness is essential for a child's development. We break down the danger of over-scheduling, the necessity of fai...

Imagine walking past your teen's room and hearing them talk… but it's not to a friend. It's to AI. AI is not stealing our kids' relationships. It's doing something more subtle. It's making it easier to avoid building them. In this episode, Jamie and Jim tackle one of the biggest parenting questions of the last year: how do we guide our kids in a world where AI is always available, always responsiv...

Blending a family is not magical at first. It's two entire worlds trying to share one kitchen, one routine, and one emotional landscape. In this episode, Jamie and Jim break down the biggest mistake blended families make: trying to force the "we're one big happy family now" moment. They share the simple framework from The Family Board Meeting that helped them build trust, safety, and belonging ins...

Family trips are supposed to be magical. So why do they sometimes feel messy, chaotic, and completely exhausting? In this episode, Jamie and Jim unpack the real reasons parents avoid traveling with their kids. From schedule disruptions and budget fears to airport meltdowns and unexpected emergencies, they share honest stories from years of traveling as a growing family of seven. The truth? Travel...

Thinking about adoption? There are beautiful moments ahead, but there are also myths, pressure, and realities most people never talk about. In this deeply personal episode, Jamie and Jim Sheils share their own adoption journey as a blended family of five children, including adoption at birth and adoption at older ages. They break down the misconceptions, emotional pressures, bonding challenges, an...

Is school actually preparing your kids for real life… or just teaching them how to pass tests? In this episode, Jamie and Jim Sheils unpack the uncomfortable truth about modern education and why some of the most important life skills are never taught in a classroom. From emotional intelligence to financial literacy, they share the three core areas every child needs to thrive personally and profess...

Want a family that thrives, not just survives? Lee Benson breaks down his game-changing formula to turn everyday moments into lasting bonds. Tune in to learn how intentional dinners, distraction-free hangouts, and simple rituals can transform your household into a powerhouse of love, growth, and community.   Key takeaways to listen for Practical strategies for setting family goals and assigning me...

Balancing boardrooms and ball fields is no small feat. Scott Danner, AAMS®, demonstrates how he balances a high-octane career with parenting two teenage soccer players, navigating double-booked calendars, empty-nest moments, and home-based hacks. Learn about his four-pillar L.I.F.E. Model to stay aligned amid chaos and build a lasting legacy by tuning in!   Key takeaways to listen for What unexpec...

What if your kid's lemonade stand became a legit business? In this episode, we crack the "Education Matrix" code, turning allowances into assets, guiding kids to buy real estate, launch ventures, and master money without brewing entitlement. Get ready-to-use tools and stories to make you their first business coach.   Key takeaways to listen for Why everyday financial topics in conversations are vi...

What does it really take to thrive as a blended family for over 14 years? In this episode, we share hard-earned lessons, honest stories, and the intentional practices that helped us navigate challenges and strengthen our bond. Tune in for practical advice on communication, connection, and creating unity in your blended family journey.   Key takeaways to listen for The value of effective communicat...

Is traditional education failing entrepreneurs? Russell Gray reveals why Main Street capitalism, real-world economic education, and mentorship hold the keys to thriving businesses and prosperous families. Learn how financial intelligence can transform your approach to entrepreneurship and wealth-building in this eye-opening episode.   Key takeaways to listen for The definition and importance of Ma...

Today, we delve into the complexities of maintaining a healthy relationship, particularly when facing communication challenges and emotional conflicts. Dial in as we share personal experiences and strategies for fostering understanding, respect, and emotional connection in a relationship. Key takeaways to listen for Underrated benefits of shared healing Why you need to be open about personal strug...

Tackling entitlement in parenting can be daunting. Dive into this thought-provoking episode where we explore effective strategies to foster work ethic, financial responsibility, and humility in children. Learn from community insights and practical parenting techniques to raise grounded and responsible individuals. Key takeaways to listen for The role of education in preventing an egocentric view o...

Creating a strong foundation for kids is a parent's ultimate mission, and Nellie Harden is here to guide you. In this episode, the family empowerment coach and author unpacks the critical 6,570 days that shape a child's future, especially young women. Dive into her practical strategies, personal experiences, and insights from her book to help parents instill confidence, worth, and lasting values....

Join us as we reflect on the personal and professional journeys of 2025. Today's episode explores how embracing growth through adversity and making pivotal life and business decisions can align with your deepest values. From restructuring our podcast to making impactful family and real estate investments, we share insights on navigating life's challenges with purpose and passion. Key takeaways to...

Fishing is more than a hobby for Alden Sheils—it's a way of life. In this episode, we explore how he built his career from scratch, earning his captain's license straight out of high school and learning from the best. Hear his insights on resilience, personal growth, and why choosing your own path is the ultimate key to success.   Key takeaways to listen for How Alden turned a love for fishing int...

Dive into Leland Sheils' compelling story of non-traditional education and remarkable recovery from a life-altering car accident. Discover how his unique learning experiences and personal philosophies have shaped his views on financial literacy and overcoming adversity. Listen in to learn about the transformative power of personalized learning paths and self-motivation.     Key takeaways to listen...

In this heartfelt episode, we discuss the profound lessons learned from recent family experiences. From navigating the challenges of parenting transitions to dealing with the loss of a family pet, we share insights on nurturing intuition, fostering bravery, and the importance of one-on-one family time. Key takeaways to listen for A powerful lesson from a daddy-daughter date Simple adventures that...

Open your heart to the magic of holiday celebrations in this episode, where we share personal stories and practical tips for enriching family gatherings. Learn how to navigate potential stressors and embrace new traditions to create memorable and meaningful experiences. Whether you're refining festive routines or introducing fresh ideas, this discussion is packed with insights to make your celebra...

Join Dr. Alan E. Nelson as he probes the early indicators of leadership in children, including how parents can nurture these traits to foster potential leaders from a young age. Delving into the unique characteristics of neurodivergent leaders and the pivotal role of parental guidance, he shares insights from his extensive experience in leadership development. Understand how to support and cultiva...

Explore the depths of grief and resilience with Jessica Fein as we delve into her challenging adoption journey, the ethical questions around international adoptions, and the profound impact of her daughter's life and untimely passing. Gain invaluable insights on coping with loss and finding strength in fear, offering solace and guidance for those facing similar hardships. Key takeaways to listen f...

How can you integrate family life with career ambitions successfully? Join renowned author and entrepreneur Michael Hyatt, along with his wife Gail, as they share insights on setting boundaries, crafting a family vision, and the tools they've used to maintain balance. Hop in to discover strategies for thriving in both family and career!     Key takeaways to listen for Lack of boundaries and the st...

If you're seeking insider tips on cultivating a thriving marriage, this episode is a must-listen! Today, we delve into the intricacies of maintaining a healthy and robust partnership. Drawing from personal experiences, we share practical strategies for nurturing a relationship that not only survives but flourishes through life's ups and downs.     Key takeaways to listen for Why you must genuinely...