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Ask A Man 19 Oct '26: 'Should I Stay with Him Despite His Married Status' 19.10.2026 24:29 ↓

Anonymous has been with her partner for about 5 years now and they are currently in a long distance relationship because she lost her job and moved back home.  She then found out earlier this year that he’s actually married to someone else, who he paid lobola for a while back.  She wants to leave him but he’s been begging her to stay in their relationship. He’s been dia...

Ask A Man 29 Sep '26: 'I don't want to be a side, but I'm falling for him.' 29.09.2026 29:18 ↓

Anonymous met a guy who she immediately hit things off with and started having a relationship with him from the onset, and they’ve been together for about 6 months. However, a few months into the relationship she realised that he’s actually in a serious relationship with someone who he has children with.  She wants to exit this situation but she finds herself falling “deeply...

Ask A Man 28 Sep '26: 'Did my infidelity ruin us for good?' 28.09.2026 31:52 ↓

Anonymous met his current partner about 8 years ago, when he was still in varsity, and they’ve been together ever since.  He still had flings with other ladies at the beginning of their relationship but stopped that behaviour after they had their first child.  He eventually went back to his old ways of having affairs with other women, and this time his partner found out after seein...

Ask A Man 22 Sep '26: 'She was never into you.' 22.09.2026 28:43 ↓

Anonymous met a lady last year and says everything was fine between them until she found a job in another province, a couple of months into their relationship.  Her new job required her to have a car and he offered to finance a car on her behalf, something she refused but eventually agreed to it, however he ended up not getting the car as she was acting suspicious.  Their relationship st...

Ask A Man 21 Sep '26: 'Why did she move on so quickly?' 21.09.2026 31:42 ↓

Anonymous says when he met lady no.1 she was married, they dated despite this fact and she actually fell pregnant early in their relationship and anonymous says it’s his kid.  Things got sour between him and lady no.1 after she claimed to be moving to another country for work.  He then met lady no.2, who he initially didn’t tell about his child with the ex but has now confess...

Ask A Man: GBV Roundtable 18.09.2026 31:40 ↓

This morning, Ask a Man sounds a little different. We usually turn to our panel for honest conversations about love, relationships and the questions that sometimes leave us confused. But with gender-based violence gripping the nation, this is not a moment for business as usual. We call on you the Ask a Man community, we want to have a necessary and uncomfortable conversation; not to speak on behal...