Settled

We’re diving into the final episode of our childlikeness series, where we unwrap the powerful connection between imagination and a flourishing marriage. We explore how imagination isn’t just a whimsical fantasy; it’s a vital tool we can use to envision healthier relationships and a deeper connection with God. We discuss the distinction between healthy imagination and destructive fantasies, emphasi...

We dive deep into the concept of being childlike, emphasizing that Jesus said we must adopt this mindset to enter the kingdom of God. As we explore what it truly means to be inquisitive, we reflect on how children perceive the world with wonder and awe, often seeing things adults overlook. We share personal anecdotes that highlight our own experiences of curiosity and the joy that comes from embra...

We dive deep into the essence of childlikeness, focusing on innocence and what it truly means to live with that quality in our lives. We explore how Jesus emphasizes the importance of becoming like children to engage with the kingdom of God, highlighting the genuine curiosity and openness that children embody. As we unpack the complexities of guilt versus innocence, we discuss how societal judgmen...

This week, we dive deep into the concept of interdependence versus independence, particularly in the context of childlikeness. We explore what it truly means to have community and the importance of recognizing who’s around us and why that matters. It’s all about understanding our needs and how they connect us to others, as we reflect on the beauty of being able to express those needs like children...

We dive into the compelling invitation from Jesus to embrace a childlike spirit as a pathway to the kingdom of heaven. The conversation gets real as we explore what it truly means to be childlike—not childish—in our faith journey. We unpack the significance of dependence, joy, and the raw honesty that children embody. Through relatable anecdotes, we illustrate how societal pressures often stifle o...

This week, we’re diving deep into the heart of family dynamics as we explore the significance of gathering around the table. We share our personal journey of how we created a weekly family dinner tradition, which we affectionately dubbed our Shabbat meal. The table became a sacred space where we not only shared meals but also engaged in meaningful conversations about our lives and emotions, encour...

This episode dives deep into the roles we adopt within our families and how these roles shape our identities. We explore the idea that family dynamics can often feel like a framework into which we are poured as children, with each of us taking on specific roles—whether we were asked to or not. From the silent absorber to the family punchline, we share our personal experiences and humorous anecdote...

Exploring the concept of God as Mother may just be the most liberating conversation we've had yet. In this episode, we dive into the often overlooked feminine attributes of God, challenging conventional views of the divine as strictly paternal. Through personal stories and scripture, we reveal how embracing God’s maternal qualities can bring healing and a deeper understanding of our relationship w...

We're diving deep into how we perceive God as Father in this episode, and it’s a pretty crucial topic. The way we view God is often shaped by our experiences with our earthly fathers, whether those relationships are filled with love or carry deep wounds. We share our personal stories to explore how these dynamics affect our view of God and ourselves. Together, we’ll process those feelings and invi...

We dive deep into our concept of God today, focusing specifically on how our understanding of Jesus shapes our identity and our relationships. This conversation is not just enlightening; it's liberating. We explore how our early family experiences and the dynamics of sibling relationships heavily influence our perceptions of God and ourselves. With humor and vulnerability, we reflect on our person...

We're diving into the transformative concept of God in this new series, exploring how our perception of Him shapes our entire experience of life. I mean, how we see God isn't just an abstract idea; it profoundly impacts how we view ourselves and the people around us. We're all carrying around some form of concept of God, often shaped by our upbringing, which can lead to some serious misunderstandi...

We dive into our marriage journey, sharing how we met and the unique dynamic that keeps our relationship vibrant and authentic. In this episode, we tackle the stereotypes that often shape marital expectations, emphasizing the importance of being true to ourselves rather than conforming to societal norms. We explore the playful differences in our communication styles—like my tendency to chat about...

Join us as we dive into the intriguing world of prophecy, a subject that sparks a variety of opinions and conversations. We're unpacking our personal journeys with the prophetic, shedding light on how it can be a powerful tool for encouragement and reconciliation rather than something to fear. We believe that everyone can engage with the prophetic—not just a select few—and through this episode, we...

We're diving deep into who we are at SettledCo, and let me tell you, it's been quite the journey! We're not just a counseling company; we're a community passionate about helping others occupy their true selves in Christ. From our humble beginnings—when I, Jason, launched the company solo after leaving a decade-long church staff role—to now, where Elizabeth has officially joined the adventure, we'v...

Today, we dive into the transformative practice of meditation and contemplation, exploring how these moments of silence can help us truly hear God. This episode wraps up our series on connecting with God not through words, but through stillness and presence. We’ll discuss how stepping away from the noise of daily life allows us to be present with ourselves and with God, and help dispel the pressur...

Today, we're diving into the profound topic of being known as a friend of God. It’s not just about knowing Him; it’s about the incredible reality that He knows us deeply and intimately. We explore different dimensions of knowing God—cognitive, emotional, and even that profound intimacy likened to a marriage. Along the way, we share personal stories about our struggles with anxiety and how vulnerab...

Today, we're diving into a conversation about finding a safe place with God, a concept that can transform how we hear Him. We explore the idea that feeling safe is a core human need, and when we don’t feel safe, we tend to hide or put on facades instead of bringing our true selves to the table. With insights drawn from Scripture, we highlight that God serves as our strong tower, providing refuge a...

We're diving deep into the art of asking, seeking, and knocking—yes, it's not just a catchy phrase; it's a lifeline for hearing God in our lives! In this episode, we explore how persistence in our prayers and desires not only aligns us with God but also reflects our inner longings and truths. We'll unpack the importance of using our words, our eyes, and our bodies in this process, illustrating how...

Today, we’re diving deep into the concept of attunement and how it relates to hearing God. We’re exploring the idea that genuine connection with others—and with God—hinges on being seen, heard, and understood. Through some relatable stories, like a mom's response to her daughter’s mishap with a new pair of jeans, we’ll illustrate how attunement can transform our relationships and interactions. We’...

Today, we're diving into a thought-provoking discussion about how you don't actually need faith to hear God. I know, it sounds a bit wild, right? But it’s true! This episode really unpacks the idea that as children of God, we are inherently designed to hear Him without the pressure of mustering up faith first. We’re here to help you settle into the reality that you’re perfectly made to tune into H...

Today, we dive into the profound topic of hearing God, a conversation that challenges the notion that only the spiritual elite can tap into divine communication. We explore the idea that the language of God is not just a set of words but the very fabric of reality itself. In our discussion, we share personal experiences that illustrate how God speaks to us through peace, intuition, and even our em...

Today, we’re unpacking the profound topic of original design and what it means to be found in Christ before the very foundations of the earth were laid. It's a refreshing perspective that shifts the narrative away from original sin and towards the beautiful truth of our original innocence in Him. We dive deep into how our identity isn’t defined by our mistakes but rather by our inherent value as i...

We're diving into a pivotal discussion about our original design, focusing on the theme of being "naked and unashamed." This episode tackles the concept of shame and how it impacts our lives, encouraging us to identify the areas where we feel exposed and the voices that have influenced our self-perception. We reflect on the Genesis narrative, emphasizing that before the fall, humanity was created...

Today, we’re diving into a fascinating exploration of our original design as we unpack the significance of the two trees in the Garden of Eden. The central theme revolves around understanding the choice between the Tree of Life and the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil, and how this choice impacts our spiritual journey. We’ll help you discern which tree you might be drawing from in your own life,...

Today, we're diving into the profound topic of living from the image of God and how the impressions we allow from people and situations can distort our true identity. We explore the idea that many of us carry images shaped by past experiences, whether they be traumatic or simply misleading, which can leave us feeling devalued. Using the playful metaphor of Silly Putty, we discuss how these impress...