Divorced But Never Defeated

Divorced Mom and Divorced Dad are learning to parent with faith, not fear, as they navigate the emotional challenges of co-parenting after two painful divorces. From separate homes and through difficult legal battles, they are choosing truth over bitterness. Rather than attack their exes, they ask thoughtful questions, stay emotionally grounded, and help their children think for themselves, even w...

Divorced Mom and Divorced Dad are navigating the highs and lows of co-parenting while confronting the many ways they have been undermined, both overtly and covertly. They reflect on the quiet heartbreak of realizing how many precious moments were covertly sabotaged during the marriage. They share the milestone of their kindergartener’s graduation and a tense encounter with exes and their entourage...

Divorced Dad and Divorced Mom share their journey through high-conflict co-parenting, court battles, and the small, hard-won victories that keep them going. They’ve spent years dealing with difficult exes, false accusations, legal red tape, and emotional chaos. Their goal is to offer insight, validation, and real talk for anyone trying to raise kids after divorce. Whether it’s learning how to docu...

Divorced Mom and Divorced Dad discuss the realities of navigating co-parenting through legal battles, emotional landmines, and the ongoing challenge of putting their kids first. From accusations of parental alienation to custody threats and financial manipulation, they’ve remained committed to integrity, truth, and emotional clarity. With the help of careful documentation, emotional regulation, an...

Divorced Mom and Divorced Dad open up about the raw, real, and often messy realities of navigating post-divorce life, co-parenting, and rebuilding stability for their kids. Divorced Mom reflects on providing evidence to counter lies in the court process and learning that the truth doesn’t always bring justice, but it builds credibility over time. Divorced Dad opens up about trying to co-parent wit...

Divorced Dad and Divorced Mom shine a light on the often-overlooked realities of co-parenting after divorce, like juggling sports schedules, school events, and daily routines when the other parent isn’t aligned, or worse, is actively working against them. From financial strain to logistical chaos, they share the emotional toll of staying calm and grounded for their kids in the face of constant con...

Divorced Dad and Divorced Mom open up about the raw, behind-the-scenes realities of co-parenting after difficult divorces from equally difficult exes. From tense courtroom moments to the emotional toll of enforcing hard-earned court orders, they share the exhausting—but—empowering journey of showing up for their children without always having the support they need. Divorced Mom reflects on represe...

Divorced Dad and Divorced Mom explore the delicate balance between navigating court orders and fostering meaningful connections after significant life changes. They discuss the importance of understanding and utilizing certified court orders to manage custody arrangements and handle difficult moments with ex-partners. Through real-life stories, they offer practical insights on how to effectively n...

There are many types of divorces, ranging from peaceable and mature to high-conflict and psychologically exhausting. In our (Divorced Dad and Divorced Mom) opinions, from our point of view, each of our ex spouses seem set on stirring up chaos.  In this episode we give examples of this, including giving mixed messages, purposefully trying to trigger you, or weaving a narrative of victimhood to othe...

Welcome back to the Divorced but Never Defeated Podcast. Since our last episode, we have both learned even more about life after a divorce. We are so glad we finally get to share some of these new discoveries with all of you.   I (Divorced Dad) have recently been reflecting on what it looks like to find identity in who I am, and not necessarily in the difficult and costly 3-year process I’ve been...

Do you feel like you’ve been under attack since your divorce? On today’s episode of Divorced But Never Defeated, we talk about the feeling of bracing ourselves for a consistent barrage of slander and resistance, and how we’re even learning to laugh about it. It’s important to remember that your ex behaves how they behave. We’re wise to refrain from expecting something different than what they’ve c...

Welcome to the Divorced But Never Defeated podcast. We, Divorced Mom and Divorced Dad, represent two different divorce experiences, and know the process can feel lonely and challenging.  This is a podcast where we’ll share some things we’ve learned the hard way so you don’t have to, as well as what we’ve discovered about co-parenting, healing, and creating a bright future for ourselves after divor...