#AskAMan

Anonymous has been in a relationship with a married man for the last three years and says it’s been a rollercoaster. She has now met a new man, who’s single, seems great, and ticks a lot of boxes. She would like to pursue something with this new guy but says she’s struggling to let go of her married boyfriend.

Anonymous has been with his partner for about 10 years now and says their relationship has been generally good. A few weeks ago, while at a party, he met another lady, they hit it off, and he started having an affair with this lady. While he is just having a fun sexual relationship, this lady, who is married, wants things to get more serious between them. Anonymous is not sure what to do as the on...

Anonymous and her partner have been married for three years now and they’ve been together for 5 years overall.  She lost her job about a year ago and has been struggling to get something new, leaving her partner to be the sole breadwinner.  Her problem is that she feels like he’s not financially ambitious enough, and when she suggests businesses they can get into to improve t...

Anonymous and her partner have been married for three years now and they’ve been together for 5 years overall.  She lost her job about a year ago and has been struggling to get something new, leaving her partner to be the sole breadwinner.  Her problem is that she feels like he’s not financially ambitious enough, and when she suggests businesses they can get into to improve t...

Anonymous has been with his partner for about 6 years now after knowing each other at work for about 3 years as friends, as she was in a relationship at the time. They started dating well after she broke up with the father of her child. They agreed to have a child together from the beginning of their relationship, but they’ve struggled to conceive.  He cheated on her with another lady s...

Anonymous has been with her partner for about two years now, after coming out of a 13-year relationship that produced two children.  This weekend, when she happened to be using his phone, she found voice notes from some other lady that were suspicious, she got angry and hit her partner.  She comes from a toxic and violent background which she thinks has led to her aggressive behaviour to...

Anonymous has been with her husband for 6 years now and they have two children together.  Her partner started acting off towards her about 3 years ago and then at some point he even stopped sleeping in their room without much of an explanation.  He eventually opened up to anonymous and revealed that he wasn’t comfortable around her as he felt like she has bad energies and those ene...

Anonymous and her partner have been together for seven years now and they have two children together.  She found out that he was cheating on her last year but she forgave him after he made an effort to win her back, and they are now engaged.  Things have now gotten weird in their relationship and he has become sexually avoidant. She’s not sure what to read into this.