Placemarker 4 Perversion Podcast

In this episode, Mistress Audry Lu Black and Lumbersnackster explore the art and craft of kink toy making. Lumbersnackster shares his personal journey from creator to pro-dom and shares the creative processes behind some of his most popular pieces. They also talk about the importance of safety and communication when it comes to impact play. Lumbersnackster provides advice for practitioners and ent...

As a special treat, we're releasing this segment from our upcoming episode 'Whips and Flails and Dragon Tails, That's What Pro-doms Are Made Of'. (Coming out October 1st, 2026). Mistress Audry Lu Black and Lumbersnackster take a chance to discuss their favorite impact toys, and the works of art he crafts into beautiful tools. September 27th, Placemarker4Perversion Podcast will be hosting a fundrai...

As a special treat, we're releasing this sneak peak from our upcoming episode 'Whips and Flails and Dragon Tails, That's What Pro-doms Are Made Of'. (Coming out October 1st, 2026). We hope you enjoy this clip of Dom, Sub, Switch, where Mistress Audry Lu Black and Lumbersnackster review the characters of Veggie Tales through the DSS lens. September 27th, Placemarker4Perversion Podcast will be hosti...

In this episode, Mistress Audry Lu Black and Elizabeth Black, LCSW-BACS, LICSW, take a deep dive into the world of kink-informed therapy. They unpack crucial concepts like the difference between triggers and activations, how age play can help address attachment wounds, and why true consent goes far beyond a simple "yes" in both therapeutic and kink contexts. They also challenge the conventional wi...

In this conversation with Mistress Audry Lu Black, Jon AKA HiThereCatsuit, a podcaster and kink enthusiast, shares his personal journey of embracing gender fluidity and breaking societal labels. He lends insight into authentic storytelling, kink as self-care, and the creation of safe, community-driven spaces. They talk about vulnerability, respect, and genuine connection, and how they empower pers...

In this conversation, Mistress Audry Lu and Slave X delve into the evolution of female domination, exploring the complexities of kink, masculinity, and entitlement. Slave X shares his personal journey from a confused alpha male to a content creator in the Femdom space, discussing the importance of understanding one's own privilege. They also touch on the empowerment that comes from embracing one's...

In this engaging conversation, Maid Rosie shares his journey into the world of kink and service submission with Mistress Audry Lu Black. They discuss the significance of his maid persona and the role of uniforms in service roles. The dialogue explores the evolution of identity within the kink community and the dynamics of trust and safety in dominance and submission. Maid Rosie emphasizes the joy...

In this conversation, Mistress Audry Lu Black and Sydney the Fat Troublemakr delve into the complexities of grief within polyamorous relationships, particularly focusing on the often unacknowledged and deferred grief that arises from losing a partner. They discuss the societal expectations surrounding grief, the lack of resources available for those navigating loss in polyamorous contexts, and the...

In this dialogue, B.J. Frazier and Mistress Audry Lu Black explore the intricate relationship between writing and kink. They discuss the nuances of writing erotic literature and the tools available for effective communication in BDSM. The conversation concludes with reflections on the dynamics of domination and submission, highlighting the importance of understanding motivations and desires in bot...

In this engaging conversation, Mistress Audrey Lu Black interviews Bran Hellbent, a skilled carpenter and woodworker with a lifetime of experience. They explore the aesthetics, functionality, and craftsmanship behind BDSM tools, emphasizing the importance of quality and personalization. They explore the design process and safety considerations. Bran details the pieces he has designed to create ada...

Therapy for the Sex-Positive and Kink-Informed In this engaging conversation, Mistress Audry Lu Black sits down with Dr. Sam and Dr. G to talk about sex-positive, kink-informed therapy. They compare finding a therapist to the dynamics of dating: finding the right fit and continuing to explore the relationship. They discuss what red flags to look for, including consent and ethical boundaries. Resou...

In this conversation, AudryLu Black and Kol discuss the importance of community-owned education in the BDSM and leather communities. They explore the role of consent classes, the significance of non-verbal communication, and the impact of online communities. The discussion also touches on the rich history and values of the leather community. They emphasize the need for inclusivity, community suppo...

Mistress AudryLu Black and Goddess Aroya Lessons examine the intersections of BDSM practice, podcasting, and personal evolution. Their discussion navigates pop culture's influence on identity and relationship dynamics within power exchange. They explore the balance between training and domination and the value of being correctable in leadership. The conversation extends to positioning in dominance...

In this episode, Mistress AudryLu Black, Sharkey, and Zander peel back the curtain of the furry community. They trace the intimate pathways of entry, where conventions become spaces for profound connection and belonging. The conversation navigates the complex architecture of identity, where fursonas emerge not as escapism but as expressions of self. What begins as an exploration of subculture beco...

In this conversation, K. Andrew Turner and Mistress Audry Lu Black dissect the intersection of queerness, identity, and disability. They talk about navigating public spaces engineered for exclusion. Access and accommodation are not generosity; they are the minimum requirements for any community that claims to be inclusive. Their dialogue encompasses love, attraction, and the dynamics of relationsh...

In this conversation, Mistress AudryLu Black and Sckratch delve into the nuances of bratting within the BDSM community. They explore the various styles of bratting, emphasizing the importance of respectful interaction, understanding boundaries, and the intent behind teasing. They also explore the playful nature of bratting, contrasting it with petty behavior, and the importance of negotiation in e...

In this conversation, Mistress Audry Lu Black and Mistress Natalie delve into the complexities of power dynamics within BDSM relationships. They explore the balance between ego and submission and the human needs that underpin power exchanges. The discussion also highlights generational shifts in attitudes towards power and intimacy, advocating for a more holistic approach to self-care and emotiona...

In this conversation, Mistress Audry Lu BLack sits down with Evey Winters to explore what happens inside isolationist spaces—how the promise of belonging can quietly harden into rigid, black-and-white thinking. They unpack “red pill” ideology and the way it rejects nuance, demanding absolutes where real human experience lives in the gray. Together, they also turn toward survival and truth: why bel...

In this conversation, Mistress AudryLu Black sits down with Katherine Studley—a tax consultant who works fluently in the spicy economy—to unravel the quiet complexities of filing taxes as a sex worker. They talk about the realities that rarely make it into polite financial advice: stigma, discretion, and the very real labor of keeping your livelihood protected in a world that isn’t always kind or...

In this layered exchange, Mistress Audrey Lu Black and Eve Hall approach intimacy with both curiosity and command—unpacking “Big Clit Energy” as a philosophy of confidence, communication, and embodied awareness rather than a slogan. They move through sexual health with clarity and care, touching on pelvic floor wellness, fantasy, and roleplay as tools for connection, not performance. The conversat...

In this conversation, Lady Sheba moves with the kind of confidence that comes from lived knowledge—speaking as a dominatrix, educator, and artist who understands both the psychology and the poetry of her world. She traces the quiet power of makeup as ritual and signal, reflects on her stewardship at the Carter/Johnson Library, and honors leather not just as material, but as memory—stitched deeply...

This conversation, between Mistress Audry Lu Black and Maeve McBride, delves into the intricate connections between sexuality, kink, and personal empowerment. They explore how societal norms shape our understanding of worth, the intersection of birth and kink, and the importance of education in fostering acceptance and safety in vulnerable experiences. They discuss the significance of boundaries i...

In this engaging conversation, Jules Brats-a-Lot and Mistress AudryLu Black explore the complexities of identity within the kink community, particularly focusing on the experiences of 'littles' and the dynamics of age play and age regression. They discuss the importance of community, representation, and the stigma surrounding these identities, while also exploring the joy and nostalgia that come w...

In this episode, recorded live at DomCon NOLA, Mistress Audry Lu Black interviews Mistress Cyan, FemDom powerhouse founder of DomCon and owner of Sanctuary in Los Angeles. They discuss embracing the intersection of professional domination and lifestyle BDSM. Their conversation includes what we can learn from each other, how we all deserve community and the role of professional doms within that com...

In this conversation, Mistress AudruLu Black and Paul Faust discuss his journey in the kink community, focusing on the events produced by Faustian Society and the aesthetic of Torture Garden. The dialogue explores the cultural differences between kink in Europe and America, the legal challenges faced in the U.S., and the complex relationship Americans have with sexuality. Faust emphasizes the impo...