In the Family

Dear Diary, I can’t wait to be a mom but I’m worried about my mental health. Help!! Sincerely, The little girl in the glasses. In this solo episode, I talk about the hopes, fears, and prescriptions that shape my journey toward motherhood. Spoiler: it’s complicated, and that's okay. Enjoy!

BIG NEWS: Please welcome the first Martin that is not my husband, my brother-in-law, Ashton Martin! Today, we deep dive into his semester at the Brigham Young University Jerusalem Center for Near Eastern Studies. My mic drop moment from this conversation? Don’t teach belief with an agenda. Now, let’s tolerate, educate, and advocate. Enjoy!

You asked, and she answered! Ask Amy Anything is back, and by default, you get my advice, too. I have my own Ask Amy Anything question: How did I have so much self-confidence as a young, shy, and anxious child? Is there a parenting secret sauce I need to know about? Enjoy! Dr. Ivan Joseph on “The skill of self-confidence.” **** https://youtu.be/w-HYZv6HzAs?si=yOtKEG-Xjvu-u-vp

"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver Today, I am chatting with my cousin Elisabeth! She is the eldest of seven, a member of The Tabernacle Choir at Temple Square, the Utah Director of One Refugee, a beauty-seeker, and a frequent flier at Trader Joe's. Is she thirty, flirty, and thriving? Yes, yes, she is. Enjoy!

"What you do has far greater impact than what you say." - Steven Covey Today, I am chatting with Rexburg-born, BYU-Hawaii grad, and future lawyer John Zenger! This conversation is all over the map in the best kind of way. Everything from Idaho Mormonism to cringe-worthy dates, abandoned cars, law school drama, and more! What does John think about family members who have left the church?...

"Maybe the desire to make something beautiful is the piece of God that is inside each of us." -Mary Oliver Today, I start the episode by telling Pearl she owes us an explanation… and she delivers. A returning guest, Pearl, is headed to Denmark on an LDS mission, and she tells me about her journey from a faith crisis to submitting her mission papers. What does she believe in right now? Ho...

Bela is a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, and we DEEP dive into faith versus the institution of religion and whether or not she can live in the gray area. Despite that, she’s stoked for her little sister to go on a mission. But first, Bela talks about going on Love is Blind (not true) and beans. Enjoy!

Today, I am chatting with my favorite boy, Skyler Martin! He recently turned thirty, and his goal for the next decade is (drum roll please) to be a more avid reader! Plus, he gave out some fire book recs, and we discussed what it means to have a reading disability in high school and college. It's always a joy when the love of my life gets in front of the mic. Enjoy!

Today, I’m chatting with my one and only brother, Thomas Zenger! He’s a badass athlete, and I wish I could keep up with him (I’m too slow.) We deep dive into his mental blocks that get in the way of pursuing a professional skiing career. Plus, we remind ourselves to live a life honoring our values and not just jumping from achievement to achievement. Oh, and the book we’re gatekeeping? It’s “The S...

I know someone who has a problem with me not changing my last name… and it's not Skyler. Today, I am sharing why my future children will be hyphenated-last-name-outliers, and yes, I know they'll hate me for it. Plus, I reveal the name I want to use for my imaginary (hopefully real someday) baby. But please don't steal it! Enjoy.

Today, we go DEEP with Andi on her religious and mental health journey. There’s laughter, tears, and a few shoutouts to family members. But first, I ask Andi to woman-splain to me what the heck she does in the army and her best travel tips as a woman of the world (she travels a lot, ok?) Also, did you know that Yeti makes shot glasses? Enjoy!

Today, I am chatting with my dad (aka the Mayor of Millcreek) about all things outdoor sports: how to start, training for races, what gets him out of bed in the morning, trail recs, and his 2024 stats (1 million vertical feet… like ok superman!) He really is an everyday athlete. Don’t believe me? He gets up at 4:00 AM EVERY DAY to ski, trail run, or mountain bike. For athletes and non-athletes ali...

World, meet my cousin Kenzie! She’s a twin and a river guide studying violin making. Plus, she is a newlywed and hoping to be a mom someday. I had a blast chatting with Kenzie and learning more about her world. And what better way to learn about life through the lens of someone I love? Enjoy!

It’s me! Your favorite ex-mormon! Today, I talk about all things leaving the church. From my newfound values, why I left, my relationships with active church-goers, and what I believe now. Enjoy!

Need advice? Ask Amy (and me by default) Anything! You submitted your questions, from jealousy to marriage to religion, and we gave you our unqualified, unprofessional advice. Honestly, I love to pretend I know all the answers. Happy Holidays, and thanks for listening!

Today, I am chatting with my brother Thomas about his post-LDS mission mental health journey and spiritual transformation. Plus where he stands now in his faith and his positive experience in therapy. I think it goes without saying that I am proud of my brother and love him endlessly. Enjoy!

What's it like to move to LA and pursue a career as an actor? In today's episode, my cousin Bela gives up the scoop on her three-year stint in Los Angeles. But first, she recounts her most recent dating experiences and patiently listens to me talk about bears. Don't sleep on this episode! Bela is hilarious, and I'm just trying to keep up. Enjoy!

Happy Thanksgiving! I hope you have a lovely, relaxing day.

Today, I lay it ALLLL out about my relationship anxiety— past, present, and future. Yes, I “figured” it out, and yes, I still have it even though I'm married. Plus, I talk about boyfriends of the past. Spooky! Check out You Love and You Learn on Instagram— the holy grail of relationship anxiety. Enjoy!

Welcome back! Today, I’m chatting with my cousin Arya, who may or may not have thrown up at school in the third grade, just like me. Plus, we discuss procrastination, social media, and a cool habit I stole from Michael Phelps. Enjoy!

Here comes the bride—and the groom! On today's episode, join my HUSBAND and me as we recap our wedding. Plus, I sip on some V8 and chat about my favorite topic: babies. Enjoy!

On today's episode, I chat with my aunt Patricia about being a working mom and a "yes" woman. Plus, I learned what it means to be a caregiver and how her childhood was impacted by having a working mom of her own. Enjoy!

Welcome back! We’re kicking off season two with my mom and chatting about gender roles and feminism. What does it mean to be a woman? How do traditional teachings shape our understanding of womanhood? How has the LDS faith influenced our sense of identity? Thanks for listening!

Bad news: This is the season one finale of the In the Family podcast! Good news: I’ll be back on September 12th with season two!! Your job: Listen in as I brain-dump some thoughts and feelings and skirt around how I drink now and will probs get a tattoo. But it’s my birthday, so I’ll cry/ramble/word vomit/drink a margarita if I want to. Thank you for listening and supporting me!

On today's episode, we answer some burning questions: Do Thomas and I resent our parents? How did my Dad feel when I left the church? Why am I making "George Clooney for President" t-shirts? You'll have to tune in to today's episode as I chat with Joel, aka my Dad, aka the Mayor of Millcreek (IYKYK)! (No, we don't resent him… but maybe our mom? Jk. Does anyone even read t...